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| Observer | Posted: 2006-11-10 17:45 | |
Forum Maniac Canada 4,316 Posts | In my fantasies, I would have a GF that wears latex 24/7. However, I know very darn well that's not going to happen (it's probably unhealthy to boot). I am very thrilled to have a girlfriend that wears latex sometimes - and that's pretty great on many other levels as well. I'm sure if I insisted on 24/7 rubber she would (wisely) run away, and I'm glad I'm not that foolish... So yeah, if you want someting from a partner a lot, be reasonable about it - you have a lot more chance of geting it that way. Observer | |
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| firedaughter | Posted: 2006-11-10 18:27 | |
302.83 United States 5,978 Posts | I don't think many in this thread are anti-heels. I envy the women (and men) who can wear them with grace in the same way I envy a quarterback his ability to throw a perfect spiral. There is plenty of documentation of the potentially harmful effects of wearing them a lot, but adult women get to choose our priorities, and if wearing heels feels comfy to some women, it is probably just fine for them. But this dude in a chat window stating that wearing them all the time with no exceptions will be the rule, and then cutting out as soon as the woman injected some reality into his wanking fantasy--that's just lame...cyber-lame. "Sadomasochism has always been the furthest reach of the sexual experience; when sex becomes most purely sexual, that is, severed from personhood, from relationships, from love." -- Susan Sontag "...because some like their power exchange straight up." -- slave_a_phx | |
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| SatinThreads | Posted: 2006-11-10 18:49 | |
| Forum Apprentice United States 177 Posts | Dom_Dotcom:
~DDC -- YES it is really weird. And two of the three are premium members that post in these forums but they are mysteriously absent from this particular thread. As for bare feet, I do love to go barefoot. I also get a spa pedicure every two weeks, moisturize my feet on a regular basis and frequently wear good shoes, some of which are even high heels Proverbs 17:22 | |
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| Dom_Dotcom | Posted: 2006-11-10 19:11 | |
Forum Maniac Canada 2,523 Posts | SatinThreads:As for bare feet, I do love to go barefoot. I also get a spa pedicure every two weeks, moisturize my feet on a regular basis and frequently wear good shoes, some of which are even high heels  Well THAT does a hell of a lot of good when you don't have any pics of them posted... sheeesh! Perhaps you should be forced to wear 6 inch spikes until you do! ~DDC | |
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| SatinThreads | Posted: 2006-11-10 20:06 | |
| Forum Apprentice United States 177 Posts | Dom_Dotcom: Well THAT does a hell of a lot of good when you don't have any pics of them posted... sheeesh! Perhaps you should be forced to wear 6 inch spikes until you do!  ~DDC -- YIKES You have mail LOL -- Proverbs 17:22 | |
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| Dom_Dotcom | Posted: 2006-11-10 22:25 | |
Forum Maniac Canada 2,523 Posts | SatinThreads:YIKES You have mail LOL Yikers I do! Somebody mailed me their feet! lol How very Van Gogh of you! Thank god it wasn't an ear! ~DDC | |
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| ROPENHIGHHEELS | Posted: 2006-11-11 00:09 | |
Forum Apprentice United States 288 Posts | MissIsis: ROPENHIGHHEELS: The size of the heel however...I'll decide on that. Maybe if she's a good girl I won't make her wear the really high ones for long periods of time but if she's bad...then her feet will go through a lot of suffering for me! -- Were you the Dom in the ops question? (kidding) Anyway, Didn't your mom & dad teach you that those really high heels are for bed only???????? I hope you have agreed to pick up all your subs medical costs in writing before she consented to you? If she is in heels alot, she will need lots of medical care when she gets older.
Adapted from a Meatloaf song
I never said she would be standing or walking in the heels a lot. That would only happen as an idea for a punishment. The other times she would have them on as a pleasing visual thing for me. Like when she's in her cage(won't be standing up in that so no problems), tied on the sofa watching TV with me(again, no problem there), sleeping with them on(I don't know of many that can sleep standing up, so again, no problem there) and there are other ideas to but I think you're a brite lady and can understand what I'm saying now...lol. Also, the really high heels are for bed only???? Ahhh, you're no fun! Don't like my attitude?? Deal with it! Ok, ok...so I'm a "little bit" sarcastic. If you don't like it...get over it! lol Edited by - ROPENHIGHHEELS on 2006-11-11 00:21:04 | |
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| Velvet_Steele | Posted: 2006-11-12 11:00 | |
Forum Apprentice Canada 166 Posts | I wear high-heels for 6 hours a day each work day, it's surprising how your body can adapt. I get occasional back aches, but otherwise I'm fine. The dom you're corresponding with sounds inexperienced. Perhaps you should have offered a compromise; high-heels when ever you and he are together | |
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| oscarwildechild | Posted: 2006-11-12 14:48 | |
| Forum Maniac Canada 2,065 Posts | I wear 3+ inch heels every day. Don't own anything with a lower heel, but thats just me. But when I get home the heels come off. Unless I am wearing them to bed.
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| Seayar | Posted: 2006-11-12 17:11 | |
Forum Maniac United States 3,211 Posts | I think women who go through the trouble to wear heels should be rewarded with footrubs. All day. Every day. ;-) Cheers, Sea | |
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| Enigmatic_Soul | Posted: 2006-11-13 00:18 | |
Forum Maniac United Kingdom 3,690 Posts | Bad for the back.
"One day your prince will come; mine just got lost on the way and was too stubborn to ask for directions!" | |
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| wulf202 | Posted: 2007-08-15 19:47 | |
Forum Regular United States 571 Posts | I knew one girl who had heels on all the time, the lowest i'd seen her is was about 2" and those were on her thongs at the pool. She'd told me she heard all the arguments before, and very rarely experienced back pain. She had great calves and legs in general, which she credited mostly to the heels. It can be done, but it's incredibly impractical. | |
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| Louloupe | Posted: 2007-08-15 21:52 | |
Forum Maniac United States 23,453 Posts | He's a wanker. Everyone looks prettier if they spend at least an hour a day using exercise shoes strenuously. | |
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| sweetsubmissivelove | Posted: 2008-07-16 09:31 | |
Forum Slut United States 1,060 Posts | ...i know this post is older than dirt....but, I LOVE HEELS, the higher the better, and i am known to wear them while i garden, work on my trucks, and just about everywhere else...i have ruined a LOT of shoes that way, admittedly. Nothing makes me feel more feminine than a pair of heels...i wear them with slacks, shorts, dresses...and most of all i love to wear them while i am completely naked...and i maybe i love them so much because i am only five feet tall...but whatever....I LOVE HEELS. (not yelling, just making the point) i admit, that for years i did not own a single pair of flats or tennis shoes...and when i bought my first pair about 15 years ago, i almost died trying to walk in them...my muscles screamed at me for about 2 weeks, until everything stretched out....ouch...that did hurt, and i do switch back and forth now. I even have a pair of heeled tennis shoes. I didn't wear flat shoes until i bought horses...and that is one thing you don't want to get your heels stuck in!! LOL | |
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| NASHVILLEDOM | Posted: 2008-07-16 09:42 | |
Liberal Dragon Slayer United States 37,115 Posts | SatinThreads: Maybe I'm just venting. Probably. But this evening, after chatting with someone for hours that I really thought I wanted to meet, and that doesn't happen very often, he tells me if I lived in his house I would wear heels all day every day. I thought he was joking and I said so. Oh no, he assured me he was very serious. High heels. All day. Every day. No discussion. No compromise. Once in a while he might feel merciful and let me... I got so frustrated I can't even remember what came after that. This is like the third time in a month I have ended up in an argument over this exact subject. My impression is that a man telling a woman, especially a 54 year old woman, this kind of crap is just a horny cyberdom looking for . what is it called? Wank? Yank? whatever. fantasies for jacking off. And I told him so, at which point he started with the 'Wishing you the best in your search... Praying for me to find peace and happiness anywhere but with him... You are over-reacting... " I can't recall reading on one profile that refusing to wear high heels all day every day is a deal breaker. Am I just dumb as dirt? Is it just a given that women will really do this? All day every day? In real life? On real feet? Proverbs 17:22 Good for you. If that was/is a deal breaker for them, then it dosn't sound like a good deal for you. nd | |
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