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It honestly more depends on exactly what you want out of the relationship. Don't fool yourself into believing its not a relationship, you want something from him, he wants something from you, its a relationship be it not traditional, it counts.

You'll have to be vary clear up front what you're after, your limits as a Dom, yes a Dom can have limits, and exactly what you expect. Be prepared for a lot of rejection because male submissive are notorious for wanting their expectations fulfilled as if its some sort of fantasy of their own creation.

Good boy toys are hard to find, once you get your hook into one you may not want to let him go.

Ape

Om s side note you'll see this sort of thing happen a lot with male subs that are into porn acting. You'll see on a lot of sites everything short of penis in vagina/anus sex. I'm not saying you'll have to do porn, but its an example to prove that it does exist.

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Edited by - Big_Dumb_Ape on 2009-06-29 23:18:02

I'm not quite sure how to interpret this question.

"What planet are you living on... Of course there are guys out there that just enjoy being toyed with" or "What planet are you living on... No one ever in their right mind would just want a good beating without some ulterior motive".

Like I said, this isn't something I'm about to jump into. It's not even something I would have remotely considered a year ago, but I'm trying to be a bit more open-minded these days. Pardon me for burdening you with my silly questions.

And to answer your question, on my planet, masochist that I am, there have been people I've played with just for the pure pleasure (or pain) of taking a good beating and nothing else. I really can't imagine I'm the only one.
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