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| _Fire_ | Posted: 2008-08-28 13:00 | |
| Forum Maniac United Kingdom 7,028 Posts | Poppers help too. F Fuck for the environment ...FuckForForest.com "I'm all in favor of keeping dangerous weapons out of the hands of fools. Let's start with typewriters." Solomon Short. | |
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| pinkwind | Posted: 2008-08-28 13:10 | |
Dun quhynging! United Kingdom 10,319 Posts | i will disagree with one poster here, in that i do not think that everyone can be fisted even eventually, after time, effort and a tanker-load of lube. What i can say is that if the desire is there, and the willingness to work together and listen to one another even a partial fisting can be marvellously pleasurable for those concerned. Just to add to what someone else said about their own physical state, i had somewhat extensive genital reconstruction surgery nigh on 40 years ago, have experienced natural childbirth, and have been doing my "kegels" as prescribed since the ops, so folk have discovered i haven't got a cunt like a bucket! Muscles are designed to stretch and flex, cunt muscles are meant to do so for intercourse, but take an outpouring of hormones generally to let something the size of a fist through the vagina. That said fisting can be achieved for a good proportion of folk, but isn't the be all and end all of everything. The trying and the connection that it brings is worth a little pain as you get used to how to relax, as you and the fister learn how to work in harmony. For those who like pain wrapped in pleasure the pain is part and parcel of the experience, but if pain is not your thing it's time to back off once it becomes too much, and return when you are good and ready, and able to relax into it. For myself it's the erotic closeness that fisting gives that is the key that unlocks my desire, and with that the emotional mechanism to allow it to happen. As i said before, only in my feral state can more forceful fisting happen because when i am in that state i don't care or even feel the pain, just the overwhelming need for a driven fist. But that is a whole other subject right there! -- pink... Master Andy's emotion... From Each According To His Abilities, To Each According To His Needs. | |
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| rikkiann | Posted: 2008-08-28 18:32 | |
| Forum Newbie United States 68 Posts | I dont think there is a better feeling than having a fist inside my cunt.We tried for months with no luck then one night i asked him yo try it agian I dont know why but that night his fist slipped right into my pussy. all i can say is wow. i had an orgasm that would wouldnt end. we do it often now the only bad part is doesnt hurt as much now. the pain was an added benefit. working now on fisting my ass. he is up to 4 fingers soon i hope, rikki | |
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| rainyday84 | Posted: 2008-08-28 18:53 | |
Forum Apprentice United States 213 Posts | the idea of fisting honestly just scares me too much. =p | |
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| ponygirl_auburn_vixen | Posted: 2008-08-28 20:38 | |
pleasure puppet Moderator  United States 3,374 Posts | What doesn't kill me makes me stronger!  -- | |
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| clampsandwax | Posted: 2008-08-28 21:28 | |
Forum Maniac United States 3,327 Posts | I don't know if my fist would fit in many pussies. I have large hands. Once I met a woman in St Cloud that had a small hand and seemed eager to try to fit it in my ass. I never followed through though. Maybe I will never know how it feels. How does it feel? -- Fortune favors the bold. | |
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| Myksdyke | Posted: 2008-08-28 22:29 | |
Forum Newbie United States 70 Posts | i'd like to second a couple comments from other posters. A Hand in the Bush is a great read, and position helps (on my back, ass in the air seems to open me up more). The biggest thing that helped me, though, was practicing on myself; it helped me learn how to relax enough to get over the knuckles. Oh, and the pleasure part is a nice bonus.  | |
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| spankslut | Posted: 2008-08-28 23:42 | |
Forum Maniac United States 4,321 Posts | juuust chiming in with my whole hearted endorsement of fisting. yay! his hands are frightfully large. we do not use lube. we tried the lube and the latex glove, but you know.. he just gets me all frothy with his fingers and his usual methods until im squirting allover the place, begging for the fist and we go from there. sure it hurts. its more like an uncomfortable at first it was and still can be easier if im on my hands and knees... whcih is alwasy fun because in spite of begging for it i always wind up with my face smashhed against the wall for leverage, lol... anway if you orgasm enough and are in that begging to be fuicked like the whore i am headspace, it really makes for a smoother fist insertion. dont beat yourself up either, over not getting the whole thing in. enjoy what you do accomplish and look forward to the next time. every session is different! and yes it takes some time to recover! the good news is, your ass is nice and tight for him to fuck while you dfo... until of course he gets his fist up in there too.... the first time he fisted me, i sent him a text afterwords. "honey i went to pee and my uterus fell out" i thought it was hilarious. him? not so much. --  | |
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| voraciousmess | Posted: 2008-08-29 00:54 | |
| Forum Apprentice Canada 322 Posts | i'm not a fan of lube, in general. ass sex just needs some spitlube or cuntjuice to get started.. and then my rear seems to create it's own. that said... i haven't ever been assraped. yet. i'll second one of Rotter's comments: that taking your time can also amplify anxiety. i had never been interested in fisting, not even slightly, until very very recently. i'm not sure why. my man & i had had a lovely evening with another couple. as i lay there wrists to ankles behind my back, tied for the first time, and watching my man fuck another gal for the first time.. all so new.. i was ready for much. that tie only helped to make me more bastardly (impose upon me, fuckers! scared? i'll just gladly bite the holy hell out of you until you do). i hadn't expressed my thoughts on fisting to this couple so when out of the blue, i feel him slather me with something, i blurt out "what the fuck is that?! is that lube? why the fuck would you use lube! get that offa me! ohhhhhhhHHHHHHH......." i hadn't known what was coming. oh, and.. quite primal. __________________ | |
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| sparkle_BGD333 | Posted: 2008-08-29 01:12 | |
Forum Slut Spain 1,605 Posts | I've also not had kids and Master has quite large hands, too large to fist me as of today.... maybe sometime we'll try again, but the times he has tried in the past it just wasn't gonna fit! I think it was more the case my skin wouldn't stretch around his hand upon entry. Sparkle ..... sub to Master Talisman (BGD333) | |
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| FuckingRotter | Posted: 2008-08-29 04:28 | |
Fist of Fury  United Kingdom 10,971 Posts | Nicely done and nicely told young lady. And talk about good timing, I was just begining to wonder if I'd gone mad or perhaps dreamt all my fisting exploits. The along comes little atrocious blunder to reassure as she often does that I am quite normal after all. I'd marry you were it feasable! voraciousmess: i'm not a fan of lube, in general. ass sex just needs some spitlube or cuntjuice to get started.. and then my rear seems to create it's own. that said... i haven't ever been assraped. yet. i'll second one of Rotter's comments: that taking your time can also amplify anxiety. i had never been interested in fisting, not even slightly, until very very recently. i'm not sure why. my man & i had had a lovely evening with another couple. as i lay there wrists to ankles behind my back, tied for the first time, and watching my man fuck another gal for the first time.. all so new.. i was ready for much. that tie only helped to make me more bastardly (impose upon me, fuckers! scared? i'll just gladly bite the holy hell out of you until you do). i hadn't expressed my thoughts on fisting to this couple so when out of the blue, i feel him slather me with something, i blurt out "what the fuck is that?! is that lube? why the fuck would you use lube! get that offa me! ohhhhhhhHHHHHHH......." i hadn't known what was coming. oh, and.. quite primal. __________________ | |
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| w_lilley | Posted: 2008-08-29 08:07 | |
Forum Initiate Canada 1 Posts | Relaxation and desire are for sure good keys.... work on it, it is absolutely amazing to have a trusty fist twisting inside of you. I haven't had the chance to break any fingers though...YET. | |
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| Calicocat | Posted: 2008-08-29 09:14 | |
| Forum Initiate United States 42 Posts | Thanks so much for everyone's comments and the few e-mails I received. I appriciate the comments about relaxation and the go slow perspective vs. the added anxiety going slow brings. I am happy to report that I am almost fully recovered now from my last forey and will gladly give it a go again. We have tried in the past, but this is the first time that he actually got it in. I was sure once it got in the pain would be less, but he was not able to turn his hand without the pain being excrutiating. I will work on relaxation. I am happy that no one is reporting any permanent damage! It does seem though that some women are just build smaller....I certainly heard that from women who have tried deligently. I imagination is that if it can be done with only moderate pain that it would be just fantastic orgasmically. Happy fisting to you all! | |
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| Calicocat | Posted: 2008-08-29 09:15 | |
| Forum Initiate United States 42 Posts | oh, and the posts about position have been very helpful. I will try other positions. I mostly have been on my back or sitting slightly up in a chair. | |
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| limper | Posted: 2008-08-29 10:20 | |
Uber Troll United States 3,559 Posts | FuckingRotter: Seems I'm in a minority of one on this lube thing. Maybe it reflects on the mindset of the women I associate with? They know that a thorough fisting is preferable to what they'll get and I am quite happy to hand to them if they object, and this in itself is hugely attractive to them and goes a long way. And I'm still not convinced by the go slow camp. Sure, patience, determination, taking care not to break anything. But take to long and you'll only augment any feelings of anxiety felt by fisted or fister. "Come the revolution brother, it won't be the socialists that are bloody revolting" Alf Garnet. "Are you fucking nuts?" nd Brought to you on iPhone, please forgive typing errors. Nope you are not alone on this. | |
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