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| paris_sub | Posted: 2006-01-19 20:31 | |
Elegance&Perversion Moderator   United States 1,209 Posts | Role i identify with : submissive, slave, bottom, pain slut, cum slut, all around slut How long in the lifestyle: 8 years real time Why i am qualified: In the 8 years since i discovered who i am, i have been actively involved in growing and learning about this lifestyle through online and real time. i have attended numerous workshops and seminars, read books, discussed, played and lived the lifestyle. i have taught classes and presented to local groups on a wide variety of topics, including Role Play, Needle Play, Rituals and Ceremonies, Cock Worship, Knife Play, Bondage, Breast Torture, Age Play and Humiliation. i believe that it is a sub's duty to know safety and technique. Not only am i very much into pain and SM, but i also believe in service. i served my first Master for 2 1/2 years and my second Master for about 3. That relationship was 24/7. Why i want to mentor: i have the time and the energy at this point in my life to help others who are sincere. i enjoy giving back to the community and it helps me as well. paris "This is not a dress rehearsal" - my mom Edited by - paris_sub on 2006-01-19 20:33:11 | |
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| sarasubbie | Posted: 2006-01-30 17:49 | |
Forum Initiate New Zealand 8 Posts | Hi, i have been unable to email anyone, am looking for a mentor, one whom has lived r/t and has a family? if anyone can help please email me at cpkbuffy@hotmail.com | |
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| Eduardo8 | Posted: 2006-02-02 10:48 | |
| Forum Initiate 1 Posts | Hi ,I'm new toi this site. I'm here. | |
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| synsera | Posted: 2006-03-13 08:22 | |
Forum Apprentice United States 152 Posts | Hi, I have found great interest in this topic. I'm not really sure how to go about this, but I'd like to find someone who is submissive and has a family and other obligations. I'd be interested to see how s/he balances it within the D/s lifestyle. My email is kitko28879@yahoo.com Thank you! sera | |
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| Jadedangelrose | Posted: 2006-03-29 21:03 | |
Death's Mistress United States 2,123 Posts | identify with: submissive or pet i have been in this lifestyle as long as i can remember.... i have tried almost everything and love most of it.. i balance a real life demanding job and family around this life ....i am open and honest and willing to answer just about anything and if i don't know i have no problems saying so -- "That which yields is not always weak"~ Kushiel's Dart
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| tamiered | Posted: 2006-04-01 05:14 | |
Forum Initiate United States 27 Posts | i have just read your forum and would love to have a mentor, i feel like i am an old soul in this life for it has been in my spirit as long as i can remember, yet i have never quite experienced it and now am searching for the life i long to live. if anyone reads this and feels my agony please respond to this. YOU NEVER WILL GET TO WHERE YOU NEED TO BE UNTIL YOU LEAVE FROM WHERE YOU ARE | |
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| cat112 | Posted: 2006-04-05 08:40 | |
| Forum Newbie 67 Posts | Id like to talk to a mentor if anyone is interested. cat | |
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| Bettyboop82263 | Posted: 2006-04-21 19:30 | |
| Forum Initiate United States 1 Posts | Role that you identify with - submissive masochist I'm new to the site and would like to get a mentor. My name is Dianne my website is: | |
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| FelineFemme | Posted: 2006-04-21 20:09 | |
AKA kytten  United States 6,185 Posts | Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc) pet/slave How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL) I've been in the scene 4 years, going on 5, real life the whole time. I've been in the "online scene" for 10 or 11 years, but I dont count that, because its online, bleh. I've been a slave, for about a year. I am a pet now, and have been for a while. I'm a masochist, I have alot of expirience in the public scene... I've been expirimenting a bit lately, but I'm still owned, and always will be I want to be a mentore because I Think its easy for submissives to make mistakes early on, get hurt, or have something go wrong, due to niaevitae (SP?) or eagerness. I want to help any way I can. I have a fair amount of expirience myself, I'm pretty easy to talk to, and I've been involved in the public scene alot, met alot of people, and learned alot about safety, technique, and problems I've never even had from friends mentores and aquaintances. I have alot of expirience with SM, a good amount with power exchange, I would love to help any way I can. and I wish you all good luck. "Look, it's been swell, but the swelling's gone down." -Tank Girl Edited by - FelineFemme on 2006-04-21 20:12:53 | |
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| Live2Pleze | Posted: 2006-04-24 14:03 | |
| Forum Initiate United States 27 Posts | Hi all! I recently posted a new topic and it really fits in here! If i had seen this before i would have just posted it here!!! Please if you have time... read mine and if you can give me some advice!! or share a story of your own!! Thank all PS> it is in the BDSM Relationship area- called Psuedo Dom's on the Internet | |
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| mmgirl | Posted: 2006-04-30 15:47 | |
| Forum Initiate United States 1 Posts | I'm new at this sub relationship if anyone has advice or suggestions i would truly appreciate it. mmgirl | |
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| cat112 | Posted: 2006-05-04 06:04 | |
| Forum Newbie 67 Posts | hi role that i identify with < been in it off and on for almost three years id like a mentor if anyone valunteers:) cathrine | |
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| Wolfspet | Posted: 2006-05-05 06:13 | |
Saz & Tarts Chewtoy Senior Moderator United States 13,630 Posts | Just a side note Since the creation of this list, the free mail privilage has gone away. I personally can send/recieve mail from all members, and would be willing to forward mail from those interested in a Mentor to the person they are interested in corresponding with. Okay dianne...you were right....Silksoul4u. | |
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| madamealpha | Posted: 2006-05-08 21:50 | |
Forum Initiate United Kingdom 42 Posts | well, i can see how i might get pulled from this list because i hover near the lines, but what the heck. i am 110% slave, but im listed as a top on this site to have my profile displayed to submissives.. hopefully my essay section clarifies my position a bit- i am a slave who is used by her Owner to look after His other slaves as a service to Him. i couldnt Domme a carrot myself, i just follow His rules for me enforcing His rules for them. its me being a slave from my point of veiw and His but others might not agree. im sure the maid He's placed at my disposal thinks im a top even though i know better. sooo *shrugsmile* my experience- i was a slave unknowingly at first (we didnt know there were words for it) begining about 16 years ago. i discovered "the scene" about 12 or 13 years ago, had a brief stint as a Domme which wasnt for me, did the play parties and the munch thing and discovered that really wasnt for me either. it left me feeling empty and like there must be something more.. i told people it didnt seem right so they told me i was a Domme and being a good little slave type i listened and tried to do what they told me to do. what can i say? *wry smile* i didnt know myself and i was a slave. so ive gone off and found alternatives to the usual "alternative scene" *smile*. i dont quite fit into any of the usual boxes nowdays. people looking to get into the usual stuff wont find me to be any help at all since i think the organized scene is very nice for people wanting to play around but soul killing for people who need more than that. for people who need the real thing, deep extreme D/s, actual slavery ("as close to the dictionary sense as possible by consent"), people who've tried the usual and found it entertaining but empty and wonder if theres something else that can fill the void.. THOSE people might find me helpful. i have to be honest and say i AM looking for slaves for Our house, i mean thats why im here at bondage.com in the first place.. but im happy to talk and just mentor as well. theres no strings necessary. i do it all the time for people who We havent the slightest interest in, so a few more wont hurt *smile*. people find me to ask my advice quite frequently as it is, and id be glad to help where i can here too, if people want to keep me on the list. if not thats alright. i am a little in the grey areas when held up to the usual bdsm checklisty type stuff... and sometimes just off the list completely *smile*. i think that would be my value as mentor but i'll leave that up to the powers that be *smile* i can also be reached at this name at yahoo.co.uk if thats easier. | |
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| madamealpha | Posted: 2006-05-08 21:56 | |
Forum Initiate United Kingdom 42 Posts | ah, i should point out that my experience is real time. im not up for discussions about online play as i dont have anything to input on that. | |
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