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| spinninsweetness | Posted: 2008-03-04 14:25 | |
Forum Initiate United Kingdom 3 Posts | Hi Im a brand new sub, completely alone in this, looking for a mentor or online Dom/Domme to help guide me and help me gain confidence in my explorations in real life. thanks Edited by - NinjaProphet on 2008-05-11 09:29:57 | |
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| bella697 | Posted: 2008-05-03 19:50 | |
| Forum Initiate 8 Posts | sub here, looking for ways to encourage her semi-nilla husband to dom her. Mentoring very much welcomed. | |
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| xnebbish | Posted: 2008-05-09 22:35 | |
Forum Initiate United States 13 Posts | hello A/all. i'm completely new & quite a bit green to the whole D/s thing. i would really love a mentor in this area, any help would be greatly appreciated.
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| BDSMLost | Posted: 2008-05-11 09:23 | |
Forum Initiate United States 4 Posts | Hello. I am having a really hard time getting my boyfriend of 2 years into the lifestyle. Yes I know, you can't force someone into it, but we aren't having sex at all. I really need someone who can help me figure out what I am doing wrong. Please Help! | |
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| Mike5783 | Posted: 2008-05-18 12:13 | |
| Forum Initiate United Kingdom 3 Posts | Sub here with a little online experience, but not much. Looking for either online or real life play, located in the NW of England. | |
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| wayward_filly | Posted: 2008-05-23 09:54 | |
Forum Maniac United States 6,275 Posts | hi folks I am in the new england area and have a good deal of experience mentoring Female subs/switches both online and in real time face to face please feel free to contact me at waywardfilly@msn.com -- "I'm not trying to counsel any of you to do anything really special except to dare to think, and to dare to go with the truth and to dare to love completely." | |
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| CuriousWidow | Posted: 2008-05-28 19:56 | |
Forum Newbie United States 68 Posts | Axels_april: Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc) i serve as a real time slave living with my Owner. i moved to be with Him Feb. 2003. How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL)Real time, 4 years. Online 6 years i guess. Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task.Although i don't know everything, i started online and learned the ups and downs of web BDSM. my first real time encounter was going to a BDSM club alone. Scary but i met some of the most wonderful and supportive people. Becoming involved with that club;i learned a lot about the submissive role in public, how to conduct myself as if my potential Owner was always watching, how to handle scenes when they go bad and how to state what i needed and wanted from a BDSM relationship. The lessons i learned attending that club are so very important to me. i was indeed extremely lucky to meet a Master who offered to "train" me without using me. He held to His promise and i was given knowledge beyond what i could ever thank Him for. my life now with my Owner has shown me that being a real time slave is possible. Is it always peaches and cream, no. Is it always house cleaning and being used, no. It is one of the most fulfilling relationships of my life. We travel to many BDSM events, have many real time friends in the lifestyle and are constantly learning. i know about many BDSM and service oriented things, to list a few: boot blacking i would like to mentor because i have been there. i know the pitfalls and joys of service. If my thoughts, support, or learning can help another it is not only my duty as a sister in service to help but a joy to help another on his/her journey. i take a very common sense approach to slavery and do not romanticize it without merit. Your heart must desire to serve, bottom, or submit. To me, this is consensual slavery. There is a difference between abuse and a Master/slave relationship. Thank you for allowing me to post on this subject. Axels_april Hello Axels_april, “Love is as much of an object as an obsession, everybody wants it everybody seeks it, but few ever achieve it, those who do, will cherish it, be lost in it, and among all, will never...never forget it.” Curtis Judalet | |
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| aisushiden | Posted: 2008-07-05 03:43 | |
Forum Initiate United States 1 Posts | Hey there... I'm a subby, and I'm looking for a mentor... been in a crazy, faulty, mess of a D/s relationship for the past ~1 year... I really need someone understanding and experienced to talk to, preferably over AIM (aol instant messenger) message me on AIM, my screen name is "artifycial angel" (minus the quotes of course). I also have yahoo (AisuShiden) and MSN (shardaerithes@aol.com) I can be reached by email at shardaerithes@gmail.com I sent a couple emails to mentors on the list... but haven't gotten a reply yet. thanks so much.. ;_; Edited by - aisushiden on 2008-07-05 17:40:12 | |
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| kv401 | Posted: 2008-07-15 14:16 | |
| Forum Initiate United States 1 Posts | Hi- I’m a brand new female sub, and I have no idea what I’m doing. Yes, I’ve read a lot, but I’ve found reading and actually doing two entirely different things. I kind of have an unusual situation that I won’t bore you with in a general forum, but I’m currently involved in an online D/s relationship. I really feel like I need a more experienced female sub mentor who will help me through what is proving to be a very challenging, although rewarding and enlightening experience. Thanks | |
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| heartcircle | Posted: 2008-07-19 19:29 | |
Forum Initiate United States 1 Posts | I am in need of a SLAVE mentor. I am moving into a 24/7 relationship with the hope of having a sister slave join our triad. I will have many issues coming up as I have just ended a submissive 6 year marriage and have not gone this deep before. This is my soul's calling and my truth. There is no other way for me but I will need guidance and a mentor. I will be moving to San Francisco at some point so someone close to there would be great as I need to build my life there. my Master has a mentor in a poly house and I think its important for that aspect to be in my Mentor's life as well. Thank You so much. slave sue Please email me at sgsue@johnbadams.com | |
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| domesticdiva_sm | Posted: 2008-07-19 19:47 | |
Forum Initiate United States 1 Posts | Axels_april: Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc) i serve as a real time slave living with my Owner. i moved to be with Him Feb. 2003. How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL)Real time, 4 years. Online 6 years i guess. Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task.Although i don't know everything, i started online and learned the ups and downs of web BDSM. my first real time encounter was going to a BDSM club alone. Scary but i met some of the most wonderful and supportive people. Becoming involved with that club;i learned a lot about the submissive role in public, how to conduct myself as if my potential Owner was always watching, how to handle scenes when they go bad and how to state what i needed and wanted from a BDSM relationship. The lessons i learned attending that club are so very important to me. i was indeed extremely lucky to meet a Master who offered to "train" me without using me. He held to His promise and i was given knowledge beyond what i could ever thank Him for. my life now with my Owner has shown me that being a real time slave is possible. Is it always peaches and cream, no. Is it always house cleaning and being used, no. It is one of the most fulfilling relationships of my life. We travel to many BDSM events, have many real time friends in the lifestyle and are constantly learning. i know about many BDSM and service oriented things, to list a few: boot blacking i would like to mentor because i have been there. i know the pitfalls and joys of service. If my thoughts, support, or learning can help another it is not only my duty as a sister in service to help but a joy to help another on his/her journey. i take a very common sense approach to slavery and do not romanticize it without merit. Your heart must desire to serve, bottom, or submit. To me, this is consensual slavery. There is a difference between abuse and a Master/slave relationship. Thank you for allowing me to post on this subject. Axels_april WOULD you, could you help me in the art of bootblacking among other things? I have posted a more detailed list of my requirements. I need help and guidance on how to live in a triad and the full servitude required by my master. we are working on a very intense contract and right now I wear a collar of intent. I dont even know if this protocall is normal or extreme. ALL i do know is that my Master is well skilled and trained on the spiritual aspects of being a Master as well as how to flogg well. I am a pain slut too and would love information on how to maintain the intensity and closeness when Master and I are in two different cities. We will be moving at some point but there is a lot of change for my 3 year old with the death of his father and I want to do this slow, and right. No rush from either Master nor I. Thank you for Your consideration. | |
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| pyrate_pet | Posted: 2008-07-24 08:43 | |
Forum Initiate United States 9 Posts | i'm in my first D/s relationship and i'm floundering. i'm in need of a person to talk to, preferably a sub (perhaps around my age??). i'd like to make a friend in the Chicago area if at all possible. -- Designbyrazor's pet | |
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| dreamergirl2 | Posted: 2008-09-24 19:57 | |
Forum Initiate United States 35 Posts | Hi, I am very, very, very new at this, in discovering myself as a Sub, and would like to talk with anyone who can offer help, tips, advice. My email is one4dreamergirl@yahoo.com Thank you, Edited by - dreamergirl2 on 2008-09-24 19:59:55 Edited by - dreamergirl2 on 2008-09-27 14:59:29 | |
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| ally2008 | Posted: 2008-10-15 10:09 | |
| Forum Initiate 6 Posts | Edited by - ally2008 on 2009-05-17 23:38:35 | |
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| Luxara | Posted: 2008-10-16 10:55 | |
| Forum Initiate Netherlands 6 Posts | Deleted Edited by - Luxara on 2009-01-08 06:40:08 | |
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