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jeff1950Posted: 2009-01-25 18:11
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313 Posts		If you end your relationship with someone, forgive them for their transgressions. Then you can start your new life.
Hated and bitterness only poisons the Well, causing much trouble in your new life. It can destroy any possible new relationship.
If you learn to forgive others, then you may be able forgive yourself.
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NoraBPosted: 2009-01-25 22:46
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206 Posts		I heard about you. You're not so bad. Your post is pretty cool! Let me know if I can top you sometime. I read some of your posts. Be gentle to yourself, because some of these fuckers here could learn from your open heart.
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Lingerie_DungeonPosted: 2009-01-26 09:09
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8 Posts		Very well said. Forgiving is a very large part of moving on emotionally, so is not forgetting!
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kssnrabbitPosted: 2009-01-26 16:11
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16,656 Posts		i forgive..i NEVER forget
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_bound_Posted: 2009-01-26 16:13
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kssnrabbit:
i forgive..i NEVER forget
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"in order to love you, i must love myself first"

"HERE KITTY KITTY KITTY ...."



I know someone like that.
He can be a real Sadistic Fuck.

I easily forgive. I learn something from every experience, be it good or bad. So, not all is lost.
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it's more than pulling rabbits from a hat
it's breeding and raising the rabbits
choosing the right color combination for the lighting of the day
and then choosing the correct one for the correct hat
for the correct time at the correct moment without calling it magic... that's the magic of it all ~ anonymous
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kssnrabbitPosted: 2009-01-26 16:16
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bound_pleasure:

kssnrabbit:
i forgive..i NEVER forget
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"in order to love you, i must love myself first"

"HERE KITTY KITTY KITTY ...."



I know someone like that.
He can be a real Sadistic Fuck.

I easily forgive. I learn something from every experience, be it good or bad. So, not all is lost.
--


it's more than pulling rabbits from a hat
it's breeding and raising the rabbits
choosing the right color combination for the lighting of the day
and then choosing the correct one for the correct hat
for the correct time at the correct moment without calling it magic... that's the magic of it all ~ anonymous


a sadistic fuck..that can be a good thingy_big_wink
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"in order to love you, i must love myself first"

"HERE KITTY KITTY KITTY ...."

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_bound_Posted: 2009-01-26 16:19
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kssnrabbit:
a sadistic fuck..that can be a good thingy_big_wink

A very good thingy, especially if you enjoy an emotional sadist. _big
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it's more than pulling rabbits from a hat
it's breeding and raising the rabbits
choosing the right color combination for the lighting of the day
and then choosing the correct one for the correct hat
for the correct time at the correct moment without calling it magic... that's the magic of it all ~ anonymous
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-cake-Posted: 2009-01-26 21:51
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11,698 Posts		Jeff:

How much do you earn each year? If it's less than $500k but more than $250k, I guess I could forgive you. Well, I mean, as long as the amount increases every year. If it stays at $250k, I don't know if I could forgive, I really don't. And if it dips under $250k, well...I'm outta here. Sorry, but I have to be honest. Honesty and communication are the most important part of a relationship, don't you think? I mean, after money being spent on me.

Thanks,
Your future sub as long as funds hold steady or increase,
cake
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Edited by - -cake- on 2009-01-26 21:55:09

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Shibari1949Posted: 2009-01-27 14:47
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-cake-:
Jeff:

How much do you earn each year? If it's less than $500k but more than $250k, I guess I could forgive you. Well, I mean, as long as the amount increases every year. If it stays at $250k, I don't know if I could forgive, I really don't. And if it dips under $250k, well...I'm outta here. Sorry, but I have to be honest. Honesty and communication are the most important part of a relationship, don't you think? I mean, after money being spent on me.

Thanks,
Your future sub as long as funds hold steady or increase,
cake


Before or after taxes?
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blestec_zaloigraPosted: 2009-01-27 15:14
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530 Posts		I agree with you on this. Besides, the more drama you attatch yourself to with the exiting of the relationship, the more ya wind up hurting emotionally in the end. Yeah, it might be a thrill to work your soon-to-be-ex-partner into a frenzy with stupid bullshit tactics, but is it really worth all the energy you'll expend making them miserable?????


........

Not sure if that nugget of observation came because of a break up or something, but if so, sounds like you have a good outlook for the future, so sorry and congrats all in one! _tongue


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If you could experience death (think Flatliners movie) and come back without any ill effects, would you want to see whats on the other side? If so, how would you die? If not, why not?
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kssnrabbitPosted: 2009-01-27 15:52
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-cake-:
Jeff:

How much do you earn each year? If it's less than $500k but more than $250k, I guess I could forgive you. Well, I mean, as long as the amount increases every year. If it stays at $250k, I don't know if I could forgive, I really don't. And if it dips under $250k, well...I'm outta here. Sorry, but I have to be honest. Honesty and communication are the most important part of a relationship, don't you think? I mean, after money being spent on me.

Thanks,
Your future sub as long as funds hold steady or increase,
cake
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My goal is to make Velvet Beaters B.com's most popular group. Help me by joining:
http://www.bondage.com/groups/10388/group.html

Edited by - -cake- on 2009-01-26 21:55:09



fucking funny as shit_big
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"HERE KITTY KITTY KITTY ...."

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tickleobjectPosted: 2009-01-27 17:12
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Shibari1949:

-cake-:
Jeff:

How much do you earn each year? If it's less than $500k but more than $250k, I guess I could forgive you. Well, I mean, as long as the amount increases every year. If it stays at $250k, I don't know if I could forgive, I really don't. And if it dips under $250k, well...I'm outta here. Sorry, but I have to be honest. Honesty and communication are the most important part of a relationship, don't you think? I mean, after money being spent on me.

Thanks,
Your future sub as long as funds hold steady or increase,
cake


Before or after taxes?


After taxes, duh!

Psssst, I'm a much better buy than cake. I'll forgive anyone who makes over $100K.
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You know, a little orphan girl once told me that the sun will come out tomorrow. Her adoptive father was a powerful billionaire, so naturally I repressed the urge to laugh in her face.
Men seldom make passes at female smart asses.
Voodoo! Yes, it's a safe, economical way to inflict evil on the world.
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-cake-Posted: 2009-01-27 18:05
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11,698 Posts		$100k isn't what it used to be...it's the minimum downpayment these days for a $500k home. And I'm CERTAINLY not going to forgive a home that costs less than that...I mean, what am I supposed to give up? A Jacuzzi? No way!
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tickleobjectPosted: 2009-01-27 18:09
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-cake-:
$100k isn't what it used to be

True, but I'm such a slut.
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It's lonely being a cannibal. Tough making friends.
You know, a little orphan girl once told me that the sun will come out tomorrow. Her adoptive father was a powerful billionaire, so naturally I repressed the urge to laugh in her face.
Men seldom make passes at female smart asses.
Voodoo! Yes, it's a safe, economical way to inflict evil on the world.
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Shibari1949Posted: 2009-01-27 19:02
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tickleobject:

Shibari1949:

-cake-:
Jeff:

How much do you earn each year? If it's less than $500k but more than $250k, I guess I could forgive you. Well, I mean, as long as the amount increases every year. If it stays at $250k, I don't know if I could forgive, I really don't. And if it dips under $250k, well...I'm outta here. Sorry, but I have to be honest. Honesty and communication are the most important part of a relationship, don't you think? I mean, after money being spent on me.

Thanks,
Your future sub as long as funds hold steady or increase,
cake


Before or after taxes?


After taxes, duh!

Psssst, I'm a much better buy than cake. I'll forgive anyone who makes over $100K.


Let's do lunch. I'm sure I can leverage my current position. _wink
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DarkeonePosted: 2009-01-27 19:11
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jeff1950: If you end your relationship with someone, forgive them for their transgressions. Then you can start your new life.
Hated and bitterness only poisons the Well, causing much trouble in your new life. It can destroy any possible new relationship.
If you learn to forgive others, then you may be able forgive yourself.

Wasn't this in Wayne Dwyer's book?
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"Every normal man must be tempted at times to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin to slit throats." H.L. Mencken
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