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DominosBratt	Posted: 2004-06-22 07:00
Forum Apprentice United States 192 Posts	Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc): Submissive and slave mixed How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL): OL & RT same amount of time - 3.5 years. Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task. I'm a great researcherc & I like to help people - especially in this lifestyle. People can make such bad (uninformed) choices because they don't know what else to do. Before I met SirD in person, some of my assignments were to research certain things so I would know what they were when we did them. -- "The fastest way to succeed is to look as if you're playing by somebody else's rules, while quietly playing by your own." Michael Konda

Wolfspet	Posted: 2004-06-29 16:55
Saz & Tarts Chewtoy Senior Moderator United States 13,632 Posts	Well, I was asked to "fill in the blanks" Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc) Slave, non submissive How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL) Almost 22 years real life. Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task. It's not so much I am willing to "mentor" as I am willing to listen & share what I have learned in my 20+ years in the "lifestyle" I have been in a stable relationship for almost 16 years, and we have managed to balence our desire for power inequality while maintaing a "normal" life & raising kids. Any person without the above information will be deleted from the list. -- dianne "Woman was used by the Creator to cast the light of knowledge on man just as the Moon casts its light on the Earth. Alone, man is backwards and undeveloped. he needs the light that woman gives to make him whole." - The Mishomis Book, The Voice of the Ojibway by Edward Benton-Banai

IntoPleasurePain	Posted: 2004-06-30 12:12
Forum Initiate 10 Posts	Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc) submissive (subbie) as well as Sir's little girl How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL) 2 years. Currently R/T for over a year. Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task: Though my time in the lifestyle to others may seem short, i have grown so much through knowledge. Be it through Sir's teachings, or my continuous desire to learn more via reading books, sites and or by asking ?'s not only of other Dom's, but of other subbies as well. i take my submission and committed relationship to Sir very serious. i pride myself on being the very best i can in pleasing Him not only physically, but mentally and emotionally as well. i avoid the "games" that some play and do all that i can to learn more with each passing day. i feel that though to many my experience is "new", in that time i have experienced enough to be willing to share with those that seek answers that i may have to their ?'s and or am even willing to find as best i can for them. i am blessed to have a Sir that is open and caring and welcomes me sharing my thoughts and opinions with others, in hopes that they too will find a relationship that is built on trust, respect, admiration, safety, fun, friendship and love. Those that do are ones that will in turn live their life in sweetness. i am honored to say that i do.

CherryTorn	Posted: 2004-07-01 01:56
Forum Apprentice United States 128 Posts	Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc) - 24/7 Slave. How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL) - I have been involved in BDSM for three years, and have been r/t for about 2 1/2 of that. Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task. - I feel strongly about supporting an informed, new generation. I feel that younger people who are interested in BDSM tend to be taken for granted. I find it very hard to get an older person to talk seriously with me about things, and I think it may be beneficial for some novices to have someone closer to their age to relate with. Also, if there are any types of roles, relationships etc that you would not feel comfortable mentoring include this in your post, as well as any types of relationships you feel especially fitted to mentoring. - I think i would be most comfortable with 24/7 relationships, M/s inparticular. I do not think i could be any help with any sort of long-term polyamorous relationship. -- "I'm June Cleaver with a brand on my ass" - Delia Day Edited by - daddys_cockwhore on 2004-07-01 06:39:28

his_love	Posted: 2004-08-26 04:51
Forum Apprentice 289 Posts	Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc) slave, submissive, masochist, daddies lil girl. How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL) RT for 14 years. 12 as a submissive, 2 as a slave, 3 of that combined time as a masochist. My experience over that time has been in both private and public life. (munches, fet nights etc). OL for around 6 years. Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task. I have been there, like anyone in the lifestyle just starting out or even sometimes just needing other people's views and thoughts to better aid my own learning process etc. Even at times just to know you aren't alone. Those were dark times and if I can help others through those times. Cool As for what I think qualifies me, experience, willingness to share info and admit to times I messed up etc so people can know that we all have those moments. I have a good ear, strong shoulder to lean on or so I am told. I spend most of time helping and stuff already on msn and yahoo etc. I am of the opinion that I have as much to learn from those I mentor as they learn from me roles, relationships etc that you would not feel comfortable mentoring I am not that confident in Gor, I haven't experienced that so much. I live with my Master 24/7 so I would be adept at dealing with those kinda topics. Pretty much tried most things.lol and willing to learn alongside others about things I haven't Charlene -- When you were born, you cried and the world rejoiced. Live your life so that when you die, the world cries and you rejoice.

katie	Posted: 2004-09-13 12:02
Just blame me United States 1,448 Posts	Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc): submissive/slave How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL)RL 8 years, OL 8 years Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task. My advice comes not just from my experience in BDSM but also from vanilla relationships as well. I am open, honest, and direct, fairly well read and find that most of the time people already have the answers, they just do not know the question yet. In addition my own theories that I put into practice regards BDSM have more to do with submissives identifying their personal needs and wants. I firmly believe that everyone that desires to submit will find it easier (mentally, emotionally, and spiritually) if they are with someone that inspires their submission. I can also be contacted at evilkatie@aol.com -- I am the katie! Edited by - Katie on 2004-12-14 06:17:24

Axels_april	Posted: 2004-10-11 00:48
Forum Apprentice United States 118 Posts	Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc) i serve as a real time slave living with my Owner. i moved to be with Him Feb. 2003. How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL)Real time, 4 years. Online 6 years i guess. Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task.Although i don't know everything, i started online and learned the ups and downs of web BDSM. my first real time encounter was going to a BDSM club alone. Scary but i met some of the most wonderful and supportive people. Becoming involved with that club;i learned a lot about the submissive role in public, how to conduct myself as if my potential Owner was always watching, how to handle scenes when they go bad and how to state what i needed and wanted from a BDSM relationship. The lessons i learned attending that club are so very important to me. i was indeed extremely lucky to meet a Master who offered to "train" me without using me. He held to His promise and i was given knowledge beyond what i could ever thank Him for. my life now with my Owner has shown me that being a real time slave is possible. Is it always peaches and cream, no. Is it always house cleaning and being used, no. It is one of the most fulfilling relationships of my life. We travel to many BDSM events, have many real time friends in the lifestyle and are constantly learning. i know about many BDSM and service oriented things, to list a few: boot blacking formal table service (table setting, cooking, etiquette) proper phrasing of delicate situations with my Owner (not that i always get it right) dressing to please house cleaning and home management how to entertain visiting Dominants/slaves how to surrender in heavy scene (not a masochist) dealing with limits being pushed (if you have any) As i think of my day to day life, i see so many things i have learned but it seems mute to list them all here. i would like to mentor because i have been there. i know the pitfalls and joys of service. If my thoughts, support, or learning can help another it is not only my duty as a sister in service to help but a joy to help another on his/her journey. i take a very common sense approach to slavery and do not romanticize it without merit. Your heart must desire to serve, bottom, or submit. To me, this is consensual slavery. There is a difference between abuse and a Master/slave relationship. Thank you for allowing me to post on this subject. Axels_april

phantas_c	Posted: 2004-11-16 21:36
Forum Slut United States 1,524 Posts	Hello I am a Owned little girl slave real time 24/7 high protocol I have been active in the lifestyle almost 7 years, I live in the SoCal area. I also am the founder of the Los Angeles sister's in submission ( LA_sis ) real-time group who meets once a month. I feel I could be a mentor based on the journey I am exploring. I have dealt with a successful LDR gone real life and I have traveled the road of submission to slave. I act as a mentor and friend to many sub/slaves in the local area and very much enjoy giving back to my community. hugs bren -- "i am a slave, born to serve. Born to please and be used. To hold the hand of the One who shall walk me through the dark and bring me back with more life than i ever thought possible."~~phantas_c ." Claimed property, beloved toy, devoted slave to PhantDom... forever~~ http://www.slaveregister.com/certificate/843697 ,¡\|i¹i\|¡, ¹i\|¡,¡\|i¹ Member of : http://groups.yahoo.com/group/LA_sis/ Edited by - phantas_c on 2006-10-13 16:20:36

Jeff_and_hope	Posted: 2004-11-19 23:37
Completely His United States 8,802 Posts	Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc) Slave, non submissive How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL) About 9 years OL and about 6 years RT Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task. I think the one thing about life is that the more you know, the more you realize you need to learn. Mentoring means that I am an expert in the field.. I have yet to meet an expert slave I am willing to talk, and listen, and share.. and give examples of what I have learned along the way. I am in a 24/7, M/s relationship. We have a child, and I do not work. We are very "real," we life life, we have fun, and we are best friends. As much help as I have gotten, I always love giving it back. -- *~ hope ~* "So... I hate labels. I really do.I'm me... I'm a bitch - sometimes psycho and sometimes nice. Just because I've always gone happily along with whatever it is he wants me to do and don't REMEMBER flat out refusing to do something, doesn't mean I'm submissive." sazmira "i'm a betty, she's a betty, wouldn't ya like to be a betty too?" BEHAVE or i'll beat You like i own You

submissive_girl3	Posted: 2004-11-27 11:56
Forum Initiate United States 13 Posts	Role that you identify with: slave How long you have been in the lifestyle: One yr real time. Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task: Well, because subs have come to me before to talk and I like to think that I have helped them in someway. Also I am younger than most submissive and can be here for those that want to talk to someone there age.

NightWhip	Posted: 2004-12-17 11:08
Forum Maniac United States 49,471 Posts	I have a friend.. she is new here... she needs help understanding.... Maggie are you here? friskypossum_-S-_: -~Submissive mentoring submissive mentoring list~- If you are seeking a mentor, simply email one of the people who have volunteered to mentor by posting to this list. As authored by jeunesse: Welcome to the sub-to-sub mentor list. This list is a list of experienced submissives that are willing to mentor other submissives. Please read the entire post before responding. Bondage.com is not affiliated with this list and holds no liability of any activities as the result of this list. What is a mentor? Contrary to popular belief, a mentor is not a trainer. It is someone who has experience in an endeavour that another person aspires to. They may be nothing more than a friendly ear, a sounding board, or person to ask for advice. They may also help you figure out for yourself how you want to fit in this lifestyle. The mentor/mentoree relationship is what you make of it. Many people have heard stories of uber-doms mentoring new subs and it has become a controversial issue. Many new submissives want and need an ear to go to. It is possible that another submissive ear will be the least likely to harbour alternative motivations. When I came to the lifestyle several experienced submissives helped me. I learned from them and in turn, I grew as a person. In truth, I still am learning from my submissive elder sisters. The submissives on this list are people who are willing to talk with a new submissive. They are not endorsed by bondage.com and have not been screened in any way. As a new submissive, it is your responsibility and choice to e-mail and speak with them until you find one you feel comfortable with. Take all advice as opinion and feel free to learn from the many voices that have been where you are right now. To be a mentor on this list you must be a submissive, bottom and/or slave. I am sorry, but in an effort to promote the integrity of this list no doms, dommes or switches will be allowed on this list (in support and advice there is a support list that is mixed in orientation). In addition, the submissives on this list must not use this list to procure a third for their dominant partners. If you are interested in being on this list please respond to this post with the following information: Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc) How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL) [b]WHEN ANSWERING THIS QUESTION, DO NOT POST ABOUT UNDERAGE BDSM AND/OR SEXUAL ACTIVITY IN YOUR POST. Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task.[/b] Any person without the above information will be deleted from the list. Also, if there are any types of roles, relationships etc that you would not feel comfortable mentoring include this in your post, as well as any types of relationships you feel especially fitted to mentoring. Moderators note: As this thread is intended to help promote healthy relationships within the BDSM community, it is located in the Relationships forum. If you have any questions or queries regarding this list, please feel free to contact the moderators of the Relationships forum. -- ~The Friskity Possum Twisted and Tweak'd Till all wrapp'd around the toy shiny and sleek The Lesbian did grab her and tied down her hide And said its insertible with enough astroglide~ Maruspial Mayhem! Edited by - friskypossum_-S-_ on 2004-11-17 05:52:53

nightwhispers	Posted: 2004-12-17 11:15
Forum Initiate 31 Posts	NightWhip: I have a friend.. she is new here... she needs help understanding.... Maggie are you here? friskypossum_-S-_: -~Submissive mentoring submissive mentoring list~- If you are seeking a mentor, simply email one of the people who have volunteered to mentor by posting to this list. As authored by jeunesse: Welcome to the sub-to-sub mentor list. This list is a list of experienced submissives that are willing to mentor other submissives. Please read the entire post before responding. Bondage.com is not affiliated with this list and holds no liability of any activities as the result of this list. What is a mentor? Contrary to popular belief, a mentor is not a trainer. It is someone who has experience in an endeavour that another person aspires to. They may be nothing more than a friendly ear, a sounding board, or person to ask for advice. They may also help you figure out for yourself how you want to fit in this lifestyle. The mentor/mentoree relationship is what you make of it. Many people have heard stories of uber-doms mentoring new subs and it has become a controversial issue. Many new submissives want and need an ear to go to. It is possible that another submissive ear will be the least likely to harbour alternative motivations. When I came to the lifestyle several experienced submissives helped me. I learned from them and in turn, I grew as a person. In truth, I still am learning from my submissive elder sisters. The submissives on this list are people who are willing to talk with a new submissive. They are not endorsed by bondage.com and have not been screened in any way. As a new submissive, it is your responsibility and choice to e-mail and speak with them until you find one you feel comfortable with. Take all advice as opinion and feel free to learn from the many voices that have been where you are right now. To be a mentor on this list you must be a submissive, bottom and/or slave. I am sorry, but in an effort to promote the integrity of this list no doms, dommes or switches will be allowed on this list (in support and advice there is a support list that is mixed in orientation). In addition, the submissives on this list must not use this list to procure a third for their dominant partners. If you are interested in being on this list please respond to this post with the following information: Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc) How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL) [b]WHEN ANSWERING THIS QUESTION, DO NOT POST ABOUT UNDERAGE BDSM AND/OR SEXUAL ACTIVITY IN YOUR POST. Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task.[/b] Any person without the above information will be deleted from the list. Also, if there are any types of roles, relationships etc that you would not feel comfortable mentoring include this in your post, as well as any types of relationships you feel especially fitted to mentoring. Moderators note: As this thread is intended to help promote healthy relationships within the BDSM community, it is located in the Relationships forum. If you have any questions or queries regarding this list, please feel free to contact the moderators of the Relationships forum. -- ~The Friskity Possum Twisted and Tweak'd Till all wrapp'd around the toy shiny and sleek The Lesbian did grab her and tied down her hide And said its insertible with enough astroglide~ Maruspial Mayhem! Edited by - friskypossum_-S-_ on 2004-11-17 05:52:53

nightwhispers	Posted: 2004-12-17 11:24
Forum Initiate 31 Posts	yes NightWhip, i am here, thank you for introducing me.

Axels_april	Posted: 2004-12-23 07:59
Forum Apprentice United States 118 Posts	Sending hellos to Maggie! Welcome to the forums. Axels_april

jaydedjayde	Posted: 2005-01-06 22:59
Forum Regular United States 762 Posts	I am a newer submissive who is looking for a mentor. I am unable to contact premium members first though. If there is someone in here who would like to help me out with this (being a mentor to me) I would really appreciate it. Thanks all jayde -- would not a rose by any other name smell as sweet?

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Topic

DominosBratt

Posted: 2004-06-22 07:00

Forum Apprentice

United States
192 Posts

Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc): Submissive and slave mixed

How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL): OL & RT same amount of time - 3.5 years.

Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task. I'm a great researcherc & I like to help people - especially in this lifestyle. People can make such bad (uninformed) choices because they don't know what else to do. Before I met SirD in person, some of my assignments were to research certain things so I would know what they were when we did them.
--
"The fastest way to succeed is to look as if you're playing by somebody else's rules, while quietly playing by your own."
Michael Konda

Wolfspet

Posted: 2004-06-29 16:55

Saz & Tarts Chewtoy
Senior Moderator

United States
13,632 Posts

Well, I was asked to "fill in the blanks"

Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc)
Slave, non submissive

How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL)
Almost 22 years real life.

Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task.
It's not so much I am willing to "mentor" as I am willing to listen & share what I have learned in my 20+ years in the "lifestyle"
I have been in a stable relationship for almost 16 years, and we have managed to balence our desire for power inequality while maintaing a "normal" life & raising kids.

Any person without the above information will be deleted from the list.

--
dianne

"Woman was used by the Creator to cast the light of knowledge on man just as the Moon casts its light on the Earth. Alone, man is backwards and undeveloped. he needs the light that woman gives to make him whole."
- The Mishomis Book, The Voice of the Ojibway by Edward Benton-Banai

IntoPleasurePain

Posted: 2004-06-30 12:12

Forum Initiate

10 Posts

Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc)

submissive (subbie) as well as Sir's little girl

How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL) 2 years. Currently R/T for over a year.

Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task:

Though my time in the lifestyle to others may seem short, i have grown so much through knowledge. Be it through Sir's teachings, or my continuous desire to learn more via reading books, sites and or by asking ?'s not only of other Dom's, but of other subbies as well. i take my submission and committed relationship to Sir very serious. i pride myself on being the very best i can in pleasing Him not only physically, but mentally and emotionally as well. i avoid the "games" that some play and do all that i can to learn more with each passing day. i feel that though to many my experience is "new", in that time i have experienced enough to be willing to share with those that seek answers that i may have to their ?'s and or am even willing to find as best i can for them. i am blessed to have a Sir that is open and caring and welcomes me sharing my thoughts and opinions with others, in hopes that they too will find a relationship that is built on trust, respect, admiration, safety, fun, friendship and love. Those that do are ones that will in turn live their life in sweetness. i am honored to say that i do.

CherryTorn

Posted: 2004-07-01 01:56

Forum Apprentice

United States
128 Posts

Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc)
- 24/7 Slave.

How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL)
- I have been involved in BDSM for three years, and have been r/t for about 2 1/2 of that.

Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task.
- I feel strongly about supporting an informed, new generation. I feel that younger people who are interested in BDSM tend to be taken for granted. I find it very hard to get an older person to talk seriously with me about things, and I think it may be beneficial for some novices to have someone closer to their age to relate with.

Also, if there are any types of roles, relationships etc that you would not feel comfortable mentoring include this in your post, as well as any types of relationships you feel especially fitted to mentoring.
- I think i would be most comfortable with 24/7 relationships, M/s inparticular. I do not think i could be any help with any sort of long-term polyamorous relationship.

--
"I'm June Cleaver with a brand on my ass" - Delia Day

Edited by - daddys_cockwhore on 2004-07-01 06:39:28

his_love

Posted: 2004-08-26 04:51

Forum Apprentice

289 Posts

Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc) slave, submissive, masochist, daddies lil girl.

How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL)
RT for 14 years. 12 as a submissive, 2 as a slave, 3 of that combined time as a masochist. My experience over that time has been in both private and public life. (munches, fet nights etc).
OL for around 6 years.

Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task.
I have been there, like anyone in the lifestyle just starting out or even sometimes just needing other people's views and thoughts to better aid my own learning process etc. Even at times just to know you aren't alone. Those were dark times and if I can help others through those times. Cool As for what I think qualifies me, experience, willingness to share info and admit to times I messed up etc so people can know that we all have those moments. I have a good ear, strong shoulder to lean on or so I am told. I spend most of time helping and stuff already on msn and yahoo etc. I am of the opinion that I have as much to learn from those I mentor as they learn from me

roles, relationships etc that you would not feel comfortable mentoring I am not that confident in Gor, I haven't experienced that so much. I live with my Master 24/7 so I would be adept at dealing with those kinda topics. Pretty much tried most things.lol and willing to learn alongside others about things I haven't

Charlene

--
When you were born,
you cried and the world rejoiced.
Live your life so that when you die,
the world cries and you rejoice.

katie

Posted: 2004-09-13 12:02

Just blame me

United States
1,448 Posts

Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc): submissive/slave

How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL)RL 8 years, OL 8 years

Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task. My advice comes not just from my experience in BDSM but also from vanilla relationships as well. I am open, honest, and direct, fairly well read and find that most of the time people already have the answers, they just do not know the question yet.

In addition my own theories that I put into practice regards BDSM have more to do with submissives identifying their personal needs and wants. I firmly believe that everyone that desires to submit will find it easier (mentally, emotionally, and spiritually) if they are with someone that inspires their submission.

I can also be contacted at evilkatie@aol.com

--
I am the katie!

Edited by - Katie on 2004-12-14 06:17:24

Axels_april

Posted: 2004-10-11 00:48

Forum Apprentice

United States
118 Posts

Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc)
i serve as a real time slave living with my Owner. i moved to be with Him Feb. 2003.

How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL)Real time, 4 years. Online 6 years i guess.

Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task.Although i don't know everything, i started online and learned the ups and downs of web BDSM. my first real time encounter was going to a BDSM club alone. Scary but i met some of the most wonderful and supportive people. Becoming involved with that club;i learned a lot about the submissive role in public, how to conduct myself as if my potential Owner was always watching, how to handle scenes when they go bad and how to state what i needed and wanted from a BDSM relationship. The lessons i learned attending that club are so very important to me. i was indeed extremely lucky to meet a Master who offered to "train" me without using me. He held to His promise and i was given knowledge beyond what i could ever thank Him for.

my life now with my Owner has shown me that being a real time slave is possible. Is it always peaches and cream, no. Is it always house cleaning and being used, no. It is one of the most fulfilling relationships of my life. We travel to many BDSM events, have many real time friends in the lifestyle and are constantly learning.

i know about many BDSM and service oriented things, to list a few:

boot blacking
formal table service (table setting, cooking, etiquette)
proper phrasing of delicate situations with my Owner (not that i always get it right)
dressing to please
house cleaning and home management
how to entertain visiting Dominants/slaves
how to surrender in heavy scene (not a masochist)
dealing with limits being pushed (if you have any)
As i think of my day to day life, i see so many things i have learned but it seems mute to list them all here.

i would like to mentor because i have been there. i know the pitfalls and joys of service. If my thoughts, support, or learning can help another it is not only my duty as a sister in service to help but a joy to help another on his/her journey.

i take a very common sense approach to slavery and do not romanticize it without merit. Your heart must desire to serve, bottom, or submit. To me, this is consensual slavery. There is a difference between abuse and a Master/slave relationship.

Thank you for allowing me to post on this subject.

Axels_april

phantas_c

Posted: 2004-11-16 21:36

Forum Slut

United States
1,524 Posts

Hello
I am a Owned little girl slave real time 24/7 high protocol
I have been active in the lifestyle almost 7 years, I live in the SoCal area. I also am the founder of the Los Angeles sister's in submission ( LA_sis ) real-time group who meets once a month.
I feel I could be a mentor based on the journey I am exploring. I have dealt with a successful LDR gone real life and I have traveled the road of submission to slave.
I act as a mentor and friend to many sub/slaves in the local area and very much enjoy giving back to my community.

hugs
bren
--
"i am a slave, born to serve. Born to please and be used. To hold the hand of the One who shall walk me through the dark and bring me back with more life than i ever thought possible."~~phantas_c ."

Claimed property, beloved toy, devoted slave to PhantDom... forever~~ http://www.slaveregister.com/certificate/843697
,¡|i¹i|¡,
¹i|¡,¡|i¹ Member of : http://groups.yahoo.com/group/LA_sis/

Edited by - phantas_c on 2006-10-13 16:20:36

Jeff_and_hope

Posted: 2004-11-19 23:37

Completely His

United States
8,802 Posts

Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc)
Slave, non submissive

How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL)
About 9 years OL and about 6 years RT

Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task.
I think the one thing about life is that the more you know, the more you realize you need to learn. Mentoring means that I am an expert in the field.. I have yet to meet an expert slave I am willing to talk, and listen, and share.. and give examples of what I have learned along the way. I am in a 24/7, M/s relationship. We have a child, and I do not work. We are very "real," we life life, we have fun, and we are best friends. As much help as I have gotten, I always love giving it back.

--
~ hope ~

"So... I hate labels. I really do.I'm me... I'm a bitch - sometimes psycho and sometimes nice. Just because I've always gone happily along with whatever it is he wants me to do and don't REMEMBER flat out refusing to do something, doesn't mean I'm submissive." sazmira

"i'm a betty, she's a betty, wouldn't ya like to be a betty too?" BEHAVE or i'll beat You like i own You

submissive_girl3

Posted: 2004-11-27 11:56

Forum Initiate

United States
13 Posts

Role that you identify with: slave

How long you have been in the lifestyle: One yr real time.

Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task: Well, because subs have come to me before to talk and I like to think that I have helped them in someway. Also I am younger than most submissive and can be here for those that want to talk to someone there age.

NightWhip

Posted: 2004-12-17 11:08

Forum Maniac

United States
49,471 Posts

I have a friend.. she is new here... she needs help understanding....

Maggie are you here?

friskypossum_-S-_:
-~Submissive mentoring submissive mentoring list~-

If you are seeking a mentor, simply email one of the people who have volunteered to mentor by posting to this list.

As authored by jeunesse:

Welcome to the sub-to-sub mentor list. This list is a list of experienced submissives that are willing to mentor other submissives. Please read the entire post before responding.

Bondage.com is not affiliated with this list and holds no liability of any activities as the result of this list.

What is a mentor? Contrary to popular belief, a mentor is not a trainer. It is someone who has experience in an endeavour that another person aspires to. They may be nothing more than a friendly ear, a sounding board, or person to ask for advice. They may also help you figure out for yourself how you want to fit in this lifestyle. The mentor/mentoree relationship is what you make of it.

Many people have heard stories of uber-doms mentoring new subs and it has become a controversial issue. Many new submissives want and need an ear to go to. It is possible that another submissive ear will be the least likely to harbour alternative motivations. When I came to the lifestyle several experienced submissives helped me. I learned from them and in turn, I grew as a person. In truth, I still am learning from my submissive elder sisters.

The submissives on this list are people who are willing to talk with a new submissive. They are not endorsed by bondage.com and have not been screened in any way. As a new submissive, it is your responsibility and choice to e-mail and speak with them until you find one you feel comfortable with. Take all advice as opinion and feel free to learn from the many voices that have been where you are right now.

To be a mentor on this list you must be a submissive, bottom and/or slave. I am sorry, but in an effort to promote the integrity of this list no doms, dommes or switches will be allowed on this list (in support and advice there is a support list that is mixed in orientation). In addition, the submissives on this list must not use this list to procure a third for their dominant partners.
If you are interested in being on this list please respond to this post with the following information:

Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc)

How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL)

[b]WHEN ANSWERING THIS QUESTION, DO NOT POST ABOUT UNDERAGE BDSM AND/OR SEXUAL ACTIVITY IN YOUR POST.

Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task.[/b]

Any person without the above information will be deleted from the list.

Also, if there are any types of roles, relationships etc that you would not feel comfortable mentoring include this in your post, as well as any types of relationships you feel especially fitted to mentoring.

Moderators note:

As this thread is intended to help promote healthy relationships within the BDSM community, it is located in the Relationships forum. If you have any questions or queries regarding this list, please feel free to contact the moderators of the Relationships forum.

~*The Friskity Possum Twisted and Tweak'd
Till all wrapp'd around the toy shiny and sleek
The Lesbian did grab her and tied down her hide
And said its insertible with enough astroglide*~

Maruspial Mayhem!

Edited by - friskypossum_-S-_ on 2004-11-17 05:52:53

nightwhispers

Posted: 2004-12-17 11:15

Forum Initiate

31 Posts

NightWhip:
I have a friend.. she is new here... she needs help understanding....

Maggie are you here?

friskypossum_-S-_:
-~Submissive mentoring submissive mentoring list~-

If you are seeking a mentor, simply email one of the people who have volunteered to mentor by posting to this list.

As authored by jeunesse:

Welcome to the sub-to-sub mentor list. This list is a list of experienced submissives that are willing to mentor other submissives. Please read the entire post before responding.

Bondage.com is not affiliated with this list and holds no liability of any activities as the result of this list.

~*The Friskity Possum Twisted and Tweak'd
Till all wrapp'd around the toy shiny and sleek
The Lesbian did grab her and tied down her hide
And said its insertible with enough astroglide*~

Maruspial Mayhem!

Edited by - friskypossum_-S-_ on 2004-11-17 05:52:53

nightwhispers

Posted: 2004-12-17 11:24

Forum Initiate

31 Posts

yes NightWhip, i am here, thank you for introducing me.

Axels_april

Posted: 2004-12-23 07:59

Forum Apprentice

United States
118 Posts

Sending hellos to Maggie! Welcome to the forums.

Axels_april

jaydedjayde

Posted: 2005-01-06 22:59

Forum Regular

United States
762 Posts

I am a newer submissive who is looking for a mentor. I am unable to contact premium members first though. If there is someone in here who would like to help me out with this (being a mentor to me) I would really appreciate it.

Thanks all

jayde
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would not a rose by any other name smell as sweet?

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