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whytechocolatePosted: 2009-07-03 02:17
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368 Posts		Not sure if this is the sit i want or where to put this but I don't know where to look this is all so new to me. I met this man he is great. I feel he is dominant because of the things he has and how the sex was . He is not very talkative in givin me info. I really want to surprise him please him next time we meet. But I'm not sure wat he wants. In a way I think he is afraid to let me see that side of him and in other thoughts I think he is jst tryin to drive me nuts cuz he knows how I feel and how bad I want to please him. I'm just not sure how to act or wat to do. I have asked him to bring his toys next time and he said he would any advice would mean so much to me thanks
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NinjaProphetPosted: 2009-07-03 03:04
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8,649 Posts		Next time he comes over, greet him naked, on all fours with a crop in your teeth.

If he doesn't get the hint from that, he's not Dominant. At least not play wise. Be aware, some people have a Dominant/submissive dynamic with out the Sadomasochism aspect.
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neo10Posted: 2009-07-03 07:49
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8,012 Posts		You or I or anyone else cannot know what pleases him. The only one who knows, is him.

He should be pleased enough that you are willing and eager to please him. For such a new relationship that is more than enough.

A big part of being a dominant is steering and directing a sub to please them. So let him do that and enjoy instructing you.


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I win, is the bottom line. It is understood from the outset ~ HardTop

Edited by - neo10 on 2009-07-03 07:54:53

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whytechocolatePosted: 2009-07-03 07:53
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368 Posts		Next time he comes over, greet him naked, on all fours with a crop in your teeth.

Thats hard he don't come over we meet he drives truck


Be aware, some people have a Dominant/submissive dynamic with out the Sadomasochism aspect.

I'm really new to all this so I don't really understand what this means

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NASHVILLEDOMPosted: 2009-07-03 07:55
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whytechocolate:
I have asked him to bring his toys next time and he said he would any advice would mean so much to me thanks

See what he brings. If it isn't up to expectations you could always ask if he has any more or whip out your own toys. (no pun intended)

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Edited by - NASHVILLEDOM on 2009-07-03 07:58:38

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neo10Posted: 2009-07-03 07:59
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8,012 Posts		In BDSM there are the bondage, dominance, sadism & masochism elements.

People tend to pick and choose one or more of these elements and some people enjoy all of them in their relationship.

Some have only a dominant and submissive relationship without the sadism & masochism part. I suspect thats what NP was talking about.
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I win, is the bottom line. It is understood from the outset ~ HardTop
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whytechocolatePosted: 2009-07-03 08:00
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You or I or anyone else cannot know what pleases him. The only one who knows, is him


He lets me know certain things. I learn a lil more each time we are together But I don't understand why he dosen't just tell me. Or if I do something he don't like I know about it. Idk Im plannin on going to adult store and seeing wwhat I can find for next time ( hopefully soon) O and he said I need to learn patience. I'm not a very patient person when I find something I like is that wrong

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whytechocolatePosted: 2009-07-03 08:04
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See what he brings.

I know some of the things he is going to bring I know he has a spreader bar,ropes, cuffs, nipple things, a swing at his house, Floggers i think he called them as I said I am very new to all this

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whytechocolatePosted: 2009-07-03 08:07
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In BDSM there are the bondage, dominance, sadism & masochism elements

Ok I'm not sure wat the last 2 mean I guess I will have to look it up . I'm pretty sure he is into the bondage and dominance though

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veryhotwitchPosted: 2009-07-03 08:27
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Thats hard he don't come over we meet he drives truck

you only fuck in the truck?

witchy
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Patronus_mousePosted: 2009-07-03 08:30
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NinjaProphet:
Next time he comes over, greet him naked, on all fours with a crop in your teeth.

Or a butt plug._wink
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No, no, no, it' ain't me, babe,
It ain't me you're lookin' for, babe."

~ Robert Zimmerman aka Bob Dylan -- just for you, schnivel

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whytechocolatePosted: 2009-07-03 08:32
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you only fuck in the truck?

So far yes he has a full sized bed. We have talked about him coming to my place when his job allows and me going to his place on vacation
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whytechocolatePosted: 2009-07-03 08:38
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Or a butt plug._wink

Idk I am going to the adult store in a few and see wat grabs my attention that I think might grab his too

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neo10Posted: 2009-07-03 08:48
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8,012 Posts		A sadist/sadism is when someone enjoys inflicting pain, as in flogging, whipping or doing something that hurts you either physically, or mentally as in humiliation. Remember that this is only if you enjoy this and give him consent, or else it then becomes abuse. You are perfectly right to refuse what you do not like.

A masochist/masochism is when someone enjoys having this pain inflicted on them. Not all masochist like all the types of pain. So choose what you do and do not like.

Go slow, and make sure you set up a signal in a word or deed that means you need him to stop or slow down.

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I don't want power to be simply exchanged; I want to rip it from her body ~ HardTop
I win, is the bottom line. It is understood from the outset ~ HardTop
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whytechocolatePosted: 2009-07-03 08:53
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368 Posts		I want to thank everyone for the information and any pointers it really means alot to me. As I said before this is all new to me and I really want to plz him and getting some of my fantasies fullfilled is a plus in the deal.
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zloverPosted: 2009-07-03 11:23
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veryhotwitch:
you only fuck in the truck?

Snorts, some girls have all the luck.

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