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premadollPosted: 2010-03-11 09:30
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2 Posts		I just recently got into a relationship and FINALLY found someone into BDSM. In all past relationships I have had to hide my fetishes as they were quite boring relationships. My man is from Australia and I'm the US and I need some really GREAT ideas on how to keep this BDSM boy who I believe is into submission on that chain even when we are overseas.... Any ideas?
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IamZPosted: 2010-03-11 09:37
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1,225 Posts		Well I gotta tell ya' - I hate domming from a distance.

Too tedious - and I suspect the little bastard isn't doing what I'm telling him to do anyway.

Just me maybe,
Z

Edited by - IamZ on 2010-03-11 09:38:24

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shahakuPosted: 2010-03-11 11:42
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95 Posts		If you're look for 24/7.. well thats kinda hard even for vanilla relationships.

But a few things to make sure your sub is doing what you want: 1. Webcam 2. Ask for details. If they hesitate assume they didn't do it and are thinking up a lie.(at first it may be embarrassment, but they'll learn quick enough to tell you straight up). Later down the road, hesitation should indicate they didn't do it.

Of course that only applies if they're decietful and don't really want to be doing the "submissive thing". In the end it comes down to trusting them to do what you say, when you say, how you say it. And to come clean if they didn't. If you can't trust them... well thats your problem to reslove.

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NASHVILLEDOMPosted: 2010-03-11 11:56
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38,942 Posts		Get a long chain.

At your age you should be looking for someone/thing real and local.

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LIVE THE LIFESTYLE NOT FOR IT

At the hot one when I remember to check it.

Socialism works until they run out of other peoples money to spend. Margeret Thatcher.
The role of government is not to perfect us but protect us....Sarah Palin p 386)

Edited by - NASHVILLEDOM on 2010-03-11 11:58:41

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master_fritzPosted: 2010-03-11 20:03
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600 Posts		Humm... have your boyz move here or move to your boyz.

Really how are you going to step on his balls with your shoes from remote?

(Cyber / distance sucks)

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BoostPosted: 2010-03-11 21:50
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premadoll:
In all past relationships I have had to hide my fetishes




May I ask why?

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Stainless_SteelPosted: 2010-03-11 22:45
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IamZ:
Well I gotta tell ya' - I hate domming from a distance.


(How are you on subbing from a distance - oh, say to Victoria, BC? LOL)
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IamZPosted: 2010-03-12 04:41
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1,225 Posts		Oooooh Stainless,

Not very good.
I tried doing the *big* switch for a guy last year and only succeeded in terrifying him.
As a sub!? Go figure.

Best to you.
Z

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IamZPosted: 2010-03-12 04:47
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1,225 Posts		Back to the op ...

If you really really want to try domming from a distance, try things that must provide you with a tangible result.

A popular one is to have him write you an erotic story about the two of you, in some exotic locale, doing lovely devious things to one another.

If he's serious - he'll want so desperately to please you that doing a proper job on this will take considerable time and effort.

And the end result is a reward for both of you.

Best,
Z

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TallandOlderPosted: 2010-03-12 19:09
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NASHVILLEDOM:
Get a long chain.

At your age you should be looking for someone/thing real and local.

nd
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LIVE THE LIFESTYLE NOT FOR IT

At the hot one when I remember to check it.

Socialism works until they run out of other peoples money to spend. Margeret Thatcher.
The role of government is not to perfect us but protect us....Sarah Palin p 386)

Edited by - NASHVILLEDOM on 2010-03-11 11:58:41



Does that mean that you think there is an age where someone shouldn't
be looking for "someone/thing real and local"?

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Patronus_mousePosted: 2010-03-13 12:15
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NASHVILLEDOM:
At your age you should be looking for someone/thing real and local.

Why?


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premadollPosted: 2010-03-15 13:10
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2 Posts		Thanks everyone I suppose have two weeks when I head back to Whistler to see him and set him straight on whose in charge here! We are playing it out to see if this will work. All I know is I plan on having a fun 2 weeks up there and I am not talking about the snowboarding either ;D

ON the question of me looking for something real and local. I have been married and prefer to take my chances with someone I know will do as I say and bend what they want for me regardless of where they are. just makes when we are in that room even more crazy and outrageous!

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