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| Discreet_Dominant | Posted: 2008-08-26 15:42 | |
Forum Initiate United States 8 Posts | My submissive girlfriend is married--and some of the time lives with--a guy she dated in high school,almost 15 years ago(and married 12 years ago).I'm not her first Dom,but we've been together for 3 years.She has now astounded me by asking me to command her to stop having sex with her husband . She said,"I love to tease him,and frustrate him. I want to make him beg you to fuck his own wife".I know her husband well enough to think that her fantasy is hot,weird and workable.Is she topping from the bottom?Should I care?If the command is only for a short time,I might consider doing it. I asked her why she didn't just stop doing it with him,without involving me...and she told me that she "has done that plenty of times,but this would be different,special". thoughts??? | |
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| Autumnmoon | Posted: 2008-08-26 17:56 | |
Forum Apprentice United States 126 Posts | If all 3 of you like the idea then go for it | |
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| Master2bindngagu | Posted: 2008-08-26 19:04 | |
Forum Regular United States 624 Posts | Whatever turns you on as long as you can both make it work. I can't see myself getting involved with a woman who is married and/or collared already. But if you both like it and are agreeable to it, why not -- Wow, I finally figured out how to do a signature! | |
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| Bad_Idea | Posted: 2008-08-26 20:03 | |
Sick Fuck United States 1,687 Posts | All I can say is... Wow, watch out Jerry Springer! -- "PS: FUCK YOU TrampyHotCo-Ed" - DarthdaVer "If I wanted your opinion, I'd give it to you" - Heff True love is one soul's recognition of its counterpoint in another Like playing or watching sports? Then join my group: Sports-R-Us | |
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| _Ghost | Posted: 2008-08-26 20:18 | |
Forum Slut United States 1,850 Posts | I don't even see the conflict. Of course, if the husband is kept completely in the dark then that could cause problems if he finds out. Outside that, where lie the problems? -- "...by the by, this moment is so great, I'd cheat on that other moment from before, marry this one and raise a family of tiny, little moments." | |
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| limper | Posted: 2008-08-26 21:33 | |
Uber Troll United States 3,559 Posts | First question. Is the husband a bit on the submissive side? Unless he is a bit submissive I cant see this ending well | |
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| sue9378 | Posted: 2008-08-26 21:45 | |
Forum Newbie United States 66 Posts | Wow. Anyway if you are worried about her topping from the bottom tell her that you will take it under consideration and if you are really into then give her the order when she least expects it or when she will least want to respect that, a kind of be careful what you wish for. That is if you want to be a sadistic about it, get her all horny and worked up then send her home and tell her she can't get herself off and she can't fuck her husband.  Have a good day and good luck finding your bliss, sue | |
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| SmokeyLady | Posted: 2008-08-26 22:05 | |
Sadistic Bitch United States 14,002 Posts | I don't know, maybe it is just me, but I can see a problem or three. I'm kinda curious about something. Did the husband consent to be your sub as well? If one of mine would come to me with a request like that I would have to speak with their S/O. Have you ever spoke with him? Does he even know about you? BeyondDominance: My submissive girlfriend is married--and some of the time lives with--a guy she dated in high school,almost 15 years ago(and married 12 years ago).I'm not her first Dom,but we've been together for 3 years.She has now astounded me by asking me to command her to stop having sex with her husband . She said,"I love to tease him,and frustrate him. I want to make him beg you to fuck his own wife".I know her husband well enough to think that her fantasy is hot,weird and workable.Is she topping from the bottom?Should I care?If the command is only for a short time,I might consider doing it. I asked her why she didn't just stop doing it with him,without involving me...and she told me that she "has done that plenty of times,but this would be different,special". thoughts??? -- Just call me your 1 time service top, free of charge. hmmm Wanna play naked leapfrog?  My validation marker is fresh outa blood = me I wanna predator your ass Bubble gum fucking, the newest kink You'll pick evil over stupid any day | |
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| limper | Posted: 2008-08-26 22:13 | |
Uber Troll United States 3,559 Posts | Personally I would command her to make her husband cum three times in one night. One time in each hole. Just think of the humiliation when she tells him that you told her to suck him off, fuck him and anally fuck him | |
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| NASHVILLEDOM | Posted: 2008-08-26 22:13 | |
Liberal Dragon Slayer  United States 37,090 Posts | BeyondDominance: My submissive girlfriend is married--and some of the time lives with--a guy she dated in high school,almost 15 years ago(and married 12 years ago).I'm not her first Dom,but we've been together for 3 years.She has now astounded me by asking me to command her to stop having sex with her husband . She said,"I love to tease him,and frustrate him. I want to make him beg you to fuck his own wife". I am thinking this is only the first step of her plan I know her husband well enough to think that her fantasy is hot,weird and workable. See above Want a male sub? Is she topping from the bottom?Should I care?If the command is only for a short time,I might consider doing it. I asked her why she didn't just stop doing it with him,without involving me...and she told me that she "has done that plenty of times,but this would be different,special". thoughts??? The end game may be that all three of you co-habitate or you make him yours then turn him over to her. It is not topping from the bottom as long as it does something for you. Look at it more like a suggestion. (Does the guy own a gun?) It has some interesting possibilities but you would have to decide if it suits you, but don't expect it to stop here. For all you know it may be HIS idea. nd | |
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| A_Master | Posted: 2008-08-27 07:54 | |
| Forum Regular United States 513 Posts | As long as everyone understands what they are getting into, go for it. | |
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| phantas_c | Posted: 2008-08-27 14:18 | |
| Forum Slut United States 1,524 Posts | You stated she asked you to command her, that being said you have the choice to say yes or no. I believe all submissives,slaves have a right to ask anything they want to their tops, bottoms, Doms doesn't mean they will get it. Topping from the bottom?...not in my eyes.
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| ivone1 | Posted: 2008-08-27 15:21 | |
WhipHer's wife/slave  United States 64,510 Posts | does the husband know about your relationship if not RUN dont walk.... things could get ugly in the long run -- nuff said ~ivone~ "The last of the human freedoms is to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances" Victor Frankl | |
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| puppikat | Posted: 2008-08-27 15:35 | |
The beast in me United States 2,666 Posts | ummmm...if you have to 'ask' to be commanded, is it really a command? and ummmm...seems there would be a VERY big problem with her and her hubby if this were reality. Is she looking for a way out of the marriage? Is her hubby a sub and wants some of the action, too? Are you sure you're not being played? With kindest regards, puppikat =^..^= respect me for the courage to voice it without fear of strong opposition. | |
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| pinkwind | Posted: 2008-08-27 16:29 | |
Dun quhynging! United Kingdom 10,319 Posts | Thoughts? i think she gets off humiliating her husband and wants you to help her now because she has run out of excuses to justify doing it for herself on her own behalf. So, how happy do you feel being an accomplice in her stupid mind games? Are you happily working under the impression that he gets off on all of this kind of shite? One wonders what would happen if you just told her "no". -- pink... Master Andy's emotion... From Each According To His Abilities, To Each According To His Needs. | |
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| DcoupleS | Posted: 2008-08-27 20:21 | |
Forum Apprentice United States 398 Posts | BeyondDominance: She has now astounded me by asking me to command her to stop having sex with her husband . Basic question would be if she is her husbands Domme? I would command her that she needs to fuck her husbands ball's dry without her getting any orgasm. Thereafter - get her nice hot and horny - and send her home with a chastity belt. Let her write a report what she desires next - signed by her hubby. She said,"I love to tease him,and frustrate him. I want to make him beg you to fuck his own wife".I know her husband well enough to think that her fantasy is hot,weird and workable. If you can run quicker than her husband can shoot - well you might be able to consider that game as it is healthy exercise - if not and the dud has some kind of self esteem - make a good life insurance. Is she topping from the bottom? No - she humiliates her hubby - but is using you to do it ( basically carry the blame for it ) you know the guy who is / was her high school sweetheart - the one who pay's the bills, perhaps even the one who will visit her in the hospital if you two screwed up a bit too much ... yes and he might even pay the bill which will follow. Should I care? No you should not - since you are getting played by her - except - if you have her hubby's full consent to this game and it will stay safe - since I do not see it all to safe sane and consensual. Besides - you do not feel well about it since you ask here??? If the command is only for a short time,I might consider doing it. I asked her why she didn't just stop doing it with him,without involving me...and she told me that she "has done that plenty of times,but this would be different,special". thoughts??? Sure this play is special for her as she can blame it on you. Yes a sub can ask a request from her Master - and Master should consider it - but here she is asking that you humiliate her hubby she should please you and her hubby not vise versa. BTW, is her husband a cuckold? Do you know him well enough ( or just from drinking a cup of coffee together) - and have you already had fucked her together? Does the husband consent for her to be your sub? Is it all in the happy family?
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