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| Akiko | Posted: 2006-07-06 17:55 | |
Forum Newbie United Kingdom 76 Posts | I would like a mentor  if someone is willing to help out, could they PM me please? I don't wanna post personal contact info on a public board. I'm sure you guys understand. I'm a very, very new submissive. With possible masochism thrown in too. I would really appreciate someone to talk to. Thanks. Edited by - Akiko on 2006-07-06 17:56:53 Edited by - Akiko on 2006-07-08 17:30:00 | |
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| arain | Posted: 2006-07-07 14:14 | |
| Forum Regular Canada 859 Posts | Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc) - slave (24/7) How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL) O.L - 1 year, R.T. - 2.5 years (so 3 years total) Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task. -i think it would be a great opportunity for not only the sub i am helping, but myself as well. Though i do not have ALOT of experience, my relationship with my Master is pretty high protocol and 24/7. We do not take breaks, and as such, i have really been immersed in the lifestyle for a while. i think i can offer alot to those new girls coming in, especially young girls who are dealing with the plethora of Doms out there ( i came into the scene when i was just 18 myself). i do have a sister slave-in-training and am teaching her alot and providing a sort of mentorship for her as well. Also, if there are any types of roles, relationships etc that you would not feel comfortable mentoring include this in your post, as well as any types of relationships you feel especially fitted to mentoring. hmmm..i probablly couldnt help male subs as much just because i find Domme/sub couples different. i would take preference to 24/7 slaves, but i am happy to help anyone out who identifies as submissive.
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| kitty666 | Posted: 2006-07-25 05:34 | |
Forum Initiate United Kingdom 3 Posts | Hi, im fairly new to the scene and have only played a few times. Im looking for someone - in scotland preferably - to help me out with a friendly ear and some wise words. Rella_ i cant contact you but if you'd be happy to help, can you please contact me on lilkitty6661@hotmail.co.uk Any help, advice or suggestions from anyone would be much appreciated thanks Kitty | |
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| trax3 | Posted: 2006-07-30 13:31 | |
| Forum Initiate United States 1 Posts | Role that you identify with(submissive,slave bottom,pet etc) submissive How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL) Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task.[/b] i do not want to be a mentor I need one Hello A/all i am new to the lifestyle and am in a r/l commitment with my husband who I just found out has been in the lifestyle for a long time. I know that I am a submissive because i do like him to have control over me. Right now it is very hard for me to have a PE with him because out side of the home i am a manager in which o do have control. Also it is very hard for me to seperate the two wife/submissive at this point and time. can someone help me try and understand if the two should become one and how this happens when the outside world you are in control of. | |
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| Khiaya | Posted: 2006-07-30 17:11 | |
Forum Initiate United States 28 Posts | I am a submissive with some switch capabilities that has been in the lifestyle for 9 years RL and 4 years of that OL. I have been a pet, a slave, and a sub; I have an extremely open mind and am just offering a shoulder and ear. As for qualifications....I'm a sub and a woman, that's all I can offer. As long as it doesn't involve hurting someone who's a legal able minded adult against their will i have no problem hlping out and listening. | |
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| DeborahBeth | Posted: 2006-08-04 04:32 | |
Forum Initiate United States 4 Posts | I would LOVE the opportunity to talk with an experienced, knowledgable sub/slave. I have been interested, and somewhat involved in the lifestyle for close to 5 years, but so far, all the advice i have gotten has come from Doms, which is great, but i have a feeling they might be just a little biased in their opinions I have so many questions, and would really value the opinions of another female sub/slave, as i believe that no one can understand us as well as another of like mind and experience. If there is anyone who is willing to help me, please e mail me at Deborah46@cox.net. Thank you.. | |
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| chasteguy | Posted: 2006-08-10 16:32 | |
Forum Maniac United States 2,562 Posts | I identify as a submissive and a slave. I have been in the lifestyle for almost 20 years, but have only been serious about it for the past 10 or so. Sometimes I need time away from it. I want to be a mentor because there are too few male submissives willing to share their experiences and what they've learned. I've had houseboy engagements, play partner relationships and 24/7 relationships, so I've seen the gambit. I'm also experienced with fringe play, forced feminization, cuckolding and enforced chastity - things that for whatever reason are popular with many male subs. Lastly, I'm not ashamed of my submissiveness and I don't view it as a bad thing at all.
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| Isanne | Posted: 2006-08-11 11:33 | |
| Forum Newbie United States 80 Posts | arain: Role that you identify with (submissive, slave bottom, pet etc) - slave (24/7) How long you have been in the lifestyle (identify RT vs. OL) O.L - 1 year, R.T. - 2.5 years (so 3 years total) Why you want to be a mentor and what do you think qualifies you for the task. -i think it would be a great opportunity for not only the sub i am helping, but myself as well. Though i do not have ALOT of experience, my relationship with my Master is pretty high protocol and 24/7. We do not take breaks, and as such, i have really been immersed in the lifestyle for a while. i think i can offer alot to those new girls coming in, especially young girls who are dealing with the plethora of Doms out there ( i came into the scene when i was just 18 myself). i do have a sister slave-in-training and am teaching her alot and providing a sort of mentorship for her as well. Also, if there are any types of roles, relationships etc that you would not feel comfortable mentoring include this in your post, as well as any types of relationships you feel especially fitted to mentoring. hmmm..i probablly couldnt help male subs as much just because i find Domme/sub couples different. i would take preference to 24/7 slaves, but i am happy to help anyone out who identifies as submissive.
Edited by - arain on 2006-07-07 14:16:08 I really need a mentor! If you could help, that would be wonderful. My e-mail is isanne.beta@gmail.com if you wouldn't mind e-mailing me. I'll give you my details there. | |
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| verboten | Posted: 2006-08-11 17:53 | |
Forum Apprentice United States 108 Posts | Another request for a mentor. I'm a slave, so I'd like a mentor who is also a slave. We're not 24/7, and currently, I have no serious queries (we communicate really well), but it would be nice to have an ear to bend. I'm the sort who just likes to hear other viewpoints (yay for messageboards) and I do have some minor questions that I'd be a little embarrassed to post on this board. verboten2006@yahoo.com if you're available. Thanks! | |
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| whyrash | Posted: 2006-09-10 13:09 | |
| Forum Initiate United States 2 Posts | Hello! I too would greatly appriciate a mentor. I haven't been able to email any of the people I see listed here. It would be great if someone could email me at biblicalfury@gmail.com. Lately, I've been thinking about getting involved in the local scene in real life. I'm a 24 year old submissive male. My profile doesn't have much information, but I'll be happy to fill anyone in who would be kind enough to help. I don't have any experience and I'm a bit apprehensive about getting started. I'd like to meet someone to hold my hand a bit and point me in the right direction. I'm tired of being submissive and having fetish, but not getting a chance to experience it. I think I could relate better with someone close to my own age, but help from anyone is welcomed. Thank you! | |
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| holly42 | Posted: 2006-09-10 18:21 | |
Forum Maniac United States 5,751 Posts | whyrash: Hello! I too would greatly appriciate a mentor. I haven't been able to email any of the people I see listed here. It would be great if someone could email me at biblicalfury@gmail.com. Thank you! You can email to other in b.com but you have to go to your home addy (such as yahoo,hotmail..etc.) and send from there to b.com. Hope this was helpful. holly -- read my blog Sex is like eatin' KFC. Once you're done nibbling on the breast and thighs, you have a nice, greasy box to put your bone in! Is it just me or do you love it when they go down on you, and when its starts getting good they go back up? Damn those gas prices. I used to skinny dip, now I chunky dunk! | |
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| delicious_torment | Posted: 2006-09-13 13:52 | |
Forum Apprentice United States 175 Posts | Axels_april... I would like you to contact me. I was very intrigued by your mentor information & would like to talk. Thanks!  | |
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| Submissive_Girl4 | Posted: 2006-09-28 10:23 | |
| Forum Initiate Netherlands 1 Posts | hello im looking for a mentor i'm quite new to all to this so and im very, very submissive. i would like to have help you can contact me at: Lily_ik_weet_nix@hotmail.com Edited by - Submissive_Girl4 on 2006-09-28 10:25:16 | |
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| bondageaddictri2 | Posted: 2006-09-28 13:41 | |
| Forum Initiate United States 1 Posts | Submissive_Girl4: hello im looking for a mentor i'm quite new to all to this so and im very, very submissive. i would like to have help you can contact me at: Lily_ik_weet_nix@hotmail.com Edited by - Submissive_Girl4 on 2006-09-28 10:25:16 hi, just sent you an email. hopefully i can help. --ba | |
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| kisses_and_love | Posted: 2006-09-29 22:03 | |
| Forum Initiate United States 1 Posts | hi. i am looking for a mentor. | |
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