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Bent Peter

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<font color=red> Everything in this lifestyle carries an element of risk, some higher risk than others...but again Safety, Sanity and Consent prevail with most who are educated, experienced and committed as evidenced by the very high degree of intelligent people who post to these threads.

respectfully,
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<font color=pink> exactly what she said! Brava! Well said vixen and thank you! *smiles </font id=pink>

"Give a man a free hand, and he'll run it all over you"~~Mae West~~

The finger painting has caused a few 'yucks' and smiles! lol. To be honest I was thinking it was more along the lines of deliberate cutting as opposed to whipping so I have learned from this.

For those that have a limit on it, do you see yourself lifting that at any point if challenged or tested?

angel....sub to Master Nemesis

Not something I have ever indulged in, but I would certainly worry about public play with any other play partner, as Peter says that you have not known at least for a substancial amount of time. Playing publicly involving whipping etc would raise major issues if the whip has been used elsewhere and traces of blood remain on it.

I know from a demo I attended with Victor Tella of the ability of a bull whip or smaller single tails, and the thought of someone not being aware of who that whip has drawn blood on, or indeed how many times etc is a very scary thought.

This is going deeper into and beyond the realm of SSC now, as you just cannot know in public play of these details. In private play fair enough, but should you be passed even to Dom/mes you know, their health history may be fine, but what of the subs they have played with and drawn blood on?

It is this sort of issue that newbies should be aware of, protecting themselves and their health. You may deam it sane and consensual, as for safe ? - well you may well know the whippee, but not their whipping history as it were.

angel....sub to Master Nemesis

I would just make damn sure that the people that you play with in the future are fully aware of the extremely risky behaviour you are indulging in now. You have a responsibility to those that you play with in the future to make sure that they have the same opportunity to make an educated decision about what they will or will not be exposed to. Anything else is non-consentual and I would consider it very similar to rape.

Scot

We've been together for 2 years. Unless one of us contracted the HIV that waits 5 years to show up, I believe we're safe. If we did, well, it's a bit late now as we don't use condoms with us. I'm spayed so it's not like I need to avoid pregnancy.

As for our definition of blood sports, like most everyone has said, it's any play where the intent to play with blood or cause it to be drawn. That would mean needles, cuttings, flogging/whipping with intent to bleed, and yes, menstrual play (which to me is icky and I'm glad Master's not into it.)

Knife play where the idea is to just have a knife against the flesh without intent to cut is not blood play, just a nice mind fuck.

Dorei
Claimed, collared and engaged to Loving_Sadist

"There is no honour without pie." - bob