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CockneyRavenPosted: 2007-08-28 18:25
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Are there any dommes in London who could train an almost owned submissive female how to be feminine? I spent much of my life being like a tomboy in trousers etc, never wore heels etc, I want to be more feminine but I feel I need assistance in that area - I dont know any girly women personally... I've had a very tomboyish influence in my life.
The master who is considering me a lot reckons that this is something worth looking into soon.
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flowersabundantPosted: 2007-08-30 12:21
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one is in need of a mentor..

I have a situation and find myself very frustrated because I'm not sure which way to go.

If someone would be willing to help me out a bit I would be very greatfull.

What I need are some opinions from others.

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cagedmemberPosted: 2007-09-03 22:53
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United States
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chasteguy:
I identify as a submissive and a slave.

I have been in the lifestyle for almost 20 years, but have only been serious about it for the past 10 or so. Sometimes I need time away from it.

I want to be a mentor because there are too few male submissives willing to share their experiences and what they've learned. I've had houseboy engagements, play partner relationships and 24/7 relationships, so I've seen the gambit. I'm also experienced with fringe play, forced feminization, cuckolding and enforced chastity - things that for whatever reason are popular with many male subs. Lastly, I'm not ashamed of my submissiveness and I don't view it as a bad thing at all.


Edited by - chasteguy on 2006-08-10 16:40:48


I cannot email you directly, I would like to talk to you about mentoring if you are interested... I am new to all this but highly interested in the lifestyle of a sub male. can be reached at cagedmember @ yahoo dot com

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sirs_girlPosted: 2007-09-15 12:10
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United States
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hi! i would love to have a menotr. As stated in other forums i am 18, and have been with my master for a few months. I just need someone to vent with, and help me understand something if i dont. . .thanks so much my email is ::
tabowyer@gmail.com
hope to hear from you soon! :: tabatha ::
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topaztigrePosted: 2007-09-18 20:58
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United States
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CockneyRaven:
Are there any dommes in London who could train an almost owned submissive female how to be feminine? I spent much of my life being like a tomboy in trousers etc, never wore heels etc, I want to be more feminine but I feel I need assistance in that area - I dont know any girly women personally... I've had a very tomboyish influence in my life.
The master who is considering me a lot reckons that this is something worth looking into soon.

You sound a lot like me. If you find someone who can help in this area, please let me know. Or perhaps we can vent to each other and share ideas. My email is deardarling7@gmail.com

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glitter_missPosted: 2007-12-17 21:04
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Hi, this is my first ever post. I don't know how often this topic gets read or what I'm really looking for but it would be nice to talk to someone. You see, I'm a very new sub. I'm having a grand ol' time exploring this new side of myself with my partner but there are still so many things I don't fully understand. There are also many things I'd like to explore in time and I'm beginning to realize that I'm actually a lot more kinky than I thought I was...but I guess what I'm really interested in is learning to be a good sub. Sometimes I get kind of nervous because I don't understand things from any point of view but my own. I would be very bored if my partner was a submissive...it just wouldn't work...so naturally I have a hard time seeing what it is that keeps him interested in me....I also want to avoid being passive. Submissive is great and all but no one should ever be passive in bed...so how to avoid this...It's all very exciting and scary....um....yeah, that's all I've got for now.
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TirelessTurtlePosted: 2007-12-23 10:47
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Good Advice. Seek mentoring from another sub as the preferred way to being a better submissive. I believe that Doms should not pretend to be mentor submissive. Doms can only Dominate and train their submissive in their own path. A submissive mentor has had experience, has traveled on the path of submission, can share this with the individual who wishes to submit but does not understand the implications, the goals, the various paths.

Good luck to those new submissives. May you find out in your heart if this is the path that you should choose and may you then find a Dominant who will be true to his/her spirit of Domination with you.
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TirelessTurtle

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leadme0318Posted: 2008-01-06 10:53
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United States
1 Posts
Hi I am new tothe submissive world and am looking for a sister soulmate perhaps in the new jersey area who can mentor me or tell me of groups in the area that meet for support. thanks again leadme0318
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dr_gamelPosted: 2008-01-13 14:20
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Saudi Arabia
6 Posts
hi all
i'm new here
and new in bdsm relation
i'm top master
i wana help to learn more about that relation
i'm so far (egyptian in sudia arabia)
by the way any one care to be my slave on line????
send me
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PupPupPosted: 2008-01-17 14:52
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United States
10 Posts

leadme0318:
Hi I am new tothe submissive world and am looking for a sister soulmate perhaps in the new jersey area who can mentor me or tell me of groups in the area that meet for support. thanks again leadme0318

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Columbuss52Posted: 2008-01-20 22:20
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United States
1 Posts
Edited by - Columbuss52 on 2008-01-20 22:21:43
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Sirs_pPosted: 2008-02-28 13:08
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United States
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i was on here before as just_p, but that account went away during the December server troubles on the site. i am the slave of Sirandp and have been for about 5 years. i have been trained in several styles well before that. i balance our 24/7 with having a family and being married to Sir and every day life.

i have mentored before and would be happy to again. Please let me know if anyone wants to chat or if i can help in any way. Also, i might be asking questions of some, if they don't mind, as i am always learning more.

Thanks
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~Proud Property of Sirandp

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