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MagdalenePosted: 2005-01-10 06:07
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jaydedjayde:
I am a newer submissive who is looking for a mentor. I am unable to contact premium members first though. If there is someone in here who would like to help me out with this (being a mentor to me) I would really appreciate it.

Thanks all

jayde
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would not a rose by any other name smell as sweet?


You can email me at my hotmail address,

multihearts@hotmail.com

Magdalene
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Outside ideas of right doing and wrong doing, there is a field. I'll meet you there. ~ Rumi

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Jeff_and_hopePosted: 2005-01-11 22:08
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Magdalene:

jaydedjayde:
I am a newer submissive who is looking for a mentor. I am unable to contact premium members first though. If there is someone in here who would like to help me out with this (being a mentor to me) I would really appreciate it.

Thanks all

jayde
--
would not a rose by any other name smell as sweet?


You can email me at my hotmail address,

multihearts@hotmail.com

Magdalene
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Outside ideas of right doing and wrong doing, there is a field. I'll meet you there. ~ Rumi


Yes I am also at hopebrat@yahoo.com
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~ hope ~

" 'dominate' is a VERB... a fucking VERB, I tell you! A person cannot be a 'dominate'. For the love of God, learn to speak your own language, people!" KevinS

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ickle_kittyPosted: 2005-01-31 11:54
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United Kingdom
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Role that you identify with - submissive masochist

How long you have been in the lifestyle - 6 years physical, about 3 or 4 online

Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task - I enjoy talking to people who are still finding their feet in whatever they choose to do. I have experience of the very light end of playing right to the edge of sanity and can offer plenty of dos and donts and advice for safety. Not everyone will have the same feelings as me, but i'm usually pretty honest about what I feel.


any types of roles, relationships etc that you would not feel comfortable mentoring - anyone who is looking for someone to meet them privately.

I am out and about on the Scottish scene and so would not mind introducing new people to clubs and munches

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"hurt me" said the masochist
"no" said the sadist

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Bluemoon52Posted: 2005-02-23 21:39
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United States
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My name is Bluemoon 52. I am really in need of a helping hand. I would like anyone interested to e-mail me. The e-mail address is Knight195120@cs.com. I want to get into this lifestyle, but having problems conversing what i want.
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slaveboiziggyPosted: 2005-02-27 12:38
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Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc)

slave


How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL)

i began this journey back in the early 80's, And although i continue to be active real-time i have, in the last 3 years also particiapted online. i feel that online offers us that ability to share infornatiosn on a broader scope.

Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task.

i believe that it is important to share information with each other. It make for a stronger community, plus there have been so many that have helped me along my way. i certainly dont all the answers but i do feel the shear amount of time and experience could be helpful to others.


Also, if there are any types of roles, relationships etc that you would not feel comfortable mentoring include this in your post, as well as any types of relationships you feel especially fitted to mentoring.i

i am particularly interested in mentoring those interested in D/s and M/s as a lifestyle in real-time. i am also interest in formal service and the interpersonal relationships between a sub/slave and their Dom/Master/Mistress. i am a lesbian but am willing to talk to any gender or sexual orientation. i am willing to answer any questions i am posed but please be respectful of my time.

i hope that can be of help.

slave ziggy

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lilith2005Posted: 2005-04-09 10:46
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United States
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[quote]jaydedjayde:
I am a newer submissive who is looking for a mentor. I am unable to contact premium members first though. If there is someone in here who would like to help me out with this (being a mentor to me) I would really appreciate it.

Thanks all

jayde
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I am also newer submissive who is looking for a mentor. I am able to contact premium members.If there is someone in here who would like to assist me with understanding the sub role, I would really appreciate it.

Thank you.

my e-mail address on yahoo is valley_girl_1111

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brtexanPosted: 2005-05-04 05:20
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United States
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my name is victor and i'm a sub to Lady Kay. i've spent about a year reading books and online articles about the D/s relationship. However, most of the year was spent being unable to participate because of two back surgeries. We started our relationship about 2 months ago, although, we've had several conversations over the last year. Mostly, i anticipate just reading, but i'd like the ability to post a question, if one came up.

Thank You for your consideration.

v

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silvara_gracePosted: 2005-06-12 08:08
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Hello to all.

I am a 24/7 slave, and have been for over 3 years now.

I am a masochist (and have been for much of my life), yet not submissive, except to Master.

I offer my knowledge, my experiences and my shoulder if needed. I can help you wade through some of the pompous protocol and get down to what really matters....to you.

I found hope, solice and many friends here in B.com. I am more then willing to give the same to others.

If you can't reach me here try silvara_grace@msn.com.
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silvara_grace
proudly owned by Goalie

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NASHVILLEDOMPosted: 2005-06-12 08:20
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United States
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jaydedjayde:
I am a newer submissive who is looking for a mentor. I am unable to contact premium members first though. If there is someone in here who would like to help me out with this (being a mentor to me) I would really appreciate it.

Thanks all

jayde
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would not a rose by any other name smell as sweet?


Actually you should be able to. It is the non-premium members that you cannot contact. Premium members however do have the ability to block non premium members.

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LIVE THE LIFESTYLE NOT FOR IT

At the hot one when I remember to check it.
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saphirezdremPosted: 2005-06-22 23:44
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by mentoring- will you interview any potential Doms for me? that way i will weed out all the ones who are not available and lie to me
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HartOgoIdPosted: 2005-06-23 02:15
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United States
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Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc)
Submissive/slave

How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL)
10 Years of RT experience


Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task.

I want to be a mentor because I have been doing it already for many years. I created a website as well to try and help those who are new to perhaps have a little bit easier time of it. I have mentored many submissives over the last 6 years. I think that it is better to be mentored by another submissive then by a dominant that might have ulterior motives. I believe I am qualified because of my experience as both a 24/7 slave and as a submissive. I have lived both. I also like to help people. (gee go figure lol)

I can be emailed at HartOgold@mindspring.com
The link to my Harts Place website can be found in my profile

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~Beat me said the masochist. No said the sadist~

~Have I got a long way to run
~Collective Soul~
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pandoravampirePosted: 2005-06-26 15:38
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Australia
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Hello IntoPleasurePain.
I am responding to your offerring yourself as a mentor.
I am currently seeking a fellow submissive, to guide me, share the joy, and help with the not so joyous struggles, as i grow into my own role.
I am a submissive, who is living with my Sir. We have children in the house, so discretion is there, but the D/s dynamic is ever present. Though not what is termed 24/7.
We do this in private, ie. do not go out to munches or clubs, this is our life, not a game. This is for both of us, the first relationship that we have enjoyed that is D/s. Though bdsm has featured previously for us both.
A little about myself perhaps.....
I am 41, have 3 children (from previous marriage), live with my Sir in australia, i am his little one. I am not yet collared (a thing that i yearn for, yet has not occurred so far:( )
We have been together since Oct 2004, moved in together in Feb 2005. We are very in love, monogamous and heading toward 24/7, but will stop along the way wherever our comfort levels are.
I am not a submissive person and so struggle at times with the D/s dynamic. (dont we all!) at other times, the whole thing runs like poetry. I have had two previous long term relationships, my last one, we both wanted bdsm, but after the first rejoicing of finding a new way, found ourselves to be incompatable with bdsm ie. both sub. So i then decided i would seek what i needed, a Dom. I found my Sir on line at alt.com which has a forum for australians, and the rest is history.
If you are still available as a mentor, i would dearly like to hear from you.
If not, thankyou for you time in reading this.
regards
pandora


IntoPleasurePain:
Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc)

submissive (subbie) as well as Sir's little girl


How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL) 2 years. Currently R/T for over a year.

Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task:

Though my time in the lifestyle to others may seem short, i have grown so much through knowledge. Be it through Sir's teachings, or my continuous desire to learn more via reading books, sites and or by asking ?'s not only of other Dom's, but of other subbies as well. i take my submission and committed relationship to Sir very serious. i pride myself on being the very best i can in pleasing Him not only physically, but mentally and emotionally as well. i avoid the "games" that some play and do all that i can to learn more with each passing day. i feel that though to many my experience is "new", in that time i have experienced enough to be willing to share with those that seek answers that i may have to their ?'s and or am even willing to find as best i can for them. i am blessed to have a Sir that is open and caring and welcomes me sharing my thoughts and opinions with others, in hopes that they too will find a relationship that is built on trust, respect, admiration, safety, fun, friendship and love. Those that do are ones that will in turn live their life in sweetness. i am honored to say that i do.


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magical_1Posted: 2005-07-25 18:41
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United States
980 Posts
Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc)

slave

How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL)

my name is magic-- my Master's name is Lord Thomas. i have been in the lifestyle R/t for almost 6 years. Master and i live 24/7 R/T as husand and wife and Master and slave. We met online, but it quickly evolved to R/T and eventually 24/7.


Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task.

i enjoy helping people learn and grow in this lifestyle. i am not an expert by any means, but i have experienced just about every up and down that this dynamic can toss out. As for qualifications, Master and i have conducted "Living 24/7" workshops across the country...

i am comfortable mentoring just about anyone-- however, my experience lies much more in the MaleDom femsub D/s realm.

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http://subsidy.blogspot.com/
http://submissivemissive.blogspot.com/
http://fearloathingusa.blogspot.com/

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Quiet_CalmPosted: 2005-08-13 21:39
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United States
371 Posts
Hi All:
Right now, I am in the midst of transitioning from submissive to slave. I would appreciate talking with others who have gone through this. I am open minded and am willing to learn new ways of behaving and thinking. If you have the time and are willing to be a support and guide for me, my e-mail address is hpup406@yahoo.com. That is also my chat ID.

looking forward to hearing from you,
honey pup

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NASHVILLEDOMPosted: 2005-08-13 21:52
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United States
37,067 Posts
A suggestion.

If you are seeking a mentor, seek one that has the view of the lifestyle that you do or envision it to be.

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LIVE THE LIFESTYLE NOT FOR IT

At the hot one when I remember to check it.
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