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 All Forums BDSM Talk and Support Yes Ma'am Is the ass of a straight male sub off-limits? |  Login to Reply New Topic |  Printer Friendly |
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| seeing_purple | Posted: 2009-12-31 00:27 | |
Forum Initiate United States 31 Posts | I've never talked to him about this (think I might scare him) but sometimes when I'm dominating my guy, I enjoy the thought of fucking him with a dildo or a strap-on or something. But he's a straight guy. Is there such a thing as a heterosexual male who's okay with that? Does anyone have experience with this? | |
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| IamZ | Posted: 2009-12-31 04:56 | |
Forum Regular  Canada 720 Posts | Yes and yes. Best, | |
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| Auctoritas | Posted: 2009-12-31 10:13 | |
| Forum Newbie United States 52 Posts | Edited by - Auctoritas on 2010-01-30 12:41:51 | |
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| C-Ray | Posted: 2009-12-31 10:38 | |
Forum Slut United States 1,447 Posts | Some will, some won't. That's not a Dom/sub thing or a hetero/gay thing, necessarily. You might try a finger. See what reaction you get, then go from there. Maybe you could google prostate milking and get some info? It's not my particular kink, so I'm not sure what the mechanics are. I had a couple of elderly aunts, who would always poke me in the ribs at weddings saying, "You're next" I finally stopped this by doing the same to them, at funerals. | |
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| Baronslair | Posted: 2009-12-31 10:41 | |
Forum Maniac United States 6,698 Posts | It is for me!!.  The Baron | |
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| CaethesEi | Posted: 2009-12-31 12:46 | |
Forum Maniac United States 2,898 Posts | Lots of men, no matter what their orientation, enjoy ass play. Just ask. seeing_purple: I've never talked to him about this (think I might scare him) but sometimes when I'm dominating my guy, I enjoy the thought of fucking him with a dildo or a strap-on or something. But he's a straight guy. Is there such a thing as a heterosexual male who's okay with that? Does anyone have experience with this? | |
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| BabieGothika | Posted: 2009-12-31 18:53 | |
Forum Maniac United States 2,939 Posts | talk to him and just do it -- " Quiero rodearme de cosas hermosas y sentir; cosas hermosas. La vulgaridad, destruye tu alma" | |
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| MissBent | Posted: 2009-12-31 21:57 | |
Forum Regular United States 904 Posts | the ass is just another source of pleasure -- with really no connotations other than those you (or he) decide to ascribe to it. especially for a man. i suspect he'll be swooning so quickly that he won't have time to object. having said that, i have run across a few males over the years who were into that whole "that's an exit only" thang but often changed their minds after some very delicate and surreptitious forays to the forbidden area by me. now these fellers were not my subs -- my boys already know that's coming one way or the other so would be loathe to stop me considering the consequences. -- Some cause happiness wherever they go; others whenever they go. Oscar Wilde If the man doesn't believe as we do, we say he is a crank, and that settles it. I mean, it does nowadays, because now we can't burn him. Mark Twain (Samuel Clemens) --Life is good | |
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| CherryBaby | Posted: 2010-01-01 02:09 | |
Forum Apprentice United States 145 Posts | The prostate gland is most easily accessed through the anus. Stimulating it is very pleasurable. Once I've mentioned the very pleasurable part, the guys I've been with (with the exception of one) have been agreeable to ass play. | |
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| Louloupe | Posted: 2010-01-01 13:57 | |
Forum Maniac United States 23,453 Posts | I've met straight men who won't get fucked in the ass. I don't recall meeting any straight men who don't like getting fucked in the ass. | |
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| Darkeone | Posted: 2010-01-01 14:02 | |
Forum Maniac United States 3,783 Posts | Not to Superfist! -- "I'm not a member of any organized political party, I'm a Democrat!" -- Will Rogers | |
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| submissivemale1917 | Posted: 2010-01-01 14:18 | |
Forum Initiate United Kingdom 10 Posts | I am for the most part straight, but one thing i fantasise about a lot is a female dom sodomizing me. so he might be cool with it, good luck | |
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| DrInTheHouse | Posted: 2010-01-02 08:00 | |
569.42 Moderator  United States 2,697 Posts | seeing_purple: I've never talked to him about this (think I might scare him) but sometimes when I'm dominating my guy, I enjoy the thought of fucking him with a dildo or a strap-on or something. But he's a straight guy. Is there such a thing as a heterosexual male who's okay with that? Does anyone have experience with this? Buttsex is fun. Straight or gay isn't tab A goes into Slot B and Never slot C, but what is the gender of the person putting tab A into etc, etc. I'm a straight switch, tending to top, and I still like having my anus stimulated/played with/whatever. | |
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| chastity_locked | Posted: 2010-01-02 21:10 | |
| Forum Initiate United States 1 Posts | submissivemale1917: I am for the most part straight, but one thing i fantasise about a lot is a female dom sodomizing me. so he might be cool with it, good luck I'm extremely hetero, but I've also fantasized about a Dom female forcing this on me. And it's an appealing fantasy. | |
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| IamZ | Posted: 2010-01-03 06:35 | |
Forum Regular Canada 720 Posts | The sub must work up to it slowly starting with a small plug, then gradually increasing in size. This can take weeks or months depending on the motivation. Men are not used to having things inserted in them so this is often even more taboo (and hence a turn on) psychologically than physically. In my experience it's not *necessarily* a "gay" thing but more an intense curiosity around the feeling of being dominated in this way by men who possess the intellectual capacity to wonder about the domination of the female through as the Doc puts it - inserting A into B or C as the case may be. Finally, it requires patience on the part of the Domme - As women, we understand the shock of first experiences involving penetration. (Many, not all) Doms do not and often feel that their holes are not available for insertion - of any kind in any way. We tend not to brutally *sodomize* the guy unless of course he really wants it that way. Best, Edited by - IamZ on 2010-01-03 06:38:03 Edited by - IamZ on 2010-01-31 07:37:06 | |
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| Louloupe | Posted: 2010-01-03 09:38 | |
Forum Maniac United States 23,453 Posts | IamZ: We tend not to brutally *sodomize* unless of course the sub really wants it that way. Fortunately, even a judicious probing can feel like brutal sodomization if you talk it up enough. | |
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