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| clampsandwax | Posted: 2010-01-03 12:00 | |
Forum Maniac United States 3,327 Posts | I could look up tons of links on the anal sex Taboo. All I really know is from my own personal experiences. From a biological perspective a certain percent of the male or female population might like the Dirty Highway. There must be a thousands of euphemisms for anal sex. From a Cultural and social perspective there is sort of an international cultural Taboo of anything possibly related to people that might be "light in the loafers" . As a guy from the midwest I was almost 40 years old before letting anything up the hershey highway . I figured out about 10 years ago that anal sex seems to be one of the almost inevitable outcomes of a relationship with a Femme Domme ..maybe sort of the end game. maybe..if the guys I hang out with ever found out that I even thought about trying it .. I might be labeled "gay" for the rest of my life..One good friend told me last year" Dont ask , dont tell " luckily this site is pretty much anonymous..and I guess small steps like starting from spanking and maybe working a finger near the exposed area might work ..maybe.. part of it is mental, and relaxation.. maybe trust..maybe. I still have never really enjoyed it yet.. maybe depends on the partner too ..the chemistry etc..A big part of the problem is maybe homophobia, and it is partly real. Guys that are labeled "gay" this close to Fargo in the Midwest are lots of times outcast from normal mainstream friends, family, society, and culture.. "Sticks and stones will break my bones, but whips and chains excite me" maybe the shakespeare quote about a "rose by any other name" a brown rose ..maybe too creative. Sort of an enigma even if no one else knows..like a secret maybe. -- Fortune favors the bold. or Fortune favors the Italics on a Ducati
It is possible to lose jobs from gossip too.. Edited by - clampsandwax on 2010-01-04 10:32:50 | |
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| IamZ | Posted: 2010-01-03 12:28 | |
Forum Regular  Canada 720 Posts | clamps I would love to read your material but I gotta tell ya' .... PLEASE use paragraph breaks. Thanks much, | |
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| clampsandwax | Posted: 2010-01-04 10:26 | |
Forum Maniac United States 3,327 Posts | I will make a new years resolution to use more paragraph breaks. Sometimes since I am a slow typist the thoughts flow, and I want to get all the words down before I forget my ideas. Grammar and punctuation are good. Its been since 1984 when I took freshman English composition at the U of M , and I got a "D" for dunce.. I do see your point that many of my posts do have bad grammar. There is something to be said for proper English as effective communication. point taken. -- Fortune favors the bold. or Fortune favors the Italics on a Ducati Edited by - clampsandwax on 2010-01-04 10:30:45 | |
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| Arkeiryn | Posted: 2010-01-04 12:47 | |
Forum Initiate United Kingdom 20 Posts | Is there such a thing as a heterosexual male who's okay with that? Does anyone have experience with this? In one word: yes. Of course, it depends on the male, but my boy loves it (he's not ready for anything bigger than two fingers yet, but we're getting there!) However, I have no advice on how to bring it up. My boy suggested the idea to me, and I hadn't really thought about it before he mentioned it. | |
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| MadameJs_boo | Posted: 2010-01-04 14:03 | |
Forum Initiate United States 8 Posts | I am male, straight and entirely okay with this. I haven't had a strap on used on me before, but I have gotten quite used to wearing plugs. My Mistress has also made me wear one frequently for the past few days and I love it. It doesn't automatically make a guy gay for that at all. | |
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| MissBent | Posted: 2010-01-04 20:35 | |
Forum Regular United States 904 Posts | MadameJs_boo: It doesn't automatically make a guy gay for that at all. that part is all mental and emotional imho as in, it's not the act and who you do it with but the perspective you have on those you;re doing it with? hmm, that make sense -- it did while i was thinking it. but again the ass is just another orifice that;s rife/ripe with nerve endings (especially for males with the prostate alone capable of bringing lots of pleasure). a place that's sadly neglected in many cases because of the fear you mention -- that of males being afraid that it means they're gay -- their loss. -- Some cause happiness wherever they go; others whenever they go. Oscar Wilde If the man doesn't believe as we do, we say he is a crank, and that settles it. I mean, it does nowadays, because now we can't burn him. Mark Twain (Samuel Clemens) --Life is good | |
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| Auctoritas | Posted: 2010-01-04 20:45 | |
| Forum Newbie United States 52 Posts | Edited by - Auctoritas on 2010-01-30 12:41:38 | |
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| Big_Dumb_Ape | Posted: 2010-01-04 21:33 | |
Forum Slut United States 1,428 Posts | Like so many things, it depends entirely on the guy. I've seriously thought about having an "Exit Only" sign tattooed on my ass. Someone else may enjoy it. Just in case your wondering, I didn't get the tattoo because it would just be wrong to see that on the back of a chimp in a speedo. Ape Prevent global warming, become a pirate! Yargh! http://www.venganza.org/ Click Here to see my favorite movie. | |
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| seeing_purple | Posted: 2010-01-05 15:25 | |
Forum Initiate United States 31 Posts | I found a way to bring it up, sort of. XD I showed him the sight a few days ago. Now he's read all of my posts, and apparently, no, his ass is not off-limits. | |
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| hiddenswitch | Posted: 2010-01-05 16:28 | |
Forum Initiate United States 15 Posts | Good for you Purple | |
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| headslave | Posted: 2010-01-05 18:45 | |
| Forum Initiate 28 Posts | Good for you. My Mistress and I engage in this kind of sex all the time. In fact, we recently made a video that I post a link to here on the forum of us and it ends with a strap-on scene(although we saved the part for where she actually takes me for members of her Google group.) It's a fairly traditional element of femdom relationships and it really allows us to express our D/s roles better than most other forms of BDSM play, as we talk about in her femdom podcasts. Visit my Mistresses Blog at www.MistressRoulette.com | |
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| Louloupe | Posted: 2010-01-08 14:29 | |
Forum Maniac United States 23,453 Posts | clampsandwax: I will make a new years resolution to use more paragraph breaks. Sometimes since I am a slow typist the thoughts flow, and I want to get all the words down before I forget my ideas. Grammar and punctuation are good. Its been since 1984 when I took freshman English composition at the U of M , and I got a "D" for dunce.. I do see your point that many of my posts do have bad grammar. There is something to be said for proper English as effective communication. point taken. -- Fortune favors the bold. or Fortune favors the Italics on a Ducati Edited by - clampsandwax on 2010-01-04 10:30:45 You're well worth reading with or without the paragraph breaks. | |
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| Carrianna | Posted: 2010-01-10 05:00 | |
Forum Apprentice United Kingdom 114 Posts | seeing_purple: I've never talked to him about this (think I might scare him) but sometimes when I'm dominating my guy, I enjoy the thought of fucking him with a dildo or a strap-on or something. But he's a straight guy. Is there such a thing as a heterosexual male who's okay with that? Does anyone have experience with this? Oh yes... Have fun... There are loads of old threads on this site that can give you as much reading or little as you desire... Have fun xx "Selfishness must always be forgiven you know, because there is no hope of a cure." Mansfield Park J. Austen | |
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| Johannes_de_Silentio | Posted: 2010-01-10 17:18 | |
Forum Newbie 94 Posts | MistressMiranda: I've met straight men who won't get fucked in the ass. I don't recall meeting any straight men who don't like getting fucked in the ass. always the wise one | |
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| plastilatexslut | Posted: 2010-01-12 19:10 | |
Forum Initiate 10 Posts | No it is not ...I am My Masked Mistress Vinylatrix Jaynes husband and Rubber plugged multilayered ..maid Slut ..As her Plasticlatexslut I am 'forced '..to endure my Vinylatrix Jaynes strict multilayerings..with 5 inch rubberplug under 3 layers ...belted ..for 22 hrs at a timeand spanked into me ..I love her ..12 years... and her sweet shiny orgasmdenial training ..definetly not off limits | |
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