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| A_Duke4Daisy | Posted: 2009-04-20 09:55 | |
Forum Initiate United States 5 Posts | I was quite relieved to find this list until I realized that either the mentors here are premium members and cannot be reached by free members, or that they had not actually vsited the site within a reasonable timeframe (like 1194 days ago). Now I feel just as lost and lonely as I had before. My identity hangs in the balance, who and what I think I am have been put to the test and found wanting, I am in serious need of one on one personal feedback, guidance and advice. If anyone reading this is up to the challenge and can help me, please feel free to respond to my b.com email or forum post!!!!! | |
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| TinyPants | Posted: 2009-04-20 17:11 | |
Forum Newbie United States 81 Posts | A_Duke4Daisy: I was quite relieved to find this list until I realized that either the mentors here are premium members and cannot be reached by free members, or that they had not actually vsited the site within a reasonable timeframe (like 1194 days ago). Now I feel just as lost and lonely as I had before. My identity hangs in the balance, who and what I think I am have been put to the test and found wanting, I am in serious need of one on one personal feedback, guidance and advice. If anyone reading this is up to the challenge and can help me, please feel free to respond to my b.com email or forum post!!!!! You can email them from your outside email at [insert name here]@bondage.com - Tiny Pants {Dave's slave} I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman. - Anais Nin | |
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| harpy18 | Posted: 2009-04-30 06:22 | |
Forum Initiate United States 2 Posts | i'm new to the idea of bdsm, i'm very dominant in the real worl but i have a need to be submissive in the bedroom. if there is anyone who can mentor me on how to transition and get started. my husband seems willing but i'm not sure where to start. any help would be apreciated. e-mail at zerostitches@lycos.com | |
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| subliminal24 | Posted: 2009-07-06 15:37 | |
Forum Initiate United Kingdom 11 Posts | Hi, I am a submissive male, and very new to this. I'm an introvert so i'm vey quiet/shy until I know someone so I would appreciate some help from a mentor. I'm also a free member so can't really contact people. I would like to know about techniques, etitiquette and have a few philisophical questions to do with bdsm. So please if you can help email me on i_4got_my_name@hotmail.com or on here. Thanks | |
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| whytechocolate | Posted: 2009-07-06 15:49 | |
Forum Apprentice United States 368 Posts | posslet: -~Submissive mentoring submissive mentoring list~- The submissives on this list are people who are willing to talk with a new submissive. They are not endorsed by bondage.com and have not been screened in any way. As a new submissive, it is your responsibility and choice to e-mail and speak with them until you find one you feel comfortable with. Take all advice as opinion and feel free to learn from the many voices that have been where you are right now. How can we email if we aren't a premium member? ~Whyte Chocolate~ | |
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| DrInTheHouse | Posted: 2009-07-07 08:14 | |
569.42 Moderator  United States 2,697 Posts | whytechocolate: posslet: -~Submissive mentoring submissive mentoring list~- The submissives on this list are people who are willing to talk with a new submissive. They are not endorsed by bondage.com and have not been screened in any way. As a new submissive, it is your responsibility and choice to e-mail and speak with them until you find one you feel comfortable with. Take all advice as opinion and feel free to learn from the many voices that have been where you are right now. How can we email if we aren't a premium member? One can send an email from an outside address to username@bondage.com. Of course, the person has to have their profile set to receive outside emails. | |
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| mellybean | Posted: 2009-08-31 21:38 | |
Forum Slut Forever United States 2,710 Posts | please make sure my name is *off* the mentor and support list(s), for now? i'm in a baaaaaaad place. i'm seeking a mentor ... i just came out of a relationship that turned ... very bad. i ignored all of the advice i had ever learned and ever given. in short, i was stupid. at first i thought, "that's it, no lifestyle for me ever again." then i realized that's stupid too, because i am who i am, and who i am is a submissive woman with a slave heart. i've already found my self, i just need to RE-find my self again, and keep on learning. my mentor can be either Dominant or submissive, those who have lived in 24/7 TPE relationships would be very helpful. or other submissives who have ended abusive relationships. please email me here. if you're not a premium member, email mellybean@bondage.com ~*~ Let there be beauty and strength, power and compassion, honor and humility, mirth and reverence within you. ~*~ | |
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| mrsmo | Posted: 2009-09-11 13:10 | |
Forum Newbie United States 72 Posts | Wow, I'm not sure I have time to read every single post on here, but I am excited to find this board and this thread, in particular. I really would like a mentor, to be a sounding board and answer some questions or point me in the right direction of what I should read, or what I can do to better understand, etc. My dom(husband) and I have been married for 19 yrs. We really have dabbled with D/S all along, but never with spankings, whippings, bondage, etc. until recently. I really never put a name on it before as I was very ignorant about BDSM. Only recently have we decided to live our life this way and it has been difficult for me, internally, to submit when I am used to trying to run the show all the time. What a disaster that was. Oh, also if someone has some expertise here - I was abused, sexually & physically, as a child and spent many years in therapy, etc. Because of this I find myself questioning my motives for wanting to be dominated, and my doms motives for why he wants to dominate, even though, intellectually, I know that regardless of the "cause" we still are who we are. If anyone would like to mentor me and thinks I would be a good fit with them I would greatly appreciate it. You can also e-mail me at smutbymissjane@gmail.com thanks so much | |
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| bakurei | Posted: 2009-11-28 10:12 | |
Forum Initiate United Kingdom 1 Posts | I can't seem to email any of these people because I'm not a premium member. Maybe someone could email me? | |
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| Sex_Bunny | Posted: 2010-01-27 00:58 | |
Forum Initiate United States 11 Posts | Edited by - Sex_Bunny on 2010-01-27 00:59:16 | |
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| paris_sub | Posted: 2010-02-24 12:57 | |
Elegance&Perversion Moderator United States 1,221 Posts | Seems to me we have a need to update this list somewhat for a few different reasons. Many of the submissives who've posted on here are no longer active or their situations have changed. We also have many new folks who might be willing to mentor and didn't know about this list. And, with the list being 12 pages long, it's a little difficult for anyone searching for a mentor to wade through. i'd like to propose that if you at one time posted to this list as a mentor, that you pop in and say you are still available and what page your post is on. For instance, i posted on page 5 four years ago so add four years to my info and know that i am available to mentor still. you can email any non premium member from your outside email at [insert name here]@bondage.com If you are new and wish to mentor, feel free to post here using the OP as a guideline. If you are seeking a mentor, i would recommend that you email an available person and not just post that you want any mentor to contact you. You should look for someone who's views correspond with your own. i hope this helps. "i'm curious, i want to know and try everything. i want my brain, as well as all my holes, filled." - me, in a recent IM moment of profound enlightenment "This is not a dress rehearsal" - my mom | |
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