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| anode2 | Posted: 2009-07-03 05:35 | |
Forum Apprentice United States 453 Posts | _Ghost: Step 1: Get Dommeseed Step 2: Pour Dommeseed into Bowl Step 3: Drop rock on grazing Domme I prefer the Chia-Domme. Grows quicker | |
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| Mistress_Dez | Posted: 2009-07-08 03:43 | |
Forum Regular United States 879 Posts | anode2: _Ghost: Step 1: Get Dommeseed Step 2: Pour Dommeseed into Bowl Step 3: Drop rock on grazing Domme I prefer the Chia-Domme. Grows quicker Will the Domme turn out green? You either take it all or reverse roles. If You choose to reverse roles....You better be fucking good at it. | |
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| Lonely_Eagle | Posted: 2009-07-15 15:01 | |
Forum Maniac United States 2,626 Posts | Thats why im single,, Damn I have been dooing it wrong all thies years. I should have just come right out and asked. When you have one foot in yesterday and one foot in tomorrow. You are pissing all over today. | |
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| the_unleashed | Posted: 2009-07-15 17:44 | |
| Forum Initiate Germany 2 Posts | MistressMiranda: It's possible that dommes are actively attempting to thwart anyone who actually wants to submit to them. Maybe it's because I should go to bed, but I'm not sure I really understand what you mean here. ;-) Doesn't this mean that people that actually like being dommed would not have a chance to do anything about it? Talk about life being fair... ;-) But honestly: Finding this forum and seeing that there actually are other people asking themselves the same questions and thinking about similar things is really good - I think that's what you call "epiphany", if you are thus inclined. Anyway: How should one find a domme, then? Wait until they find you? The "Don't call us, we call you" thingy? Have fun domming or being dommed - whatever suits your mood. Cheers, | |
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| Louloupe | Posted: 2009-07-15 19:56 | |
Forum Maniac United States 23,453 Posts | the_unleashed: MistressMiranda: It's possible that dommes are actively attempting to thwart anyone who actually wants to submit to them. Maybe it's because I should go to bed, but I'm not sure I really understand what you mean here. ;-) I'm sure it doesn't apply to all dommes. It only seems that way sometimes, or seems that way when some submissives talk about trying to find a domme. Anyway: How should one find a domme, then? Wait until they find you? The "Don't call us, we call you" thingy? Of course not. You could go to parties, events, and classes, and talk to people, dommes and subs, women and men, alike. Socialize and make friends. Whether you play or not, you're establishing connections and trust. Edited by - MistressMiranda on 2009-07-15 20:10:02 | |
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| the_unleashed | Posted: 2009-07-16 01:22 | |
| Forum Initiate Germany 2 Posts | MistressMiranda: the_unleashed: MistressMiranda: It's possible that dommes are actively attempting to thwart anyone who actually wants to submit to them. Maybe it's because I should go to bed, but I'm not sure I really understand what you mean here. ;-) I'm sure it doesn't apply to all dommes. It only seems that way sometimes, or seems that way when some submissives talk about trying to find a domme. Ok, I think I'm starting to get what you mean. MistressMiranda: the_unleashed:Anyway: How should one find a domme, then? Wait until they find you? The "Don't call us, we call you" thingy? Of course not. You could go to parties, events, and classes, and talk to people, dommes and subs, women and men, alike. Socialize and make friends. Whether you play or not, you're establishing connections and trust. Thanks for the advice. So far I haven't specifically been trying to get into contact with people sharing the same lifestyle (is that the right word?) - I always thought this was not the world I belong to. But getting to know people involved into this certainly is a good idea in order to find out. Thanks again and have fun, | |
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| Louloupe | Posted: 2009-07-16 06:53 | |
Forum Maniac United States 23,453 Posts | the_unleashed: MistressMiranda: the_unleashed: MistressMiranda: It's possible that dommes are actively attempting to thwart anyone who actually wants to submit to them. Maybe it's because I should go to bed, but I'm not sure I really understand what you mean here. ;-) I'm sure it doesn't apply to all dommes. It only seems that way sometimes, or seems that way when some submissives talk about trying to find a domme. Ok, I think I'm starting to get what you mean. I think it's better not to be passive. Sometimes submissives appear to be desperate, and that doesn't help. People with friends and interests outside of finding a domme not only look less desperate, they are less desperate. | |
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| LadyFeri | Posted: 2009-07-21 13:49 | |
Forum Apprentice United States 116 Posts | openadultdirectory.com/bdsm/NY google bdsm dungeons in new york | |
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| domina_lisa | Posted: 2009-07-25 08:58 | |
Forum Newbie United States 91 Posts | You haven't said whether you're looking for a pro domme or a non-pro domme. There are lots of directories online such as maxfisch(dot)com and there's also a NYC chapter of Club FEM (Females Enslaving Males) you could check out. (an organization/munch for dominant females and submissive males). Chapters usually have mostly non-pro dommes but also some pros may be there or women who do both). For a list of chapters see clubfem(dot)com also if you're looking for a non-pro domme then I would recommend reading the book "How to capture a Mistress" since it covers how to approach a woman and how to emphasize your skills or strengths. Available on amazon. and you're young so you probably haven't been searching for a long time. Have patience. Any sub searching will need patience. | |
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