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[SIZE 4][COLOR red]I am from India (ergo, brown-skinned). Those of you who do not have a problem with that are welcome to read on.[/COLOR][/SIZE]
I am the Dominant of a cute little babygirl. She is sweet and very submissive to me. She lives far away and visits me when she can. Over time, I have had several fruitful D/s relationships. They have helped me grow as a person and as a Dominant, as I hope I have helped them grow and find themselves.
[B][I]However, I am in the process of expanding my D/s life, and hopefully entwine that with my vanilla life, thus completing the circle, so to speak. I am looking for a permanent partner, as well as temporary play partners. More about that later.[/I][/B]
I do take some getting used to, as my friends will attest. It seems I puzzle (being polite here) most people, at least around where I live. Up for a puzzle? Here goes.
I am Dominant, Sadistic, yet a cuddle-bug. I read three news-sites every day and visit kink.com with the same amount of regularity. My house is messy, but my office is organized. I can do complex math in my head, but I can’t remember names. I can be arrogant, acerbic cold and distant, but be very caring and loving to people I do really care about. I speak three languages, but listen to music in languages I do not understand. I can remember 16 digit numbers, but I have been known to forget an anniversary or a birthday or two. Or more. There are not many subjects in the world that I cannot talk about at length, but often, simple things stump me. I am a highly regarded and highly educated professional with an angular personality under a quiet, reserved exterior. I may come off as intimidating sometimes. However, those who take the time to get to know me usually experience a very rewarding friendship.
Some of my vanilla interests are:
1. Books
2. Books
3. Books
4. Math
5. Physics
6. Dialectics and polemics
7. Classical Music
8. Gathering information and processing such into knowledge
9. Good food and cooking
10. Movies
[COLOR skyblue][SIZE 3]I am a gentleman. I open doors and pull chairs for my ladies. I am also an evil Dominant, with a penchant for extracting my pleasure from my submissive/slave.[/SIZE][/COLOR]
[COLOR red][SIZE 2][U][B]BDSM Tastes, Likes and Dislikes[/B][/U][/SIZE][/COLOR]
[I][B]My 'scores' are as follows:
Sadist - 100%
Dominant - 100%
Experimental - 71%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur - 61%
Vanilla - 43%
Switch - 39%
Bondage - 29%
Degradation - 25%
Masochist - 7%
Submissive - 0%[/B][/I]
I love inflicting pain. I love impact toys of all kinds: whips, floggers, paddles, canes, crops, sticks, belts and the like. I love to see welts rising, the sub struggling to absorb the pain and eventually finding release in it. I love to see the submission in her eyes. And I love to leave marks. Electricity is also a favorite, particularly when applied to the sensitive parts: nipples, genitals, assholes underarms etc. Metal electrodes are particularly interesting, for hard torture and punishment. Like playing with clamps, clips and zippers, fire and oh… sharp, pointy objects. I like bondage. I am learning ropework, but am really taken by iron chains, shackles, spreader bars etc.
Apart from Sadism, I am very interested in sexual slavery. In an ideal world, I like my submissives/slaves to be available for sex with me, without question, at all times. Apart from that, they should also be available to please anyone I command them to please; male, female or any other gender orientation. Again, in my ideal world, I like my submissives/slaves to serve me domestically when required, with cooking and cleaning being a part of the duties.
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My Ideal Person:
Temporary Partners
In a temporary partner, I am preferably seeking someone local with a flexible schedule. Someone who is mature, drama-drugs-disease free, fun to be with, preferably bisexual and is interested in experiencing pain or has experienced it and loves it. I like playing in public (parties and gatherings), as well as in intimate settings. My play style includes sex, so while in public settings I may not indulge, in intimate settings I prefer to. I am very patient with newer people, and not at all averse to answering questions and pointing the questioner in the right direction if I do not have the answers. To that end, any temporary partner, new to the lifestyle or otherwise, is welcome to negotiate scenes with me, both public and intimate ones.
Long-term Partners
In a permanent partner, I am looking for someone I can have a really long-term, perhaps a permanent, relationship with. I am not looking for perfect. Nobody is. I am not. But I am looking for our mutual perfect. Looking for a lady with the intellect, savvy, grace and kindness to be my much-adored partner/wife in the vanilla aspect of the relationship, and the fortitude and absolute submissiveness to be my slave in the D/s aspect of the relationship. Preferably someone who is a professional, someone who has her own world she feels powerful in. Someone who understands D/s, someone who makes her way into my heart.
I would prefer her to be bisexual, and an "Alpha Sub". Someone who will be abjectly submissive to me, but will be Dominant towards other submissives/slaves I might have.
I AM NOT A LONG DISTANCE DOM. I do not do cyber. But I have no problem with starting a relationship long distance, and eventually moving to a point where she moves to me permanently. I have no problem relocating a submissive/slave. I am successful enough that I can maintain a household on my income alone, so it would be a negotiation between the submissive and me regarding her working. Please understand, if she is a successful professional and wants to work for self-fulfillment, I will do everything in my power to help her along that path. I will also do anything I can to ensure that she grows as a person, a slave and a professional.
If you think you might be interested in filling any of these roles, contact me.
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