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 All Forums BDSM Talk and Support BDSM Relationships Can a Dom smell a sub upon first meeting? |  Login to Reply New Topic |  Printer Friendly |
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| alphasub4dom | Posted: 2010-02-08 17:35 | |
Forum Initiate Canada 6 Posts | I'm very new to the D/s lifestyle and when I met my Master it was under vanilla circumstances. The moment I laid eyes on him, there was something that was just undeniable about the attraction I felt towards him. His eyes were beautiful, his features were sculpted, he was simply gorgeous in my eyes... but probably not to everyone. What I'm trying to say is... 2 months later when our "vanilla" relationship was not working out, we both admitted what we really wanted. He told me that He's been in the D/s lifestyle for years and that He's an Alpha Dom, then He goes to tell me that i'm the biggest sub that He's ever met and that He could "smell" me the moment He laid eyes on me. Is that even possible? i've never done anything D/s in my life -- but the moment He said that, it was like i was stepping out of the closet for the first time in my life! i always knew there was something different about me, i just couldn't pin point it, but now i know. i need someone who will dominate me in life, love and in the bedroom and my Master is the one to do that. I feel like the luckiest sub in the world right now.  Comments would be appreciated from Doms and subs alike. | |
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| Pixiegurly | Posted: 2010-02-08 19:04 | |
Forum Apprentice United States 457 Posts | I imagine its somewhat like "gaydar".
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| neo10 | Posted: 2010-02-08 19:46 | |
Forum Maniac United States 8,011 Posts | What is an alpha dom? -- I don't want power to be simply exchanged; I want to rip it from her body ~ HardTop I win, is the bottom line. It is understood from the outset ~ HardTop | |
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| NASHVILLEDOM | Posted: 2010-02-08 21:37 | |
Liberal Dragon Slayer United States 37,102 Posts | What he said does not jive but if its working for you go for it. nd | |
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| Dr_M_E_Pain | Posted: 2010-02-08 23:28 | |
Sadistic.  United States 2,808 Posts | I'll join the ranks of the skeptical here. Otherwise, congratulations! -- About fucking time I changed this. | |
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| Mefisto692 | Posted: 2010-02-09 03:54 | |
Forum Slut United States 1,538 Posts | he smelled your 'wetness' -- We can whip the horses eye.....make her bleed and make her cry from "Tales of the Journeyman" : that's right, it's cold out here....yes...you're naked-get on your knees! Now -smack smack----eat that yellow snow! | |
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| IamZ | Posted: 2010-02-09 04:03 | |
Forum Regular Canada 720 Posts | Pheromones are a wonderful thing. And when it happens it's just so easy - but so rare. I've offered a different twist on this in other threads ... I think Doms can sometimes smell a Domme and occasionally have a very toxic reaction to this. I've been in situations where it's impossible to influence this toxic reaction - no matter how much I may choose to alter my behaviour - in order to have a successful conversation. Best, | |
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| CaethesEi | Posted: 2010-02-09 04:51 | |
Forum Maniac United States 2,896 Posts | IamZ: Pheromones are a wonderful thing. And when it happens it's just so easy - but so rare. I've offered a different twist on this in other threads ... I think Doms can sometimes smell a Domme and occasionally have a very toxic reaction to this. I've been in situations where it's impossible to influence this toxic reaction - no matter how much I may choose to alter my behaviour - in order to have a successful conversation. Best, What a shame, because I bet that in real life, you're as terrific a friend as you are here, on the boards. It is their loss. | |
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| BurntKitty | Posted: 2010-02-09 05:33 | |
God's Ass Muncher United States 20,916 Posts | Can a Dom smell a sub upon first meeting? Try Summer's Eve, Secret and/or Dial body wash. Avoid garlic and holy water. Many domly ones tend to burst into flames if they come into contact with them. Pain:The ultimate in intimacy. | |
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| neo10 | Posted: 2010-02-09 07:33 | |
Forum Maniac United States 8,011 Posts | He could "smell" me the moment He laid eyes on me. This is just an expression to reinforce to you the fact that he is the hunter you are the prey, so he smelt your scent. In reality what he did was pick up on thousands of clues that we all send out and that convey who we are. The way we walk, how we hold our head, do we lower our gaze, do we hide our hands, do we tilt our heads when we speak etc etc. I do think however that there is something in pheromones. I'm not sure you can articulate it as sub or dom, but I believe that you can articulate it as smells right to you. -- I don't want power to be simply exchanged; I want to rip it from her body ~ HardTop I win, is the bottom line. It is understood from the outset ~ HardTop | |
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| DomAss | Posted: 2010-02-09 08:23 | |
Dirty Old Man United States 4,708 Posts | If I smell tuna I get an "emergency" call and get the hell out of there. | |
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| Bananacake | Posted: 2010-02-09 09:30 | |
| Forum Newbie United States 61 Posts | In reality what he did was pick up on thousands of clues that we all send out and that convey who we are. The way we walk, how we hold our head, do we lower our gaze, do we hide our hands, do we tilt our heads when we speak etc etc. Exactly. Our body language gives us away easily to one with an attentive and discerning eye. We can try to alter our behaviors, our mannerisms, but there are always tells that reveal more about us than we ever intend. This extends to all areas of our lives; poker, for example. Stand before your god, bow before your king, kneel before your Man. --Terry Pratchett Edited by - Bananacake on 2010-02-09 09:31:35 | |
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| Patronus_mouse | Posted: 2010-02-09 09:45 | |
Forum Maniac United States 3,522 Posts | BurntKitty: Try Summer's Eve, Secret and/or Dial body wash.
I DO think you're hilarious! | |
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| alphasub4dom | Posted: 2010-02-09 16:53 | |
Forum Initiate Canada 6 Posts | Thank you everyone for your insight and comments. i am certainly looking forward to learning more about how to be a good submissive to my new Master. i look forward to one day being collared by Him -- but i know that that will take some time as this is so new to me. But being a sub is innate in me and hence i hope that it will all come naturally. He has picked up on my mannerism and has on occasion mentioned them to me to make me aware. i am always the first to look away, when i cross my legs, they are always pointed in His direction, i speak softly and rarely get loud (even when i'm upset). | |
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| CaethesEi | Posted: 2010-02-09 20:09 | |
Forum Maniac United States 2,896 Posts | alphasub4dom: Thank you everyone for your insight and comments. i am certainly looking forward to learning more about how to be a good submissive to my new Master. i look forward to one day being collared by Him -- but i know that that will take some time as this is so new to me. But being a sub is innate in me and hence i hope that it will all come naturally. He has picked up on my mannerism and has on occasion mentioned them to me to make me aware. i am always the first to look away, when i cross my legs, they are always pointed in His direction, i speak softly and rarely get loud (even when i'm upset). There's another side to this, in that some dom/mes like the sub to hold the dominant's gaze. For me, very hard to do even when under command to lift my face. I naturally avert my gaze, and lower my eyes. But, I tell ya, there's nothing so wonderful as your dominant forcing you to look at him (or her), and s/he looks back - lovingly. | |
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| Magdalene | Posted: 2010-02-10 05:15 | |
Forum Maniac United States 4,211 Posts | Can a Dom smell a sub upon first meeting? Maybe it depends on whether or not she bathes first? Kelly | |
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