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| toast_ | Posted: 2008-06-14 12:28 | |
| Forum Apprentice 237 Posts | Just a question to all sides of our community. When you have been attached emotionally and mentally, did one marking stand out in your mind? Was it permanent (tattoo, brand...) or temporary (welt, cut...)? The one that stands out the most in my mind,was a mark left inadvertently. I marked someone who I had a very deep connection with, with a rug burn on one of her knees. That was quite some time ago. We talked the other day and it is still there and is a constant reminder of what we had. | |
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| zlover | Posted: 2008-06-14 12:53 | |
Forum Slut United States 1,171 Posts | Yes, a bite mark scar. Much better than a tattoo and, although noticeable on my upper arm, no one questions it and I'm the only one who knows the origination. | |
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| daddyslilone | Posted: 2008-06-14 12:56 | |
Forum Maniac United States 4,321 Posts | my marking is permanent and not visible in the sense that others can see it; it is how he marked my very soul that will constantly be with me. i think we must have had that same effect on each other. after 8-10 years after-the-fact, we can/do look each other straight in the eyes and talk about it as a good/beautiful thing. -- within the arms of weakness is strength, eager to burst free. within the grasp of pain is pleasure, waiting just to be. and within the path of obstacles lies opportunity...(The Princess Who Believed in Fairy Tales) | |
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| gettingdark | Posted: 2008-06-14 15:02 | |
Forum Slut United States 1,829 Posts | Yes I have a perfect bite mark on the back of my knee...I love it. -- WHEN I WANT YOUR OPINION, I WILL TAKE OFF THE DUCT TAPE...Sir | |
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| toy` | Posted: 2008-06-14 20:19 | |
Iron Ass United States 1,887 Posts | i have a few scars and a couple of tattoos and the emotional reminders that will always leave me marked. -- Warning! My communications may contain truth and/or sarcasm. Telling the difference requires intelligence and a sense of humor. Failure to do so may say more about you than me. | |
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| Skylar_ | Posted: 2008-06-14 20:30 | |
Forum Apprentice United States 317 Posts | I love marking 'mine'.. can start with a golden marking.. more emotional then physical. BUT I also love temp marks ie: bites, cane/paddle/strap marks that last a while (as I know my subs have too, often catching them looking at them in a mirror or absent mindedly touching them) to piercings, tattoo's, and one slave that I had branded.. deeply personal. -- | |
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| Finn`` | Posted: 2008-06-14 21:33 | |
Forum Maniac Canada 4,794 Posts | I have a wee tiny scar on the head of my cock...she has a cutting of an elephant on her behind. --
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| Oblivia_ | Posted: 2008-06-14 21:36 | |
Forum Apprentice United States 102 Posts | I've never given or received any sort of permanent mark, but temporary marks have always been a turn on and held a deep meaning for me. I ended up in a number of long distance relationships when I was in college, and with most of these individuals whenever I would leave them to go back to school (or go home for break), we would always leave each other with deeply bruised bite marks. I suppose you could say it was our way of prolonging our time together. | |
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| toast_ | Posted: 2008-06-14 22:01 | |
| Forum Apprentice 237 Posts | But is there one specific place in time...one person...one mark that stands out above all of the rest...one that cuts through to your core? | |
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| Ms_Doc | Posted: 2008-06-14 23:07 | |
Forum Regular United States 858 Posts | If I am not mistaken the permanent nail marks in my hubby's back is a good mark. -- ****____****____**** Sticks and stones may break my bones, but whips and chains excite me. ****____****____**** Whip me, Spank me, Make me bleed... Kinky sex is all I need. ****____****____**** *_*[[*_*D*_*O*_*C*_*]]*_* | |
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| Cenobite` | Posted: 2008-06-15 03:51 | |
| Forum Maniac United Kingdom 2,337 Posts | I just piss a circle around them then wildly declare that they're mine. Okay, okay-bites, scratches, the ole 'feline' rubbing up against him in public (I leave hairs too!) are more of the temporary markings. Permanent? None yet. Needless to say, the physical markings do not compare to the completeness and loving extent of the emotional markings on my soul. Can you get better than a chubby psycho bitch armed with an axe and chocolate? I think not! "Cold silence has a tendency to atrophy any sense of compassion" Schism-Tool In the end everything will be okay. If everything is not okay, then it's not the end. Feed meh! http://www.backlash-uk.org.uk/ | |
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| toy` | Posted: 2008-06-15 06:03 | |
Iron Ass United States 1,887 Posts | tanibal: But is there one specific place in time...one person...one mark that stands out above all of the rest...one that cuts through to your core? yes Warning! My communications may contain truth and/or sarcasm. Telling the difference requires intelligence and a sense of humor. Failure to do so may say more about you than me. | |
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| MistressSophiaStyle | Posted: 2008-06-15 07:35 | |
Forum Initiate United Kingdom 7 Posts | One sub probably has staple-shaped scars around his waist - side effect of not paying attention when I told him "keep your pants on" and he didn't... | |
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| _caethes_ | Posted: 2008-06-15 07:40 | |
Blueberry pancakes United States 13,716 Posts | RachoThePsycho: I just piss a circle around them then wildly declare that they're mine. Okay, okay-bites, scratches, the ole 'feline' rubbing up against him in public (I leave hairs too!) are more of the temporary markings. Permanent? None yet. Needless to say, the physical markings do not compare to the completeness and loving extent of the emotional markings on my soul. In that vein - for me, letters (snail or e) that I will keep forever. That I can return to "in the soft porn of memory" (not my phrase, but I like it). That remind me of the time I was first "marked," first claimed - the words that are as solid and meaningful a treasure as a brand, a tattoo, the piss that washes away. One of the worst things that happened to me was when a former Dom's emails went poof! As well, I like to keep my skin unmarked should the relationship not last. Free for another to play with, without the interference of the scar of memory (which I will keep to myself, in letters, poems, photographs, boxes). | |
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| sweet_catastrophe | Posted: 2008-06-15 21:13 | |
| Forum Apprentice United States 317 Posts | My favorite was a temporary one, bite marks from my shoulders to my breasts, covering my entire upper chest. I was black, blue, green, and yellow for almost a month. It was from the first time he really let himself go and hurt me. We both have plans for more permanent markings in the future, but for me they'll be piercings I already wanted and he's chosen jewelry that contains his mark to go in them. | |
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| Gorean_Nightmare | Posted: 2008-06-15 22:05 | |
| Forum Initiate United States 2 Posts | I think the one that has meant the most to me, really had nothing to do with the relationship I had with Master. He used the violet wand and put the initial of my niece that had just passed away upon my shoulder. Strangely enough, it is still there, it has not faded with time like I thought it would. With the N was also the roman numeral marks for one of five. I V. Its sort of the I and then a little lower and to the right the V. Master did not know that my niece went to IV High school or that they died in the Illinois Valley. He simply made a mark, because I hurt so much inside... a manisfestion of that hurt was his gift to me... and it came out beautiful... more meaningful then either of us could know. I've never told any one this, and for a time I simply sat here crying, unsure if I COULD tell any one. And yet, some how... I feel better for it, a little. Thank you. Bina | |
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