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| tied2it | Posted: 2010-03-12 07:14 | |
Forum Apprentice Canada 484 Posts | sort of stolen from a different thread . What are your views on heels ? Do you see them as a dominate feature ? Giving height and a distinct sound when walking ? Are they a submissive gesture to become more visually attractive ,to make movements a bit more difficult ,to attract attention to the wearer ? If i'm not wrong heels are one of the most common male fetishes . what makes heels and feet so appealing to so many ? Is it that in many cultures ( and movies ) that kissing the foot is seen as a sign /symbol of respect and servitude ? If the female in question knows the on lookers have a thing for them is it just about a tease of sorts ? Or is it just how it changes the way a women stands holding out there ass a bit more , and giving there legs a longer look ? It's not just a one sided love affair as there are many women who love them and can't get enough of them . It could be seen as a item that ( for the most part ) is a symbol of feminity . Because they are a unique to women's fashion they stand out much like a dress . What's your take on heels . | |
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| Darkeone | Posted: 2010-03-12 07:40 | |
Forum Maniac United States 4,791 Posts | Heels show off a womans' legs to their best advantage and force a beautiful rolling of the hips when they walk. High heels are also an ultimate form of bondage. They restrict a womans' gait, forcing her to take shorter steps, restrict where she can walk and are usually painful to wear for extended periods of time. For all of the above reasons I like em. -- "I'm not a member of any organized political party, I'm a Democrat!" -- Will Rogers | |
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| IamZ | Posted: 2010-03-12 08:37 | |
Forum Slut Canada 1,225 Posts | I run quite well in heels. But I will take them off if I'm chasing someone around the pond striking his bare bottom with my crop. I run well in bare feet too. What fun! | |
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| FuckingRotter | Posted: 2010-03-12 09:19 | |
Fist of Fury United Kingdom 11,176 Posts | I prefer a shorter woman, so to me the only reason for heels is because I said so. Because they can be uncomfortable. Because she doesn't walk very well in them because she never learnt to. Because if I give her a not so gentle nudge from behind when she wears them, it is all she can do to keep her balance. Because I might just take one of those heels and beat her with it whilst the other one goes up her arse. -- Tony Blair: Cheerio. Homer Simpson: Wow! I can't believe we met Mr Bean! | |
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| Sweet0Submissive | Posted: 2010-03-12 13:23 | |
Forum Regular United States 602 Posts | I'm already tall and I love heels! Specifically because they make my legs legs look even more fantastic but also because I attract shoe fetishists who then buy me shoes and it also takes a lot of superficial, "I can't really be a man if she's taller" types out of the running. Only very confident men will approach me and I love that. In terms of BDSM, they don't throw me off balance and after years of ballet even the highest of submission heels couldn't keep me off balance. The purpose they serve is mostly aesthetic only and I love it perfectly well like that. -- I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman I want to be dominated ...I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding. -Anais Nin | |
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| sire269 | Posted: 2010-03-12 13:39 | |
Forum Initiate United States 5 Posts | oh baby a woman in heels excuse me got to clean myself off lol love those heels | |
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| neo10 | Posted: 2010-03-12 13:41 | |
Forum Maniac  United States 8,756 Posts | Sweet0Submissive: I'm already tall and I love heels! Specifically because they make my legs legs look even more fantastic but also because I attract shoe fetishists who then buy me shoes and it also takes a lot of superficial, "I can't really be a man if she's taller" types out of the running. Only very confident men will approach me and I love that. In terms of BDSM, they don't throw me off balance and after years of ballet even the highest of submission heels couldn't keep me off balance. The purpose they serve is mostly aesthetic only and I love it perfectly well like that. -- I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman I want to be dominated ...I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding. -Anais Nin All of the above! (except the done to death Anais Nin tag line) -- I don't want power to be simply exchanged; I want to rip it from her body ~ HardTop I win, is the bottom line. It is understood from the outset ~ HardTop | |
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| tied2it | Posted: 2010-03-12 18:43 | |
Forum Apprentice Canada 484 Posts | I don't have a fetish for heels but a strong like i guess is a better description . Tied to a chair ,blindfolded and gagged waiting for what seems like hours . Then the clicking of heels coming down the stairs , the sound of foreshadow . The scraping noise as she accidently drags her foot across the cold basement floor . The bright light glaring into my eyes as the blind fold is removed unable to focus my hearing strains for any detail. A sudden jab into my chest tilting me and the chair almost to the point of tipping . My eyes adjust to the light and i see the spiked heel pushing against my chest leaving its mark . I slowly follow the heel leading up to the stocking clad leg of my mistress . Or something like that | |
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| nursediane | Posted: 2010-03-12 20:54 | |
Forum Slut United States 1,918 Posts | Darkeone: Heels show off a womans' legs to their best advantage and force a beautiful rolling of the hips when they walk. High heels are also an ultimate form of bondage. They restrict a womans' gait, forcing her to take shorter steps, restrict where she can walk and are usually painful to wear for extended periods of time. For all of the above reasons I like em. -- "I'm not a member of any organized political party, I'm a Democrat!" -- Will Rogers I will bear that in mind. | |
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| velvetgirl1 | Posted: 2010-03-13 01:44 | |
joyful obedience United States 1,136 Posts | I'm 5'3" tall barefoot. I love heels. I am completely comfortable in a heel of 3". A heel of 4" or 5" is a bit of work for me, and I think He enjoys that. Watching me struggle Knowing the shoe is really one I can only handle for less than 30 minutes seems to delight him. Making me try to maintain some kind of grace in a shoe that is difficult for me... I have 3 pair of such shoes, and I know I look really sexy in them, so sometimes I force myself to wear them because I want to turn him on, knowing it makes his cock hard to see me in them. I know, too, that he loves me to keep them on when he ties me up. I guess he likes the look of me bound still wearing my heels. I know I think it's hot to look down and see them still on my feet (when I'm not blindfolded, that is!). I definitely think they are a sign of femininity. What could possibly be more feminine than a shoe with a heel that forces my ass out in back, my breasts out in front, and makes me a little wobbly? I feel exceptionally sexy when I wear them. Maybe because I know I don't wear them in my everyday life. I am an absolute shoe whore - the more impractical the better. I guess I equate impractibility with submissiveness? Oh, and Rotter? That little shove you described? Not only did I trip and stumble when I read it, I blushed and wet my panties. Very HOT. -- "She makes love just like a woman Yes she does But she breaks just like a little girl." - Dylan | |
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| tied2it | Posted: 2010-03-13 02:38 | |
Forum Apprentice Canada 484 Posts | Is it just me and my fondness for a women in heels , or a reality . No other item of mainstream clothing can produce a look and feel of submission or dominance while still looking appropriate at a fine restaurant or a trip to the mall wearing jeans . The heel can be seen as a sex symbol of sorts or a symbol of sex if you will . women seem to like them , men seem to like to look at them and they can fit in any fashion setting and be low key or very alluring . my wife and i rented a video today (boondock saints ) In one long scene they focused in on a women with spiked heels , exiting a car and walking . I think the scene was around 2 minutes long just focusing on her shoes, walk and lower leg . The women mentioned above was given a role of a powerful women there was no doubt in her character that she was made to be a strong dominate character and the shoe added to the look and feel . Sure it was male eye candy but showing her strut confidently in heels made the viewer ( male viewer at least ) see her as powerful , confident in her sexuality , in control ect... Is this the case or is it just a guy with a shoe thing reading to much into it , and working too many hours ? | |
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| IamZ | Posted: 2010-03-13 03:56 | |
Forum Slut Canada 1,225 Posts | I like to wear them ... In very public situations when I want to drive the men who can't have me crazy. Or - For only the very deserving of men who can. On another note - I tend not to bother with panties - ever. Best, | |
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| C-Ray | Posted: 2010-03-13 04:48 | |
Forum Slut United States 1,682 Posts | Darkeone: Heels show off a womans' legs to their best advantage and force a beautiful rolling of the hips when they walk. High heels are also an ultimate form of bondage. They restrict a womans' gait, forcing her to take shorter steps, restrict where she can walk and are usually painful to wear for extended periods of time. For all of the above reasons I like em. Those are pretty much my reasons. I also like the ankle straps. It tends to make me think of a torture device locked onto her feet. The power of accurate observation is frequently called cynicism by those who don't have it. -- George Bernard Shaw | |
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| BurntKitty | Posted: 2010-03-13 09:51 | |
God's Ass Muncher United States 22,344 Posts | C-Ray: I also like the ankle straps. It tends to make me think of a torture device locked onto her feet. I agree. I have shoes that tie around my ankles that I call my shibari shoes. But, like Z, I find them all comfortable for extended wear (used to wear them all day at work) and can run easily in them. >Note: I'm barely 5'2 in my barefeet. I can wear my 5" heels & his evilness is still taller.< Pain:The ultimate in intimacy. | |
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| Loyal-1 | Posted: 2010-03-13 10:41 | |
smitten United States 4,336 Posts | http://www.pierresilber.com/highheels9.html I love women in heels | |
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| Darkeone | Posted: 2010-03-13 10:54 | |
Forum Maniac United States 4,791 Posts | BurntKitty: C-Ray: I also like the ankle straps. It tends to make me think of a torture device locked onto her feet. I agree. I have shoes that tie around my ankles that I call my shibari shoes. But, like Z, I find them all comfortable for extended wear (used to wear them all day at work) and can run easily in them. >Note: I'm barely 5'2 in my barefeet. I can wear my 5" heels & his evilness is still taller.< A small pebble placed in the toe of one shoe can produce interesting results on an extended shopping trip. -- "I'm not a member of any organized political party, I'm a Democrat!" -- Will Rogers | |
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