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Hello. Glad to meet and greet and chat with new friends but not looking for real-time long-term relationships as I'm already in a very loyal and committed one. Feel free to stop by and say hi here or in the chat rooms I'll be hanging out in. .
I'm a complicated person as far as labels and titles go, and I've enjoyed being somewhat wicked Domme and somewhat mouthy former sub and sometimes a mix of both for a lot of years. ;) (and I hope to continue to do so in a different variety of ways).
[U]The Good, The Bad, and the Ugly [/U]
I've had some wildly varied experiences on my alternate lifestyle journey and yeah there were a few D/s clashes and relationship nightmares early on. But I also had lots of fun or even passionate interactions with the friends and acquaintances I've shared BDSM fun with in the past and I plan to continue to do so. Being in a committed relationship I will only be exploring my kinks on slightly different terms that I prefer to restrict to an online forum unless I know the person VERY well If you still find that vague it means I have met the person r/t and trust them due to an established friendship or an ongoing and pre-approved version of a participant I've chosen to enjoy in a D/s relationship.
Online scenes are not my thing anymore and hasn't been for years. Sadly, like many things that may have had potential in alt. in the early years, this concept has only continued to decline. Forget making a sensual scene that both or others can enjoy, it's become a jerk off fuck fest with minimal effort and low-quality content that must rely heavily on the animalistic grunting and moaning that makes up most of the script. ;) My ideal person is the guy I'm with, but for playtime here on alt chat, I'd be interested in more than one basic BDSM personality type D/s play is always fun even though it's much more complex now that I tend to lean toward my Domme side more often now, but if you've got the courage and the acumen to take Me on, take a look at the description below and see what you think.
I do love to write and I do enjoy writing recreations of some of my personal or online experiences in a type of BDSM erotica for my own pleasure and relaxation time as well. Mostly fantasy or fiction and not something I share with others. Though I may re-open a room I made years ago on alt that was geared for many different kinds of fun, including what I like to call performance art in written form. Currently my room is only allowing the basics though, such as BDSM chat, and shared experiences of those who also embrace the lifestyle. The rest will only develop if I get a positive response from friends I care about and those who have an interest in such things.
Anyway, i'm back again after a long absence and hope I don't regret it. I always end up returning despite the declining number of quality members in alt. Luckily some of the goodies still come around now and then. As always I'm here to hang out, chat, tease, and torment those who are amenable to that, as long as we keep it casual, and respectful (with lots of good-natured wit and humor thrown in) and avoid the usual nasty BS that alt is so famous for.
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My Ideal Person:
I enjoy Dominant Men, or the equivalent of that old school title with a more modern approach, a quick wit, and a forward-thinking open mind. Yes I know, and he rides a unicorn, right? Believe it or not they DO exist. All I really mean is he should be an honorable, and masculine hottie who is smart and confident enough to embrace new ideas, strong women and supports the kind of logical communication that can lead to an amenable play agreement for both. I've always been fascinated by those I consider to be the epitome of a 'real Dom' and appreciate those who know and understand the origins of the "real lifestyle". But the men who profess to be that kind of Dom without that honor or without possessing what many consider a dominant instinct to protect the partner they choose tend to present their true colors pretty fast. Too many Doms (or wanna-be's) think they have to be a brute to prove dominance. Some even believe that it takes an act of excessive arrogance, fueled by the erroneous belief that feminine humiliation and/or 'expected' submission is simply the natural order of things! It might sound funny to read that but yes, guys like that still exist. Needless to say, NOT my idea of a bad ass Dom or any kind of Dom at all. 
I also enjoy a fairly wide variety of other interests. Yes I am bi and yes I've Dominated females as well as males but after much experience and experimentation I do not seek or enjoy a lot of time with subs anymore as I have all I need in r/t and not looking for more. If the mood strikes I might end up tormenting the odd sub or submissive type in an online chat room or some short, simple version of casual torment but let me assure you it's unlikely to develop into anything more.
Meeting new ideal people and learning about their preferences and playtime approaches often seems impossible in an online forum, but I've seen much more in watching people's actions in an online scene or how they treat others in that situation than all the private chat in the world. So here's my take on that.
My idea of 'sceneing' or casual online play is not what you'd expect in an online chat site, certainly not this one. I prefer to encourage something closer to performance art. Something that recreates real-time D/s interactions and playtime or real-time kink explorations of all manner of description. Sure it can take time to establish the details, and know the characters and content but trust me it is far more pleasurable than a quick version of phone sex to people who want to experience BDSM ideals or play time from a more realistic and passionate perspective. OF course, everyone has their own perspective which may differ greatly from others but the effort and realism would help a lot.
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