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sagelostprophet2 70M
76 posts
3/5/2021 4:29 am
Is IM (Instant Messenger) working for you?

Is IM (Instant Messenger) working for you? Please could as many people as possible answer. It only takes a second.
Never (for last few days)
I get answers only sometimes
People answer always
I get too many messages and it works too well


useme111971 53M/42F
12 posts
3/5/2021 5:02 pm

No it is very unreliable.


Peanni_au 60M
195 posts
3/5/2021 5:40 pm

as a standard member alt charges 10 points to send a message. There is no guarantee that the person you are sending the message too is online or will reply yet 10 points is still deducted.

If I look at my friends list it shows there statues whether they are online or IM, yet when I go to IM they are not there even though my friends list say they are on IM

I have stopped sending messages, if I am certain that my point wills not be wasted.


Daniellelv 58T  
13 posts
3/6/2021 12:54 am

that's why if I'm not in a chatroom chances are I'm not online. I always get a response cause I IM those in a chatroom.


Rabenschnabel 59M
66 posts
3/6/2021 12:58 am

This messenger is from the stone age, and does not work any time good


hole2021 47M

3/6/2021 1:34 am

It must be down. Messages go through but there is no one there, but it still costs 10 points to find out it isnt working.


looking4fat 72T

3/6/2021 4:03 am

i never even try to use it. Even way back when i first joined (over 5 years ago) it was unreliable. And now they "charge" points to use it.

Frankly, i would rather spend my hard earned points on becoming someone's "fan" so that we can email each other.

My "gurl name" is Kate Coxuker. It is who i am and what i do.


asstorturer_B 57M
44 posts
3/6/2021 6:41 am

Dieser Messenger ist Mist, Standard Mirglieder können zB. neue Profile nicht anschreiben im IM heisst es, aber wenn man es doch tut bekommt man 10 Punkte abgezogen.
Das ist ja echt wie man mit einem Einarmigen Banditen spielt.


DerTaborit 55M
53 posts
3/6/2021 6:46 am

Shit Messenger, Points for nothing


OlderMaster2018 74M
301 posts
3/7/2021 3:46 am

It seems as always. . . .we pay . . but do not necessarily get !


binkinky 60M
32 posts
3/7/2021 7:13 am

Chat is not working at all. Alt charges 10 points for just trying to establish a chat with another alt member. That's not fair!


binkinky 60M
32 posts
3/7/2021 7:45 am

    Quoting  :

Yup, you're so right.


binkinky 60M
32 posts
3/7/2021 7:48 am

    Quoting looking4fat:
    i never even try to use it. Even way back when i first joined (over 5 years ago) it was unreliable. And now they "charge" points to use it.

    Frankly, i would rather spend my hard earned points on becoming someone's "fan" so that we can email each other.
What is the reason to charge 10 points for chat?


binkinky 60M
32 posts
3/7/2021 7:50 am

    Quoting hole2021:
    It must be down. Messages go through but there is no one there, but it still costs 10 points to find out it isnt working.
Why don't we get the points back for an unsuccessful attempt to chat with another member?


gibb 73M/71F  
44 posts
3/7/2021 3:45 pm

Alt's whole platform is so 90's. I know, because I have been a member that long. This is my 3rd profile , and I have had this one since 2002. The early ones were corrupted, and in those days Alt had customer service that actually worked. In my opinion the IM sucked since they added it.


Sklavengestuet 63M/58F
17 posts
3/7/2021 11:23 pm

The Alt Messenger is a Joke


Meli_neu 26F
5 posts
3/7/2021 11:57 pm

IM is a never ending story


Dom4petrboughsub 60M

3/8/2021 1:43 am

I get lots, but all the same bullshit scripted messages. Is there even one real woman on here? Or all russian guys with fake accounts looking for money?


Rattenfaengerxxx 59M
143 posts
3/8/2021 3:31 am

Its always a annoyance, the points just slip away.
No answers in the IM and the support is sleeping well around the time


daisymaytv 61T
93 posts
3/8/2021 6:01 am

Stop whinging. At least you know IM sucks better than the fake women who have profiles on here.


chessney9 61M
4 posts
3/8/2021 6:46 am

It’s a white platform that just frustrates and wastes people’s time! Please sort and bring it up to date and truly useable! With so many other free platforms, you must surely be losing out on attracting people to the site??


LawtownDL 41M

3/8/2021 9:49 am

Few people are actually online, the results are fluffed. Getting a reply is a rare delight


kittydomme4 36F

3/8/2021 12:09 pm

This site has been so bad I moved to skype ...see my blog


blamcam 54M
6 posts
3/8/2021 2:33 pm

I never feel that I can rely on IM's here or over on Bondage.com really tbh, I prefer to chat using messages or better still, via cam - but cam has the most serious issues at the moment as the chat box is greyed-when viewing other members brodcasted cams!

(though not for yourself on your own cam, which sadly and unfairly completely hides the problem from people who aren't used to much chat.)

I made a poll on the current broadcasting bug myself (here in the magazine and in my blog), though it doesn't appear to be up yet.

Re all these current bugs (I know someone who is having sign-in issues too), people of hoping the disclaimer's 'software updating' will actually come noticeably good this time, and alt will finally be at least at the functionality level of AdultFriendFinder!


OlderMaster2018 74M
301 posts
3/9/2021 2:58 am

I have reported this to Customer Services . . "we are aware and will investigate" . . . . .I doubt that but have tried . . . . . !


Painterman000 64M

3/9/2021 3:46 am

it looks like they only work during the week during office hours..
too bad site is going for cash..


daddy4yngr 76M

3/9/2021 6:02 am

It is not working for me here at all.


fuku19 64M

3/9/2021 3:19 pm

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fuku19 64M

3/9/2021 3:21 pm

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Wicked_Tongue 62M
690 posts
3/10/2021 1:42 am

I got a similar message about 2 years ago.... maybe 3 now...

It's still effing shite!


Bisissy81 43M
18 posts
3/11/2021 8:34 am

Its shocking it never works


Michael_020214 55M  
3 posts
3/11/2021 7:31 pm

IM doesn’t work at all. Must have sent 100 IM’s in last 3 days and not even one respond. Such bullshit.


Michael_020214 55M  
3 posts
3/11/2021 7:33 pm

Doesn’t work at all


Michael_020214 55M  
3 posts
3/11/2021 7:33 pm

Doesn’t work at all. Period


livcat1000 34F
71 posts
3/12/2021 1:02 am

Nope...it doesn't work for me. Maybe on a different browser it might work?


transpeg70 41M
39 posts
3/12/2021 7:15 am

Alt have the Corona Virus and got infected


daddy4yngr 76M

3/13/2021 5:08 pm

IM sucks for sure !!!!


Suzieq96 68M

3/13/2021 7:43 pm

BDSM’s IM is terrible. For what the company charges in fees this is not acceptable. Get off your ass and fix this now. Just because we’re on a porn site is no reason to treat us like crap!


Bound2Please84 54M
33 posts
3/14/2021 8:22 pm

I’m a standard member and find that when I am on my tablet or other mobile device the IM will rarely deliver my message 1/99 times. It will still take the points but will never say “message delivered”. When I’m on my pc I have a much better success rate. Like 60/40.


ajet70 54M
43 posts
3/15/2021 4:49 pm

This messenger is not even a bad joke .... The operators should be ashamed of themselves


jesgirl 35F

3/15/2021 7:05 pm


baddaddy4yngr 76M

3/19/2021 2:11 am

Am having a hard time making it work


NastynLvnDom 56M

3/19/2021 6:41 am

it is spotty at best


janet2bhad 65T
168 posts
3/19/2021 11:56 am

I am guessing that the vote says it all. lol


2old2run 71M
344 posts
3/19/2021 1:19 pm

But then I am not aloud to use IM.
Mistress has said no IM And she mean it.


justenough1217 40M
9 posts
3/19/2021 8:48 pm

No, it sucks.


gibb 73M/71F  
44 posts
3/25/2021 3:26 pm

Funnily enough it worked for me today.


etresoumissexuel 61M
171 posts
3/26/2021 3:47 am


singledad71966 58M
11 posts
3/28/2021 10:22 am

It sucks. There are men I try to IM and men that try to IM me and we don't get them. we have to get a private chat room to talk


sickonez85 39M

3/29/2021 7:09 am

i know the whole point system is meant to make you just get gold...but honestly 90% of the time IM doesn;t work or disconnects mid convo or whatever so why the hell would i want to spend my money on gold for the same problems?.


manni_pr 52T
2788 posts
3/30/2021 2:04 pm

Waste of points and time so far


Humiliatingwomen 66M
7 posts
3/31/2021 7:57 am

I'm a standard member so get charged 10pts for each message sent. I get approximately 1 reply for every 5 messages sent, so that means 50pts to speak to one person. It sucks.


Kinkyguy462 44M

4/1/2021 10:05 pm

Perhaps the point of the IM is to be a constant cock block lol


sissy_in_frills 39T

4/2/2021 6:06 pm

Aside from the issue of people showing online for 20 minutes after they've logged out I've generally found the IM to be pretty reliable.

Most of the complaints seem to come from people not getting a reply to messages. It costs 10 points to reply, I'm not going to spend that sending the same message out repeatedly "No, if you'd read my profile I'm really not into that".

90% of messages I get are older men starting off by telling me what they're going to do to me. I ignore them, because I'm really not into old men with daddy issues and no idea about consent, and then without fail I get another message ten minutes later insulting me.

It's not IM that's not working, it's your pickup technique.


EatAP3ach 43M

4/3/2021 3:19 pm

Works....freezes....doesn't work....no points....a day on ALT


solelicker12133 72M
24 posts
4/6/2021 8:11 am

As a standard member, you never know if it works or not.


slaveRam4MsM 43M
180 posts
4/6/2021 12:04 pm

It's not working past few months...



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