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Daddyslilpunkin 47F
3470 posts
2/3/2019 9:54 am

Why do you conceive of it being "weird" that a Dom would show off or use his sub on cam? Perhaps both parties enjoy this act? I know that I personally enjoy the exhibitionist act of being on cam, and I receive pleasure from responding to my Sir's commands. It is an aspect of our enjoyment of each other...and if you find it weird why do you watch?

There are many components of Alt. There are the blogs, the chat rooms, camming, and IM. All of these components are a way to meet people, and engage in getting to know them. The cam component is relatively limited and underused. Perhaps engaging in conversation, like in real life is the best way to meet someone on Alt.

You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.


charlesmartel0 59M

2/3/2019 10:20 am

Just like anyplace online, most of what you find is fake. Personally, I don't see the appeal of the cam whores, and that's not a very likely way to encounter an available one anyway. Almost all the 18-35 or so are just here to exploit your hormones to separate you from a little money. First time a girl mentions needing money and asks for an apple or amazon gift card, tell her to fuck off. You're never going to see that one anyway. If her pictures look "too professional", a reverse google image search will usually return to an internet porn chick. She never plans on you seeing her real face. You'll begin recognizing familiar grammar, and even copypasta in profiles. Check the last time she logged in, there are some stale profiles. All that and more contribute to cynicism, but where are you going to do better? I've seen sites that were 100% pure fraud. Just let the big head think for the little head, and be patient. At your age, you have plenty of time.


Daddyslilpunkin 47F
3470 posts
2/3/2019 10:54 am

    Quoting charlesmartel0:
    Just like anyplace online, most of what you find is fake. Personally, I don't see the appeal of the cam whores, and that's not a very likely way to encounter an available one anyway. Almost all the 18-35 or so are just here to exploit your hormones to separate you from a little money. First time a girl mentions needing money and asks for an apple or amazon gift card, tell her to fuck off. You're never going to see that one anyway. If her pictures look "too professional", a reverse google image search will usually return to an internet porn chick. She never plans on you seeing her real face. You'll begin recognizing familiar grammar, and even copypasta in profiles. Check the last time she logged in, there are some stale profiles. All that and more contribute to cynicism, but where are you going to do better? I've seen sites that were 100% pure fraud. Just let the big head think for the little head, and be patient. At your age, you have plenty of time.
Wise words in what you wrote. Being aware and paying attention to writing styles and vocabulary are a very good way to find the fakes. I also use the questions asked. Many "women" will come into my room when I am on cam and ask if I am bi. This is a HUGE red flag to me, because most women will read a profile prior to engaging. Men, like with Ikea instructions, skip that step and just ask. (yes, that was sexist and a very broad statement, but I own it).

As one of the "Camwhores" you mention, I will say that is how I found my Sir. I cammed and he came into my room. I had seen, ok, I had been creeping him, and was happy to see him. So happy I closed my cam and ran away I was so nervous! But I found him on IM, and like any relationship we chatted a lot before any more steps were made in our relationship.

You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.


Daddyslilpunkin 47F
3470 posts
2/3/2019 12:05 pm

    Quoting  :

As long as I am not one of the "unfortunate desperate types always on cam"....nor "the old bitty that is on a lot, seriously a sorry bitch, and pathetic" you refer to LOL

You did not upset me. I do get offended when I see people in my room watching my shows who then slag or insult the girls on cam. I mean, tbh I have slagged a few myself in my blogs lol..but I am not a viewer or a follower of them

I would also suggest putting a pic up. Any pic. The people without pix, no one takes seriously.

You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.


Just_Kitten 45F  
41 posts
2/3/2019 12:15 pm

I agree with all said here. I think it’s important to say that real subs, who want to serve and be owned are going to be picky. Rightly so. I personally like the chat rooms, it’s great to see how people interact with others, learn about their kinks, and see if you have chemistry.


Daddyslilpunkin 47F
3470 posts
2/3/2019 12:46 pm

    Quoting  :

I don;t know you...but I think I adore you

Aren't all of us subs just waiting at the door like a excited puppy waiting for the perfect nonpicture, arrogant dom to open the door?

You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.


Daddyslilpunkin 47F
3470 posts
2/3/2019 1:18 pm

    Quoting  :

but I think you are missing the obvious. Whomever these "hot subs" are you are referencing that are taken...they are taken cause the Dom spoke to them, spent time, got to know them. Us "taken" subs did not arrive on Alt as such. We met our Dom's here. (well some of us). So in fact that answers your question: yes, you can find a partner on Alt.

What we are all telling you is, change your profile, put up a pic, venture into other areas of alt. You have to engage. Even us girls on cam, want to know who you are...we want to know something about you. We want an image. You have to engage in conversation.

Yes, we are being sassy...but walking into Alt, and then presuming you will find someone right away seems a little...well arrogant.

You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.


Daddyslilpunkin 47F
3470 posts
2/3/2019 1:21 pm

    Quoting  :

I count my blessings every single day that I receive a message from a "dom" who can't be bothered to read my profile, who thinks I will instantaneously serve him, and who insults me if I don't submit....
It's truly amazing how we can go from the hottest thing ever to a fat, ugly, bitch in mere seconds when we do not as commanded by a rando! My whole self esteem rests upon how they respond to me!

You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.


olderdaddyforyou 68M

2/3/2019 2:00 pm

I don't make a habit of viewing men's profiles but I did view yours controler and I must say....you will never meet anyone with a blank profile and a silhouette for a pic.
I would suggest taking sub_nouveau's tongue in cheek sarcasm and punkin's words of advice and use it as a lesson learned. Yes there are some real subs on here and maybe if you take some advice you will someday meet one of your own.

BTW I did meet a submissive on here years ago under a different screen name. Unfortunately she had to move because of family issues so here I am again.
I guess good luck, you will need it, is all I can say.


Daddyslilpunkin 47F
3470 posts
2/3/2019 4:33 pm

    Quoting  :

wow now that is a love story! You married her and met here? Awwww This is a post that I love

You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.


Daddyslilpunkin 47F
3470 posts
2/3/2019 5:07 pm

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But I can;t help I'm adorably sassy and flirty!!! Sorry sir...well not really cause you chuckled. xxx

You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.


Daddyslilpunkin 47F
3470 posts
2/4/2019 1:48 pm

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Who is the guy acting like a chick on here? I'm confused sorry....

You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.


Eientsumi 33M

2/4/2019 10:37 pm

    Quoting  :

My thought on vlad :

He spends probably 1-2 hours a day racking up points to get Alt gold membership. Alt currently costs $12.50 a month. That means Vlad's time is worth an average of 21-41 cents an hour. The average male lives 669,264 hours, and thus his life is worth approximately $137,199.12 to $274,398.24. If you want to only consider working life span (starting at 18 years old), his life becomes worth $104,874.72 to $209,749.44.

In any case, I know yet am completely unable to understand the mentality that people should bow before you when you walk in the room. All my life I was taught that to outsiders, I will always be a zero. Doesn't matter if I'm the smartest person or most handsome, people will not bow to me if I don't earn the respect first. Even then, the people who truly care about you will be family and maybe a few select close friends. My dad always taught me that only when you are in financial need will you find out who your true friends are.


SquirtMasterQ 57M
837 posts
2/15/2019 8:13 pm

    Quoting  :

Perhaps you should fucking know what you are talking about before you insult my sub, you fucking cunt!
It's morons like you who blames everyone else because you cannot find someone here because of the way you come out making accusing statements about women you don't even know! sub_nouveau has the best female attributes to offer, something a moron like you will never ever get to try. Why don't you go fuck a guy because clearly your attitude will never draw you to a real woman or any woman for that matter! Now fuck off and leave my princess sub-nouveau alone.


SquirtMasterQ 57M
837 posts
2/15/2019 8:14 pm

BT you are a fucking 24YO moron, why don't you go back and suck on some more maternal tits before you start shooting your mouth off!

Perhaps you should fucking know what you are talking about before you insult my sub, you fucking cunt!
It's morons like you who blames everyone else because you cannot find someone here because of the way you come out making accusing statements about women you don't even know! sub_nouveau has the best female attributes to offer, something a moron like you will never ever get to try. Why don't you go fuck a guy because clearly your attitude will never draw you to a real woman or any woman for that matter! Now fuck off and leave my princess sub-nouveau alone.


Eientsumi 33M

2/16/2019 10:45 pm

    Quoting  :

You know, my personal thought was that SquirtMasterQ's response was an overreaction, but your response made you appear like a complete ass, especially with those unfounded and inflammatory accusations. You should have let this thread die, and that would have been that. Or at least keep your response civil and polite. But nope, in saying you are not a moron with an extremely inflammatory post, you have just made yourself appear like an even bigger moron.


Eientsumi 33M

2/17/2019 10:39 am

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Yep, continue destroying whatever goodwill you might have had in this community. Just remember you did this to yourself.

And also, good luck finding yourself a sub when you continue to prove that you are just an immature brat.


CawintShard 68M

2/19/2019 10:18 pm

    Quoting Daddyslilpunkin:
    As long as I am not one of the "unfortunate desperate types always on cam"....nor "the old bitty that is on a lot, seriously a sorry bitch, and pathetic" you refer to LOL

    You did not upset me. I do get offended when I see people in my room watching my shows who then slag or insult the girls on cam. I mean, tbh I have slagged a few myself in my blogs lol..but I am not a viewer or a follower of them

    I would also suggest putting a pic up. Any pic. The people without pix, no one takes seriously.
They apparently love to be on cam. It fulfills a need, a passion. Really, people should be free to live for the moment. I am not sure who you quoted first on this post. The name is no longer visible. It seems disparaging remarks were made. AS you point out, "unfortunate desperate types' is rather disparaging. Thanks for bringing that to the forefront.


CawintShard 68M

2/19/2019 10:19 pm

    Quoting  :

I like your remark.


CawintShard 68M

2/19/2019 10:21 pm

    Quoting Daddyslilpunkin:
    I don;t know you...but I think I adore you

    Aren't all of us subs just waiting at the door like a excited puppy waiting for the perfect nonpicture, arrogant dom to open the door?
"I don;t know you...but I think I adore you" ; that is a precious moment and statement! Good for you!


CawintShard 68M

2/19/2019 10:23 pm

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Let us not forget Bay City Rollers!


CawintShard 68M

2/19/2019 10:25 pm

    Quoting  :

Whatever you told her, it must be very good advice.


Daddyslilpunkin 47F
3470 posts
2/21/2019 4:02 am

    Quoting CawintShard:
    They apparently love to be on cam. It fulfills a need, a passion. Really, people should be free to live for the moment. I am not sure who you quoted first on this post. The name is no longer visible. It seems disparaging remarks were made. AS you point out, "unfortunate desperate types' is rather disparaging. Thanks for bringing that to the forefront.
I think anyone who goes on cam should not be disparaged. It takes courage to do so. Yes, one can presume that people who do cam are fulfilling a need, like exhibitionism...but there are downsides as well. Men will tell you every detail about yourself which is not "perfect." Many will over compliment and that is some next level bullshit. We all use Alt to fulfill various needs and we should not be horrible to each other. If the person on cam is not to your liking move to another cam, or another cam site and find what you like.
Now, as you know I have some issues and concerns about some of the women on cam who have just created an unfounded gossip mill, or how camming has become a way of life for some...but again that is their choice.
No one is perfect, and we should acknowledge those who do cam here, and not be cruel.

You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.


Daddyslilpunkin 47F
3470 posts
2/21/2019 4:04 am

    Quoting CawintShard:
    Whatever you told her, it must be very good advice.
And obviously advice not taken LOL.

You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.


TheGentleD0M 55M
4082 posts
2/24/2019 2:49 pm

Your post has been Calculus'd .

Calculus
- v, to apply a process that results in a derivative.

An etching, an innocuous little riff on your topic may be found here ( <--- eventually a link will form back there).

Good post, and ... thanks for writing.


tgd


_brie_ 62F
20135 posts
2/26/2019 8:11 pm

Alt was one of the early meeting places for people in the scene about 10-25 years ago. Their poor customer support and not giving a rats ass about TOS resulted in a mass exodus and no one bothered to turn off the lights. Clean up your profile to make it appealing to those of interest. And then, copy and paste it elsewhere.

Planet Earth: The insane asylum of the universe.


shrimpo 41F
3 posts
2/27/2019 12:23 pm

Try and retry , you will get there.


shrimpo 41F
3 posts
2/27/2019 12:24 pm

face to face


Sucker4Ever 112M
6750 posts
3/3/2019 7:11 pm

You cannot be here unless you are here. You cannot leave here, until you are no longer here.

“Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.”



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