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For years now, people have been asking [I]"Nox, when are you going to write the 'real' profile and not just that filler?"[/I]
Well my friends, the time has come.
[I]So, who is that man who sits quietly on the fringes of the community?[/I]
I've been active in BDSM since 1995 - learning, studying, and experimenting with a wide variety of souls. I believe that giving each other the freedom to touch the darkest parts of ourselves only helps us shine all the brighter. For me, this journey isn't so much about Dominance and submission per se, but rather forging pathways to unlock our hidden potential.
Personally, I've always been driven by a need to understand the hows and whys of things. My experimentation (or play, if you prefer) in BDSM is a manifestation of that. Can I know my partner well enough that the slightest move or gesture can send her over the edge? Can I play her like the fine instrument that she is? Can I coax a soft melody from her cries, and have it accompanied by her writhing harmony? When the havoc is over, can I cradle her gently and nurture peace from the chaos? This is my journey.
I have no interest in a full-time "submissive", much less a slave. The women I count among my friends and accomplices are bright, vibrant, confident, and strong-willed - but they need to set that part of their persona aside from time to time and swing their pendulum in the opposite direction. I provide a safe, yet very dark, place for them to do that. I use physical play to open the doors to consciousness, to get inside my partners head, and then turn it inside out. I use some humiliation play to strip away the veneer of civilization to unleash the animal within. But even in the darkest moments, there is respect, care, and affection. Limits and their degrees of pliancy are understood and respected.
Aside from my personal forays in the lifestyle, I am an outspoken advocate for our right to be who we are and do what we do. We might differ on implementation, but we are all parts of a community striving for freedom and respect, and I know for sure that's a battle worth fighting.
For those who know me - I hope this was worth waiting for. For those who have yet to meet me, if this has piqued your curiosity, feel free to reach out. I do not stand on ceremony or protocol, I make my own rules.
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My Ideal Person:
What am I looking for you ask? Simply a bright, funny woman who has a very serious kinky streak. I've found that there's a tricky balance between being 'more than vanilla with BDSM overtones' and being 'too submissive'. For submission to be the true gift that it is, it has to be a realized and accepted component of the whole person. Ideally, I want to find a partner; but I'm also of the belief that one can never have too many friends.
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