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| IntrigeU | Posted: 2008-05-22 21:00 | |
Forum Apprentice United States 195 Posts | I just got of the phone with Master. He said he has been spending the last few hours getting ready for our weekend together. And will still need more time tomorrow before I get there! OK. Being still new to all this fun, it still makes me nervous to be lead or crawling into a room staged with all the toys, ropes, chains, paddles and tons more gear ( I swear its always growing). I can feel and love all his excitement and enthusiasm. He takes such pride in having things set up just right so he can spend all his attention on me and not having to find something. I would like to hear how long do you take to prepare? Don't know if this has been covered but I haven't seen anything lately, and its slow here tonight. | |
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| arayofsunshine | Posted: 2008-05-22 21:07 | |
black swan United States 10,587 Posts | If he's coming to my house all the time to get ready is about cleaning my house. And that can take hours. IntrigeU: I just got of the phone with Master. He said he has been spending the last few hours getting ready for our weekend together. And will still need more time tomorrow before I get there! OK. Being still new to all this fun, it still makes me nervous to be lead or crawling into a room staged with all the toys, ropes, chains, paddles and tons more gear ( I swear its always growing). I can feel and love all his excitement and enthusiasm. He takes such pride in having things set up just right so he can spend all his attention on me and not having to find something. I would like to hear how long do you take to prepare? Don't know if this has been covered but I haven't seen anything lately, and its slow here tonight. -- Sunshine Daddy's owned HN/JB. Seeing the goodness in someone does not imply ignoring their difficult qualities or unskilled actions. Rather, we can fully acknowledge these difficulties, while at the same time we choose to focus on the positive. If we focus on the negative we will naturally feel anger, resentment, or disappointment. If we focus on the positive, we will forge connection to the person. Sharon Salzberg | |
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| camilla33 | Posted: 2008-05-22 21:09 | |
| Forum Regular United States 725 Posts | I'm so envious. You lucky girl! Best reaction for me is the nervous butterflies and wetness. Love that anticipation. Oh, but it's so great to see that immediate fire in their eyes when you walk in. You know that trying-to-look-cool, but awestruck. Go work it girl. Present your best. | |
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| IntrigeU | Posted: 2008-05-22 21:23 | |
Forum Apprentice United States 195 Posts | If he's coming to my house all the time to get ready is about cleaning my house. And that can take hours I know exactly what you mean. He hasn't been to my house yet. I dread the day!!!!!!!! | |
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| neo10 | Posted: 2008-05-22 21:26 | |
Forum Maniac United States 7,221 Posts | No time for anticipation in my life, I get ambushed at his whim at various times of the day. Sometimes it is a gentle tease and a shove on the bed, sometimes it is a furious take down. But never does it arrive with a warning. He likes to keep me off balance. -- I don't want power to be simply exchanged; I want to rip it from her body ~ HardTop I win, is the bottom line. It is understood from the outset ~ HardTop | |
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| IntrigeU | Posted: 2008-05-22 21:29 | |
Forum Apprentice United States 195 Posts | Oh, but it's so great to see that immediate fire in their eyes when you walk in. You know that trying-to-look-cool, but awestruck. Thank you I did get lucky my first time here on B.com. | |
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| _caethes_ | Posted: 2008-05-22 21:31 | |
Blueberry pancakes United States 13,716 Posts | arayofsunshine: If he's coming to my house all the time to get ready is about cleaning my house. And that can take hours. Or days, in my case, since I despise housework. As well, making sure I am well-scrubbed and polished; ensuring the toys are tidy, and handy for him; presenting myself in clothing (or note) and habitude that he prefers. For example, the way he wants to be greeted when he walks in the unlocked door. Have a blast! "To labour and not seek reward" -- from a Life of St. Kevin Brian Wilson sails on: | |
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| Rdy2Play84 | Posted: 2008-05-22 23:31 | |
Forum Regular United States 951 Posts | As a Dom, it takes me about 30 minutes to get ready. I usually have an idea of what I want to do, but since she's going to be participating and has her own needs and desires, some of what I think might happen doesn't, and some of what does happen I never expected. In short, it's not about the preparation, it's about the attitude. Yeah, it's nice to have everything where you can get it quickly, but unless you are absolutely anal retentive, or so regimented in your approach to the "event" that you lose all flexibility, then you are guaranteed to be surprised and will figure out the one thing you really needed is still downstairs somewhere. Solution? Throw a blanket over her to keep her warm, and go get it. I try never to let the "script" ruin our spontaneity. "Under capitalism, man exploits man. Under communism, it's just the opposite." John Kenneth Galbraith "My choice early in life was to be either a piano player in a whorehouse, or a politician. And to tell the truth, there's hardly any difference." President Harry S. Truman | |
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| limper | Posted: 2008-05-23 07:37 | |
Uber Troll United States 3,554 Posts | Being in an LDR (for one more week as of this post) I start packing 1 to 2 weeks before I leave to see her. I have "plans" and things I "must bring" but then there are the things that allow for spontaneous play. I also have my clothes and such packed a week in advance. This way, all I have to do is grab my bags on the way out the door. When she is here, the prep time is going to drop drastically. I know where all my toys are kept and can get to them in seconds. Unless we have a special scene planned, I dont think there is going to be hours of prep work. How do we greet each other? Again being LDR our greetings tend to be a bit odd to others. She rushes me at the door and throws her arms around me. I allow this for a minute or two and then gently push her away with the reminder "Bath room!" After the basic functions are taken care of, I kiss her, remind her that I love her, then grab her hair, bend her over and fuck her hard with no foreplay. That is a "need" thing. Once that is taken care of, we settle into a nice weekend of love and play. edit for a typo Edited by - limper on 2008-05-23 13:29:08 | |
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| gettingdark | Posted: 2008-05-23 07:44 | |
Forum Slut United States 1,829 Posts | Edited by - trouble_maker2 on 2008-06-02 07:53:25 | |
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| NASHVILLEDOM | Posted: 2008-05-23 07:56 | |
Liberal Dragon Slayer United States 33,585 Posts | limper: After the basic functions are taken care of, I kiss her, remind her that I love her, then grab her hair, bend her over and fuck her hard with no foreplay. That is a "need" thing. Once that is taken care of, we settle into a nice weekend of love and play. Yes that is the best way to start. Takes the edge off and things can run smoothly from there. nd | |
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| onesassylassy | Posted: 2008-05-23 07:57 | |
Forum Maniac United States 3,289 Posts | limper: Being in an LDR (for one more week as of this post) I start packing 1 to 2 weeks before I leave to see her. I have "plans" and things I "must bring" but then there are the things that allow for spontaneous play. I also have my clothes and such packed a week in advance. This way, all I have to do is grab my bags on the way out the door. When she is here, the prep time is going to drop drastically. I know where all my toys are kept and can get to them in seconds. Unless we have a special scene planned, I dont think there is going to be hours of prep work. How do we great each other? Again being LDR our greetings tend to be a bit odd to others. She rushes me at the door and throws her arms around me. I allow this for a minute or two and then gently push her away with the reminder "Bath room!" After the basic functions are taken care of, I kiss her, remind her that I love her, then grab her hair, bend her over and fuck her hard with no foreplay. That is a "need" thing. Once that is taken care of, we settle into a nice weekend of love and play. And if he is coming here, I spend the next to last week, cleaning the house, and the last week, working on me. I detest scratchy feet, so, even though I keep them pretty soft and smooth, I pay special attention to that, make sure there is only hair where he likes it, on my body, make sure the nails (all 20) are smooth and even, and the toes get painted, perfectly. I want my body smooth and silky for him, so my skin gets extra attention with the body butter, after I make sure it is all well exfoliated. I make sure all the toys are handy, and with fresh batteries (in the ones that call for them), and I spend a LOT of time with butterflies in my stomach! | |
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| onesassylassy | Posted: 2008-05-23 07:58 | |
Forum Maniac United States 3,289 Posts | NASHVILLEDOM: limper: After the basic functions are taken care of, I kiss her, remind her that I love her, then grab her hair, bend her over and fuck her hard with no foreplay. That is a "need" thing. Once that is taken care of, we settle into a nice weekend of love and play. Yes that is the best way to start. Takes the edge off and things can run smoothly from there. nd It works VERY well for us, and there has never been a need for lube, either! lol | |
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| daddyspanksfem | Posted: 2008-05-23 13:21 | |
Forum Initiate United States 12 Posts | Hi all: Well, I met a girl on another site and we decided to meet at a hotel room after dinner. I really just wanted to show her some of my toys, but she wanted to see them all. It took me about an hour and ten trips in the elevator to get it all up there. The hotel is in Kissimmee Florida, and there were a lot of tourists, but no one noticed. We had fun though, so it was ok. Normally I keep everything set up in a back room, so it's all set up if a womam comes to the house. BTW, I'm Jack from Florida, just thought I'd introduce myself. | |
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| Roughykins | Posted: 2008-05-23 13:29 | |
| Forum Maniac United States 3,659 Posts | neo10: No time for anticipation in my life, I get ambushed at his whim at various times of the day. Sometimes it is a gentle tease and a shove on the bed, sometimes it is a furious take down. But never does it arrive with a warning. He likes to keep me off balance. -- I don't want power to be simply exchanged; I want to rip it from her body ~ HardTop I win, is the bottom line. It is understood from the outset ~ HardTop Yummy. My favorite kind. Anything used is make-shift and immediate, and hand to hand combat is the bee's knees | |
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| sub_title | Posted: 2008-05-23 15:02 | |
Forum Maniac United States 3,014 Posts | watching with a cautious eye.... -- @}-`-- "Everything you want in life has a price connected to it. There's a price to pay if you want to make things better, a price to pay just for leaving things as they are, a price for everything." Harry Browne | |
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