Mistress Ariachne's BDSM Workshop

Mistress Ariachne's BDSM Workshop

Turning Pro!

2008-07-22

Singletail Construction and Buying Tips

2008-06-19

Coping With Post-Play "Drop"

2008-05-31

DIY BDSM! Get Cuffed!

2008-05-17

Anatomy of a Medical Scene

2008-02-03
If you want to play naughty nurse or kinky doctor and need to jump-start your imagination, use these handy suggestions for making the scene both erotic and convincing.

BDSM Emblems

2007-09-08
Whatever your motivation, there are a wide variety of ways -- subtle and bold -- that you can show the world you are into the BDSM scene.

The Joys of Clamping

2007-07-17
Clamps provide a wonderful way to add sensation to your scenes. Try a few different clamping techniques and you'll likely learn to love them.

Chemical Play Scenes

2007-05-17
Chemical sensations offers a wide variety of ways to expand your play. Use them for interesting new experiences with your BDSM partner.<P>

BDSM Vacations

2007-03-21
If the idea of a BDSM vacation sounds good to you, find out how to go about it with these tips from Mistress Ariachne.

BDSM Without Sex

2007-01-23
BDSM and sex go hand in hand, right? Maybe not. Mistress Ariachne discusses BDSM without sex!

Building and Using a St. Andrew's Cross

2007-01-15
Mistress Ariachne explores how to build and use a St. Andrew's cross.

Get in Sexual Shape

2007-01-05
Mistress Araichne discusses the importance of staying in shape - sexually!

Putting Your Sub into Sub-space

2006-12-17
Mistress Ariachne sheds some light on sub-space!

Self-Love for Women

2006-12-08
Most men masturbate regularly, but for some women masturbation seems to be taboo. Mistress Araichne explores this interesting topic and gives women tips on how to get started!

Tips for Great Blowjobs

2006-11-15
Tips and technique on how to give good head!

On Your (Kinky) Days Off

2006-11-03
Mistress Ariachne gives some (kinky) suggestions on how to get the most out of the time you spend alone!

Using Pain for Spiritual Purposes

2006-10-20
Taking pain for your Dom is one way to show your devotion and trust. Mistress Ariachne discusses the way pain can be used in BDSM rituals.

Coloring Your BDSM World

2006-10-10
It's not just black and white, but it can also be red, blue, purple or green! Mistress Ariachne examines the ways to use your BDSM colors.

The Ways of Worship

2006-09-29
Mistress Ariachne explores the concept of worship and its use in BDSM scenes.

Play Parties Exposed

2006-09-17
Ready to party? Well, before you head for the door with your toy bag in tow, be sure to find out about etiquette and traditions in this column.

Choosing and Maintaining Bondage Rope

2006-09-04
Rope Bondage can be visually stimulating, but how do you know what kind of rope is the best to use? Mistress Ariachne explains the differences.

Whip Things Up

2006-08-04
A look at the different kinds of Whips.

Mentoring in the BDSM Scene

2006-07-14
If you are looking for a Mentor, be sure to find out what Mistress Ariachne thinks is important to look for.

Fetish vs. Obsession

2006-07-01
Mistress Ariachne explores the fine line between fetish and obsession.

Working the Slave Program

2006-06-09
Mistress Ariachne reveals ways she helps her slave grow in their submission and ways she keeps things on track in the relationship.

Voyeuristic Ideas

2006-05-31
Mistress Ariachne discusses ways to indulge your voyeuristic nature or your partners!

Wax Play Technique

2006-05-05
Mistress Ariachne discusses Wax Play technique! She also gives some great links to sites that sell candles and supplies!

Using Safewords

2006-04-28
Mistress Ariachne discusses the concept of the safeword, ways to pick one, why it is so important to have one and what to do once one is used.

Using Surprise in Your Scenes

2006-03-27
Safe, sane and consensual are important in BDSM activity, but that doesn't mean there isn't room for a little surprise.

24/7 Lifestyle Responsibilities

2006-03-20
All relationships take a lot of work, but 24/7 relationships have a unique set of challenges. Mistress Ariachne discusses ways to plan and things to consider.

The Care and Feeding of Latex

2006-03-02
Looking at getting into some latex? Before you don those shiny black gloves, check out this column. Mistress Ariachne discusses ways to get into and out of your latex and how to properly care for it.

Warm-up and Aftercare: Essential Scene Elements

2006-02-22
Warming up and cooling down are essential to most physical activities. BDSM is no different. Mistress Ariachne discusses these important elements of play.

Long-Term Bondage: Mild to Extreme

2006-01-24
Long-term bondage can allow for power exchange to continue beyond a typical scene. Mistress Ariachne examines different types of long-term bondage.

The Role of Emotions in BDSM

2006-01-14
Emotions are not something any of can completely avoid. Inevitably we will have emotional reaction to BDSM scenes or play. Mistress Ariachne discusses this touchy subject.

Choosing a Flogger

2006-01-01
Looking for a new Flogger? Want to know which floggers offer the best in thud and sting? Check out this informative column from Mistress Ariachne!

Great BDSM Get-Togethers

2005-12-21
Mistress Ariachne discusses different types of BDSM parties!

Bondage for Beginners 2: Materials

2005-12-02
Mistress Ariachne discusses different type of material and restraints frequently used for bondage.

The Power of the Blindfold

2005-11-20
The blindfold may seem like a toy for vanillas, but put in the hands of Mistress Ariachne and find out how un-vanilla it can be.

Bondage for Beginners 1: Safety

2005-11-04
Simple bondage is a great place to start if you are new to BDSM. Mistress Ariachne discusses some things to consider and how to keep it safe!

Smoking Fetish Scenes

2005-10-25
Mistress Ariachne discusses several different types of smoking fetish scenes.

BDSM Meditations

2005-10-07
Mistress Ariachne discusses ways she uses activities related to BDSM to reflect on her role.

The Commitment of the Collar

2005-09-27
Mistress Ariachne shares with us what it takes to get a collar from her and what you get inn return!

Giving Back

2005-09-02
Now that you have discovered the BDSM scene in your community you may want to think about giving back. Mistress Ariachne discusses ways to do just that.

Fashion Tips for Forced Feminization

2005-08-25
Mistress Ariachne gives her fashiopn tips for forced feminization!

Careful Captivity

2005-08-11
Mistress Ariachne discusses captivity play.

Making Canes

2005-07-28
Grab your rattan and varnish - Mistress Ariachne divulges how to make your own cane!

Delights of the Human Pony

2005-06-23
Dressing the part is important in role play activities. Mistress Ariachne explores the props you may want to consider when it comes to Pony play.

Abuse in the BDSM Scene

2005-05-28
Mistress Ariachne discusses abuse in BDSM scene.

Chastity Devices

2005-05-17
Mistress Ariache introduces some of the devices used in chastity play!

BDSM Budgeting Basics

2005-05-06
Now that you are ready to begin playing check out the items Mistress Ariachne suggests you may need and how to get them when you are on a budget!

Serving Well

2005-04-26
Mistress Ariachne explains what she requires from her service slaves and what they get in return.

Converting a Partner to Kink

2005-04-04
Mistress Ariachne discusses ways to introduce your non-kinky partner to your kink!

The Titillating Torture of Tickling

2005-03-23
Mistress Ariachne examines tickling as a BDSM technique.

Dressing the Dominatrix Part

2005-03-04
When you are considering becoming a Pro-Domme, dressing the part is essential. Mistress Ariachne offers up a few suggestions. <P>

Power Exchange for Pleasure

2005-02-14
Mistress Ariachne explores several kinds of pleasure scenes. <P>

Setting Up for Pro Domming

2005-02-07
After making the decision that you want to become a professional Dom/me, Mistress Ariachne suggests some things you may need.

Humiliation: The Top’s View

2005-01-23
Mistress Ariachne examines Humiliation Play techniques.

Switching

2004-12-13
Mistress Ariachne asserts that the BDSM role - switch - is just a legitimate as top or bottom.<P>

Turning Pro: First Considerations

2004-10-30
Are you considering becoming a professional Dom/Domme? Mistress Ariachne explores some of the considerations when it comes to professional domination.

Bisexuality

2004-10-20
As a bisexual Mistress Ariachne offers a unique perspective on being bi and into BDSM!

BDSM and Paganism

2004-09-30
Mistress Ariachne discusses the overlap between BDSM and Pagan communities.

How to Put on a Fetish Show

2004-09-20
Put your art into action with a Fetish Show!

Decorative BDSM

2004-08-27
Are you artistic and looking for a way to use BDSM to express your artistic side? You may want to try some of the techniques Mistress Ariachne discusses!

Laying the Groundwork: BDSM in the 1970s

2004-08-17
The 1970's brought about some major changes in the way homosexuals were viewed which helped open the door for BDSMers to start coming out of the closet as well.

Zen and BDSM

2004-07-07
Mistress Ariachne examines the similarities between Zen and BDSM!<P>

BDSM vs. Kinky Sex

2004-06-20
Mistress Ariachne explores the differences between kinky sex and BDSM. Knowing the difference can help you in your search for a partner!

BDSM and Spirituality - 1

2004-06-06
Mistress Ariachne explores the spiritual side of BDSM. <P>

Using Personals Effectively

2004-05-19
Mistress Ariachne offers suggestions on how to complete your profile, what information to include and how to make first contact.<P>

Dispelling BDSM Doubts: The Bottom

2004-04-30
Mistress Ariachne discusses doubts that often plague bottoms!<P>

Spanking Positions

2004-04-18
Mistress Ariachne examines the benefits and pitfalls of several spanking positions!<P>

Dispelling BDSM Doubts: The Top

2004-03-30
As a Dom you may have doubts about yourself and what you are doing to your sub. Mistress Ariachne dispels some of these doubts.

Masturbation as a Domination Technique

2004-03-18
Mistress Ariachne incorporates masturbation when playing with her submissives. She shares some of her techniques with us!<P>

Kinky Events in the Northwest

2004-02-14
Mistress Ariachne introduces us to the fetish events in her area - the northwest. She includes both ongoing and yearly events!

Sex Tips for Cyber World

2003-12-24
Dating and Sex have moved from the real world to the Cyber World. Mistress Arichane gives tips on how best to navigate this growing world of sexual experience.<P>

Building a Slave Bestiary

2003-12-02
Mistress Ariachne offers up ideas on how to transform your slave into your favorite animal!<P>

Exam Time

2003-11-17
Get your speculum warmed up! It’s exam time. You lay there with your feet in the stirrups legs spread wide warm light on your skin. The doctor approaches with the speculum and you just hope it is warm. Mistress Ariachne "examines" different types of medial play.<P>

So you want to be a houseboy...

2003-10-31
<P>Does the idea of dusting your Mistress' fine china while naked and confined in a chastity belt turn you on? Being a houseboy is a lot different then the fantasy, but it can still be very fulfilling. Mistress Aricahne discusses the fantasy and the reality of being a houseboy!

Mummification

2003-10-07
Does the image of your slave wrapped tightly with stretched plastic wrap and duct tape evoke overwhelming emotions for you? Mistress Ariachne tells us what we need and suggestions to make our fantasy a reality.

Foot Fetishist

2003-09-09
Are you looking for ways to exploit your partner’s foot fetish? Mistress Ariachne offers her unique ideas! <P>

Add Experimentation for More Exciting Scenes

2003-08-22
Adding new sensations and experience to your play can take your play and relationship to a new level. <P>

Setting up a Dungeon

2003-08-08
Mistress Ariachne makes suggestions on how to make your dungeon fit with the kind of play you enjoy!

Forced Exhibitionism

2003-03-23
Mistress Ariachne discusses ways to use the power of "forced exhibitionism" to control, embarrass, and turn on our subs.

Polyamory: Playing By the Rules

2003-02-13
Polyamory can be a tricky relationship to handle. Mistress Ariachne gives us guidelines to help make our relationship a success.<P>

Weaving a Web of Support

2002-12-22
Mistress Ariachne explores some ways to help us weave our own web of support.

Fetish Wear for Men

2002-11-08
We often see and discuss they types of Fetish wear women wear, but what about the men? Mistress Ariachne discusses several options available to the men out there!<P>

Backdoor Adventures: Anal Sex

2002-05-14
A discussion of the techniques used to achieve anal penetration. Mistress Ariachne also includes a discussion of the myths about anal sex and suggestions on how to use Anal Sex in BDSM scenes.

Using Your Hands as a BDSM Tool

2002-04-12
Mistress Ariachne gives us tips on how to use our hands in a BDSM scene!

The Human Ashtray

2002-03-23
Do you enjoy the look of a woman with a cigar in her mouth? Does the idea of serving as an ashtray take you to new heights? Then be sure and check out this edition of Mistress Ariachne's BDSM Workshop!

Sensual Fisting

2002-02-22
Mistress Ariachne introduces us to the sensual side of fisting!<P>

Tips For Dommes

2002-02-08
Are you a New Domme? Mistress Ariachne shares her experience and gives new Dommes some help!

Cock and Ball Torture

2002-01-24
Looking for advice on how to start using Cock and Ball torture in your play? Then don’t miss this column by Mistress Ariachne.

Masturbation

2002-01-01
Mistress Ariachne introduces us to methods of masturbation!

Tips for Submissives - Part 1

2001-12-26
Are you a bottom, lacking a Top? Mistress Ariachne offers some advice for submissives that attend a play parties looking for a Top.

Tempering Enthusiasm with Experience -- and Vice Versa

2001-12-10
Sometimes people who are new to the BDSM scene can be overly enthusiastic playing, but on the flip side some people who have been around for a while may have gotten bored. Mistress Ariachne discusses both of these issues!

Vibrator Types and Scenes

2001-11-10
Mistress Ariachne’s gives us details on what kind of vibrators are currently on the market and how we can use them in our scenes!

Making BDSM Photos and Video

2001-10-29
Have you ever looked at your sub and thought - That would be a great picture? Then get your camera ready and read Mistress Ariachne’s article on taking BDSM photos and Video!

Hosting Your Own Play Party

2001-10-09
Are you ready to host a play party? Mistress Ariachne tells us what we need to get started!

Role-Playing

2001-09-28
Mistress Ariachne's gives us suggestions on the kinds of role-playing scenes we might want to explore and the tools we will need.

Bosom BDSM, aka Tit Torture

2001-07-13
Mistress Ariachne discusses the wide variety of tit torture techniques available!

Play Party Etiquette

2001-06-11
Mistress Ariachne introduces us to the etiquette of attending a play party. She discusses how to dress, the attitude to bring to the party and the ways to respect the players of the scenes.

Power Exchange

2001-04-13
In this edition of the BDSM Workshop Mistress Ariachne explores the element of power exchange in BDSM play.

Introduction to Dildos

2001-03-09
There are many different types of dildos available on the market. Mistress Ariachne tells us what they are made of, how to care for them and even ideas on getting started with one!

Using Gags

2001-02-23
Mistress Ariachne describes the different types of gags available and gives us practical advice on running a safe gag scene.

Sensation Play

2000-12-01
For those just entering the BDSM scene the images can be somewhat frightening and a little overwhelming. Mistress Ariachne discusses the importance of Sensation play as an introductory step into this lifestyle. She gives suggestions on how to create this type of scene and what tools you may be able to incorporate into it. Eventually, you may be able to use sensation play in a more sadistic scene.

How To Give A Good Spanking

2000-11-14
Mistress Ariachne teaches us how to give a good spanking!