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| _Ghost | Posted: 2009-06-29 15:25 | |
Forum Slut United States 1,850 Posts | If you are a bisexual switch, and you had 10 seconds to choose the following heavens........... Straight sub heaven I would choose FUCK YOU. And I'm not even a bi switch. Read my first post. Rinse. Repeat. "...by the by, this moment is so great, I'd cheat on that other moment from before, marry this one and raise a family of tiny, little moments." | |
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| Big_Dumb_Ape | Posted: 2009-06-29 23:03 | |
Forum Slut United States 1,406 Posts | LadyTemptress: If you are a bisexual switch, and you had 10 seconds to choose the following heavens........... Straight sub heaven You forgot: gay sub heaven I think you get the point by now, I hope. <_< Ape Prevent global warming, become a pirate! Yargh! http://www.venganza.org/ Click Here to see my favorite movie. | |
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| HerMastersAngel | Posted: 2009-06-29 23:12 | |
Forum Initiate United States 4 Posts | LadyTemptress: My position on this subject is not directed at the majority, those who are into bedroom d/s or the more casual players and thrill seekers. My post was directed to the 1%, those who look upon their dominance or submission as a spiritual calling, the core of who they are. Is everything in life one sided no...so why would a person. I'm generally very very dominant about everything in my life...but sometimes its nice to let someone else have the reins. No one should have to be in a box, life is not a checklist! Are you happy all the time, if you call yourself an optimist? Are you sad or angry or sullen all the time if you call yourself a pessimist? | |
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| MistressMiranda | Posted: 2009-06-30 06:30 | |
Forum Maniac United States 23,453 Posts | DarkestAngel33: Are you happy all the time, if you call yourself an optimist? Are you sad or angry or sullen all the time if you call yourself a pessimist? What a great insight, and in a first post! Hi there. | |
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| HerMastersAngel | Posted: 2009-06-30 11:24 | |
Forum Initiate United States 4 Posts | thanks mistress miranda....i do love the shades of gray in life | |
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| Jahc | Posted: 2009-07-22 20:42 | |
Forum Maniac United Kingdom 3,482 Posts | LadyTemptress: In reference to a previous post titled "For Switches Only", I postulated that true switches do not exist. I am convinced that you are either Dom or sub. I posed the question this way..."If you had 10 seconds to decide whether to go to Dom or sub heaven, what would you choose?"...., FYI...this means that you would be one or the other for all eternity and no, you can't be a Dom in sub heaven nor a sub in Dom heaven, lol. I received a variety of responses and it became clear that I directed this post to the wrong audience. My position on this subject is not directed at the majority, those who are into bedroom d/s or the more casual players and thrill seekers. My post was directed to the 1%, those who look upon their dominance or submission as a spiritual calling, the core of who they are. Christ. I come back to B.com after months away, and what do we find? Complete and utter arrogant, pig ignorant bullshit like this. Sorry, whoever you are, you don't have the first clue about switchcraft. There is only one thing wrong with what you say - everything. And Nash, getting it totally wrong, as always. Another word of advice for all switches - ignore anything and everything these people have to say. | |
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| arayofsunshine | Posted: 2009-07-23 00:22 | |
black swan United States 10,664 Posts | Jahc: Another word of advice for all switches - ignore anything and everything these people have to say. We've been ignoring it. Sunshine Daddy's owned HN/JB. Seeing the goodness in someone does not imply ignoring their difficult qualities or unskilled actions. Rather, we can fully acknowledge these difficulties, while at the same time we choose to focus on the positive. If we focus on the negative we will naturally feel anger, resentment, or disappointment. If we focus on the positive, we will forge connection to the person. Sharon Salzberg | |
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| COLDstar13 | Posted: 2009-07-23 22:55 | |
Forum Apprentice United States 183 Posts | Big_Dumb_Ape: You forgot: gay sub heaven I think you get the point by now, I hope. <_< Ape Prevent global warming, become a pirate! Yargh! http://www.venganza.org/ Click Here to see my favorite movie. I'm a bi switch OMG WHAT DO I CHOOSE!!! lol What happens if the ten seconds expire?!? -Pumpkin- Cavalry wives do it with spurs on! Half of my heart is BACK from Iraq and I'm ecsatic Every scar is a bridge to someones broken heart -Thrice | |
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| Inque | Posted: 2009-07-26 19:30 | |
Forum Apprentice United States 222 Posts | or some listen long enough to make a doubly stinging reply. I enjoy the fluidity of my sexuality. I hope you do too. I am not young enough to know everything. - Oscar Wilde- | |
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| moriart | Posted: 2009-07-28 16:02 | |
Forum Initiate Spain 1 Posts | Hi, for me it's like when you have a favourite dish of food, really that this dish likes you more than others but, why not shoose, really you don't eat all the days the same things, this is the same I think thats it's true that the switch people is more one role tha other but are boths at the same time, why you must try all the days the same point of view, you can fight for the control, you can feel that the domination is over a switch not a sub, it's a person that like be top too, for me it's more interesting and open differents possibilities. Good question XD, really I like so much. | |
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| phit2btyd | Posted: 2009-12-20 16:55 | |
Forum Maniac United States 2,418 Posts | All those heavens to choose from......Oh Hell! Yup, I'd pick Hell in a heartbeat! It has to be a party that's off the hook! -- A man with no vices, has little virtue! The best way to live longer, is to live faster! Out, Phit! btw: You can't lose them all! | |
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| seeing_purple | Posted: 2009-12-31 00:06 | |
| Forum Initiate United States 23 Posts | How's it heaven if I'm trapped being a Domme or a sub all the time? I'd almost rather go to vanilla heaven. Being a switch means you get to experience every excruciatingly incredible part of BDSM. When I dominate my guy, I know *exactly* how helpless and desperate and abused he feels, and when he's dominating me, I know how it is to get that rush of wicked adrenalin. It makes the experience so much sweeter. Besides, it makes it more of a challenge to actually dominate him, knowing he's capable of fight back. A sub won't wrestle me into submission. A Dom will get sick of me fighting back and punish me for it. But my switch will love every second of me struggling while he ties me up. And if one of us gets burnt out from all the struggling? We can just submit and let the other one take care of us. | |
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| IamZ | Posted: 2009-12-31 04:38 | |
Forum Regular  Canada 605 Posts | Well, I'm definitely in the 1%. For me it's always about exploration. I will answer your question, and in this way - If I had to choose, I would choose to be the Domme I am for the simple reason that I can (and do) sometimes instruct the sub to "dominate" me. I am still the Domme. Many won't get this. And that's just fine with me. Best of the new year, | |
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| m_Hers2_learn | Posted: 2010-02-15 23:09 | |
| Forum Initiate United States 12 Posts | Lady Temptress , It took barely a mosquito heartbeat of time to answer Your Question. My answer re Heaven : clearly Submissive especially for Her . ThankYou , m_Hers2_Learn | |
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