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jamisgoodPosted: 2005-03-14 18:03
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Doms: i was wondering how many require their sub to ask permission before masturbating. i.e. when they can't be with their sub for some reason or another.

Subs: How many of you have to ask permission to masturbate when you are not with your Master?

i am very curious.

maureen
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Lord_KaelPosted: 2005-03-14 18:05
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I tell her when and how she is allowed to masterbate, as well as if she is to allow herself to cum or not.
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ravercat4Posted: 2005-03-14 18:07
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I have a philosophy that 'ask, the worst (well maybe not) would be that I would say no and you'd be no worse than you are now.' But yes, if they are my sub they would be required to ask.

Lady Aeval
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shyhudaPosted: 2005-03-14 18:09
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*lips twitch*

bwahahahahahaha

umm. If I had to ask permission every time I masturbated, I doubt I'd get any work done.

Or him either.

I think he'd be sick of my voice.

_big
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TrainerCPosted: 2005-03-14 18:10
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Mine has to have permission. At this time, he is not allowed to ASK for permission. I simply grant it when I'm in a good mood and he's been good all week. He normally gets to come on a weekly basis.

As for the reason: especially with males, the ability to orgasm is a center of sexuality. If I control that, I find that other things fall into place. He's also a lot more obedient if he knows I have that kind of control. It's the very first thing I take control of in a relationship.
Thanks,
C
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chigger1957Posted: 2005-03-14 18:10
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Lord_Kael:
I tell her when and how she is allowed to masterbate, as well as if she is to allow herself to cum or not.
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click here once a day to play the pimp game and help me gather ho's
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These are the rules that i currently have....but i'm on restriction at the moment because i failed to follow instructions. Every now and then i'm allowed to touch and taste, but no more than that.
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……….“slavery requires bravery”, or in other words to have the courage to take risks, to face your inner self, and the courage to face your fears and become the one you were truly meant to be.

chig “Property of Master_RD aka BOSK”

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_Wrath_Posted: 2005-03-14 18:19
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When I'm with someone, I usually try to come up with a set of rules for her to follow, masturbation usually being a part of my final list_wink. I usually try to keep her stimulated for most of the day, either by having her wear a butt plug or whatever other tasty ideas my sick little mind can come up with. I think it enhances my control over her by keeping her in a constant state of arousal but not allowing her to relieve herself. Not to mention, the thought of a slut walking around all day dripping wet from my attention is just hot _evil
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StrongEaglePosted: 2005-03-14 18:20
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Right now she has freedom to do so any time, but I do also take it away at MY whim or fancy..........she is mine and that is part of her therefor Mine as well!
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When ya quit learning ya die!
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mighty_aphroditePosted: 2005-03-14 18:22
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At first, with my former, I had to notify him whenever I had - when, where, how, and what I was thinking about. Towards the end, I had to ask permission, then notify him when I had.
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topaz2Posted: 2005-03-14 18:22
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<<[[ has just come off denial and am allowed to do the deed any time i want, for the moment, but, alas, He does take that pleasure away from me at a whim.
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Jeff_and_hopePosted: 2005-03-14 18:27
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He owns me.

My cunt is his.

I have to ask before touching his property.

Even further, my orgasms are his, there for I have to ask for them.

It is humbling... i can say that
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Roper451Posted: 2005-03-14 18:27
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Actually, and to be entirely PC about it, she should not even be allowed to ask; only be told when, where and how...
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_Wrath_Posted: 2005-03-14 18:28
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Roper451:
Actually, and to be entirely PC about it, she should not even be allowed to ask; only be told when, where and how...

Good point.
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hotbox_4_uPosted: 2005-03-14 18:39
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United States
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[quote]JustMoe:
Doms: i was wondering how many require their sub to ask permission before masturbating. i.e. when they can't be with their sub for some reason or another.

Subs: How many of you have to ask permission to masturbate when you are not with your Master?

i am very curious.

maureen
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I ask permission to orgasm as well as permission to come. With some Tops, it's exciting for them. With others, it's more exciting for me. I'm a big one on orgasm denial, mostly because I have no self-control when it comes to that. I would like to learn it, so it excites me a lot.

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scorpius18Posted: 2005-03-14 18:42
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Subs: How many of you have to ask permission to masturbate when you are not with your Master?

this was only the case when i was in a relationship with a Domme...i enjoyed it...it reminded me of Who was in charge of my sex life.


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le coeur a ses raisons que la Raison ne connait pas.
-Pascal

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adoraPosted: 2005-03-14 19:01
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I do as per Daddy's (Lord_Kael's) instructions and masturbate when, how and to how far based only on his requests. I rarely ask, because I rarely need to, Daddy has an appetite that leaves me more than satisfied.
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