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[2022]
I was going to update this soon anyway but in the short run someone just reminded me how much negativity there is in the world. I guess it shouldn't surprise me but it still does. If you have that much sheer hatred in your heart, we are definitely not compatible.
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I'm sure you ladies have heard from enough pros, perverts and pretenders on here so I'll spare you the usual lines and let you decide. I should mention up front though that I'm looking for a single woman for long term, hopefully another 40 or 50 years. If you're married, attached invite him along and we can all go for a drink. Any more than that is simply not going to happen. What else ...
1. I have a brain too, not just a piece of meat.
2. The mind is the biggest "organ" in the body. Sexual or otherwise.
3. Yes, it's real but if you need to see for yourself I'm sure we can arrange it.
4. If you are looking for a quickie you should know that in my book anything less than 3 hours is a quickie.
5. Yes, some men really DO enjoy giving. Finding a woman who can take a licking is hard to do though.
6. Every woman says they want an honest man but very few can handle it when they find him.
7. I'm not technically in the Dom/sub lifestyle anymore but some habits die hard. Note: If you are looking to be abused though, move on. I would much rather reward you for being good than punish for being bad.
8. Safe, Sane, and Consensual is a RULE not a guideline.
9. This is the one everyone seems to focus on. The terms "average" and "a little extra" seem to cover a lot of ground but I'll try to be gentle. Be honest; with yourself even if you can't be honest with a perspective lover. Men do not want anorexic model types but if you are a size 20, you must be 7' tall to call yourself "average". If this offends you then likely you either read it wrong or it hit too close to home. Try re-reading it to find out which one it was.
10. Everyone has their own story. Back in the old days we called it experience and it was a good thing. A certain amount of "baggage" is fine but if you are whiney, insecure, unsure of what you want, don't have the courage to at least meet for a drink, or you just need a man around to make you feel somehow complete, then I wish you well in your search but please move on.
11. To all the 20-somethings out there I'm flattered but I'm getting too old to teach another one. If you think you already know what you are doing, ask ANY woman in her 30s. She had a clue at your age too but ask her now what she really knew.
OK, now for what I AM looking for ... I'm looking for the same thing everyone else is. The difference is I am honest about it. I'd like to find my soulmate but with my karma she will be 4,000 miles away. The reality is we will chat a little, get to know each other. If there seems to be chemistry we will meet for dinner or drinks and get to know each other even more. Not on the first night but eventually we might end up having wild sex or making love (Yes! There is a difference). If it's good we will come back for more; if not we either learn from each other or move on. It's nothing personal just human nature.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm pretty flexible about the kind of woman I find attractive but everyone has preferences. My preferences are mostly above the neck. Specifically a pretty face is always a good start. A good mind, inquisitive and wise in equal measure. And a smile is a must. Yes I said a smile. If you have a perpetual scowl we'd probably never get past the hello. As much as people say they want honesty, very few are honest with themselves so I'll add that here. If you're truly honest we will get along great. If you're struggling with it, I can help you get there. If you're in denial I'm afraid my professional credentials will not me to help but I'll get you a referral.
Since this is sort of a "wish list" I guess I should add: femininity is not something to be hated, embrace it. That doesn't mean role over and do what you're told ... well ok you are going to do that anyway ...  Passionate and Sensual is required, anyone can be sexy. You absolutely MUST enjoy long, slow, sensual foreplay. Made even longer by the foreplay that comes when we're apart. You'll understand if we get to that point.
When it comes right down to it, your orgasms are for MY pleasure. Whatever you get out of them is irrelevant. Since I'm a guy who by definition must be selfish and greedy ... and since we've already established that YOUR ORGASMS are for my enjoyment ... I'll demand quite a bit from you. When I'm fully satisfied then I might be open to discussing your pleasure needs. Note that you'd only be the second woman to get to that second part. Did I mention I can be very greedy about this.
Oh! Before I forget. What are you ladies teaching the men nowadays??? If your man can't go for at least an hour and give you a dozen mind-blowing, earth-shaking, soak-the-sheets, "I just saw God" orgasms then either teach him what he needs to know or find a better one.
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