I am a quiet unassuming individual who longs for the bdsm lifestyle. No one who comes into contact with me would ever guess my true proclivities. The old adage "Still waters run deep" definitely applies. I'm boringly (if that's even a word) prim and proper bordering on prudishness when I'm in out in public.
For as long as I've been cognitively aware of my desires they have always gravitated toward different subsets in the bdsm world. They were there long before I realized that there was a name for the things I needed and wanted.
I'm not here for a casual fling. If I was just looking to get laid I'd join a vanilla site, a swingers site or hit up the closest bar!
I need a Dominant male in my world. When I began exploring I sought out a mentor/disciplinarian. He taught me so many things about myself, my sexuality, and my potential.
I am not looking to be a slave or to be part of a harem.
I'm looking for an Alpha male. Logical. Intelligent. Straight. Dominant. One with a touch of humor, a sadistic streak and a definitive code of ethics. I need the mentor/disciplinarian as well as the intimacy of friendship.
I love the 1950's household dynamic where the woman was expected to be a lady outside the bedroom and the man was THE MAN, the traditional male/female roles and the way the man was the head of the household.
I firmly believe in corporal punishment and domestic discipline.
I am not a Domme and have zero desire to be one. I don't switch.
Please don't send me photos of your...ahem...willy. I'm glad you have one and that you are so proud of it but I truly do not need such visuals. Likewise, please do not ask me to send you 'kitty' shots or nakey photos.
I'm ridiculously shy, extraordinarily loyal, and eager to please. (makes me sound like a cocker spaniel doesn't it?) I am bouncy, ditzy yet fairly intelligent. I'm creative, kind, adaptable, slow fuse with an explosive charge if pushed to that point. I can not tolerate stupidity or being lied to.
I'm looking forward to meeting new people and learning new things!
"Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined."
Henry David Thoreau
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