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pinkwindPosted: 2008-08-27 16:19
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The people i have been fisted by have all had large hands, all except my sister sub!

And as for hurting, well, i have a good and healthy set of cunt muscles, an ability to relax, and used plenty of lube and then some, and i felt a damn sight more awesome pleasure than i did pain.

No, it doesn't, shouldn't hurt if both parties don't want it to and take time and effort in complimentary measure to make it a pleasurable rather than a tortuous experience for both.

Lets just say that my cumming like a train and gripping certain people by the wrist probably hurt them more than me, and it certainly took a while for them to get their hands back!

Oh yes, and when i get feral there is little to compare to a good, righteous cunt punching either.

If it hurts so bad maybe you and whoever has been doing it to you should look to your relaxation and technique, and lay in a bigger supply of lube.


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enduserPosted: 2008-08-27 16:42
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come on over. I know the trick.

or search some old threads - GynoStretcher's advice helped me get it in the professor (almost!).

San Francisco was obviously very good to you _big
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CalicocatPosted: 2008-08-27 16:52
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enduser:
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come on over. I know the trick.

or search some old threads - GynoStretcher's advice helped me get it in the professor (almost!).

San Francisco was obviously very good to you _big
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"the future is here. it's just not evenly distributed yet" - William Gibson



Ahhh...gonna lure me in with a promise of satisfaction....Here ktty, kitty, kitty.....

And yes, there is nothing like the city by the bay to get your cunt a throbbin' You must agree?

Thanks for the gynostretcher lead.

Edited by - Calicocat on 2008-08-27 17:22:25

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TinkersToyPosted: 2008-08-27 17:32
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We've tried it many times; but it's just impossible for us. It doesn't matter how much lube we use, his fist is too big and we can both feel it pressing against the bones._sad
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ponygirl_auburn_vixenPosted: 2008-08-27 18:16
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I'll second those who say that larger hand size, and/or whether or not you've ever given birth, aren't necessarily relevant.

If you practice and train your muscles (and your mind), you have a much better chance of accomplishing it. I had to practice for a couple of months with increasingly larger dildoes to be able to take my master's very large fist. I also got some help from an FWB with large hands. And yanno...practicing is FUN. heh heh.

Recovery time? Again, if your are working your muscles with practice, you can recover enough for his cock to go in there in the same session...after he peels you off the ceiling from the fisting, of course.

I don't think anything else compares to the feeling of fisting, and I have a hard time describing it, other than "WOW!"

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slowlanePosted: 2008-08-27 19:16
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anyone can be fisted, as long as the giver is patient, has lots of lube and is playing Enya in the background. Feel free to see the pics in my profile...she too thought "hell no." You may need to ask to be Hotlisted to see em though?

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enduserPosted: 2008-08-27 20:04
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^ dude

Enya = hard limit.
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Tere2teasePosted: 2008-08-27 20:10
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okay briefly....


~i've never had babies
~Master's hand isnt exactly small nor huge (see my one pic, his hand, my throat)
~it was really hard the first dozen or so times
~lube and more lube is your friend
~it will tighten back up
~lube
~relax
~bearing down seemed to help me
~breathing helps
~screaming can help, but unfortunately, you can scream and breath at the same time....go figure
~i can now be fisted standing up, and almost with no additional lube now.
~patience
~lube

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DcoupleSPosted: 2008-08-27 20:56
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pinkwind:

and it certainly took a while for them to get their hands back!


Very nice Pink, I always enjoying reading your posts

Just wanted to mention that "a hand in the bushes" is a good book in case you wish to read. Talking to your Dr shall help, if nothing else it might take some anxiety away, besides that like everyone else said: patience, relax and lots of lube. Try...try again.

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FuckingRotterPosted: 2008-08-28 00:23
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Seems I'm in a minority of one on this lube thing. Maybe it reflects on the mindset of the women I associate with? They know that a thorough fisting is preferable to what they'll get and I am quite happy to hand to them if they object, and this in itself is hugely attractive to them and goes a long way.

And I'm still not convinced by the go slow camp. Sure, patience, determination, taking care not to break anything. But take to long and you'll only augment any feelings of anxiety felt by fisted or fister.
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Backdoor_ukPosted: 2008-08-28 00:45
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TinkersToy:
It doesn't matter how much lube we use, his fist is too big and we can both feel it pressing against the bones._sad

One ultimate limit is the width of the pelvis. If it's two small to fit a particular fist nothing other than pregnacy will widen it.

- Chris

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roberta555Posted: 2008-08-28 10:38
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Well...Pink and I agree as usual....alot is in the mindset. I did think I broke my guy's hand once and was sooo embarassed.

The one thing you are all failing to mention is your body position. Some positions work better for me than others(on my back, pillows under my hips, pelvis tilted up, legs spread but no too wide..._tongue) always works for me unless I am stressed out and need more time or it is right after my period. Then I need a lot of warm up and there will be some pain but soon enough it hurts so good.

Yum...it's been too long! sigh

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FuckingRotterPosted: 2008-08-28 10:51
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First time this happened to me it hurt! Not being one to whinge, I calmly said "we Cat I think you broke my hand!" She laughed and laughed. It was at this point I realised it wasn't broken, but you can imagine what her convulsions did to my already sore hand. That's what you get for fisting a switch I suppose.


roberta555:
Well...Pink and I agree as usual....alot is in the mindset. I did think I broke my guy's hand once and was sooo embarassed.

The one thing you are all failing to mention is your body position. Some positions work better for me than others(on my back, pillows under my hips, pelvis tilted up, legs spread but no too wide..._tongue) always works for me unless I am stressed out and need more time or it is right after my period. Then I need a lot of warm up and there will be some pain but soon enough it hurts so good.

Yum...it's been too long! sigh



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intlieoskPosted: 2008-08-28 11:18
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It may not work, you may not stretch to accommodate him. Sometimes as much as you want something it just may not happen.

For me, it took ages for a fist to fit inside. This was trying it frequently and spending time doing it. Using tons of lube, lots of foreplay, toys, and having me totally relaxed. It was still work, I was still sore the next day, and it was totally worth it.
Saying this, maybe try anal fisting. It feels absolutely amazing too. Its easier to put a fist up the ass, as the sphincter muscles will stretch and can accommodate quite easily as long as you are relaxed. LUBE is super important here too.

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redsilk44Posted: 2008-08-28 12:19
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I did not think it would work on me, due to scar tissue. Plus even my Gyno has told me that I am very small. I have had more test and proceedures done at one time, that I felt my Doctor should atleast kiss me.

So I was extremely surprised the first time to have him lower my hand to feel his wrist. It was the most intense feeling that I have ever had. So, I agree with the other ladies--desire is a key factor and LOTS of lube. It took him some time to manage it, but it worked. I can now say that I desire it, crave it. Even if I am sore for days afterwards.

Patients, desire, lube can all help. I wish I had more advise to give.

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