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RinBoots 71 F
29 Articles
Score 0.0
Anyone there!   5/10/2024

So out of date it’s not worth posting anything. Need to have a complete rethink on the whole Magazine.


0 Comments, 18 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
Cangfax 51 M
4 Articles
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my asshole   5/5/2024

After haveing a look at my asshole, do you think you would fuck it?


1 Comments, 94 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
banddguy2020 64 M
1 Article
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What to do about the fakers?   12/4/2023

I am wondering how many others here find that there are oh so many time wasting fakes around. The number of times I engage with a woman for the first time, for the chat to become quite deep, apparently building rapport. Then, 'pop' she disappears never to respond again. The process can take a few hours or days but my estimate is 95% of chats end this way yet the 'person' behind ...


4 Comments, 28 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
Springfiel117 44 M
18 Articles
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Meh   10/10/2023

When did the messenger stop letting new members message people using points?


1 Comments, 19 Views, 16 Votes ,1.51 Score
yearningforMdom 68 F
3 Articles
Score 0.5
the nature of this site   2/10/2023

Members make this site. The behavior of members either attract more members or offend people until they lose interest and move to another site. Most people want to be honest and seek to find others who are like minded. Some become members to purposely create chaos, confusion, and enmity among site users. I encourage you to be honest. When you feel you are scammed, spammed, misled, to report to ...


5 Comments, 55 Views, 22 Votes ,3.85 Score
Dom4dayzz 42 M
6 Articles
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Site dead   12/6/2022

Why is the most recent post here over 2 weeks old?? That's pathetic


1 Comments, 41 Views, 35 Votes ,1.48 Score
obedientboy56 57 M
5 Articles
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How Do You Tell Someone Your Kinks?   11/20/2022

Say you're in a new relationship. How do you let the other person know about your kinks?


2 Comments, 54 Views, 33 Votes ,1.40 Score
WhiteDom4BlacFem 49 M
24 Articles
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I revisit the Naughty 90's (Keep rocking!!)   8/17/2022

Lollapalooza. <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> I can hardly remember many things I did during my time attending concerts, but some were more delicious than others. <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> For a time, in the early 90's; I followed the Grateful Dead (gratefully before the passing of Jerry Garcia). During those shows the ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 27 Votes ,1.56 Score
jthpbigck84 37 M
5 Articles
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Always   7/14/2022

Is it me or does some other men are always hard most of the day. Sometimes i feel I cant control this beast!


1 Comments, 46 Views, 30 Votes ,1.57 Score
saraLeeds 25 F
1 Article
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Help 4 Helps Sake   5/13/2022

My name is sara brown and i class myself as a trained House Slave, trained by Don Brown, a member of Alt for decades but now rarely appears but still has the Domestic Discipline UK room. <br><br> He trained me for almost 18 months and i learnt and recorded lots. Any newbie girl sub/slave needing help or advice, please do not hesitate to ask, its what i am on ...


8 Comments, 195 Views, 41 Votes ,3.00 Score
girliegirl4U2 62 F
1 Article
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Needing advice   4/13/2022

A few years ago, I was messaging a guy on site, he asked for my number and not understanding what can be discovered through a cell number, I gave him mine. He wanted to meet, and I was amenable, I made arrangements to meet, and we were texting when he suddenly called me a liar, I had not lied, then up pops my full name and address? I was scared, I don't know if his photo or anything he had ...


4 Comments, 101 Views, 23 Votes ,2.08 Score
WhiteDom4BlacFem 49 M
24 Articles
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Words have meaning: Shibari is not Sadistic Rope   3/2/2022

I suppose all things are relative; if you allow them to be. <br><br> I have a new slave that wrote down that she is curious about being a bottom to a rigger. She used terms found online or in some , but had never been a model nor had she seen a rigger work. So, it was left to to be a teacher for a few moments and I don't like teaching anything to anyone anymore. ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 27 Votes ,1.45 Score
barryj43 81 M
24 Articles
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Followed members   2/19/2022

Does anyone know how to delete guys you started following but find they are no longer of interest or have left the site.


2 Comments, 47 Views, 26 Votes ,1.52 Score
fares70 47 M
10 Articles
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most dangerous enemies   1/8/2022

Good evening everyone, and I hope those who read my blog will be admired. Today we are talking about the transformations of the Corona Virus, Covid-, the disease that has baffled the world and scientists. The mystery of the mutant has become. The emerging corona virus disease has become every year a new mutant with different names. Mutate and does a new mutant appear every year with a new name? ...


1 Comments, 26 Views, 19 Votes ,1.94 Score
fares_mohamed772 47 M
3 Articles
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most dangerous enemies   1/8/2022

Good evening everyone, and I hope those who read my blog will be admired. Today we are talking about the transformations of the Corona Virus, Covid-, the disease that has baffled the world and scientists. The mystery of the mutant has become. The emerging corona virus disease has become every year a new mutant with different names. Mutate and does a new mutant appear every year with a new name? ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 19 Votes ,2.20 Score
mostlyharmless42 60 M
2 Articles
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Calling out false profiles   11/27/2021

Everyone here knows that alt is overrun both by people using photographs that are not of them, and by people running scams. Often both at the same time. Alerting other members that a profile seems questionable isn't a bad thing- I have done it myself. What's troublesome is a few people that seem to spend hours a day launching constant attacks on just about every new profile that shows . I ...


5 Comments, 81 Views, 28 Votes ,2.52 Score
fares70 47 M
10 Articles
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With the cold season, Corona waves began to increase in numbers   11/22/2021

My dear friends, thank you all to everyone who read my blog. I have been away from you for a long time and came back today to write again about the topic of the virus that has baffled the world, the Corona virus and its developments. The world is around from morning experiences. Disease is a reality and will not disappear. It will exist like any disease such as heart, diabetes, etc. etc. I wrote ...


2 Comments, 29 Views, 17 Votes ,1.43 Score
jtpbigthrob21 39 M
5 Articles
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what do you do?   9/8/2021

what do you do to get around the crappy messenger and the lack of assistance on this website?


1 Comments, 38 Views, 17 Votes ,1.99 Score
jthpbigck69 39 M
5 Articles
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How do you deal?   8/12/2021

How do you deal with this website being as insufferable as its been?


5 Comments, 41 Views, 20 Votes ,1.21 Score
JTP84HUGE1 39 M
5 Articles
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What to do?   7/26/2021

What do people usually do on here when the messenger tends to act dumb and not messages?


0 Comments, 22 Views, 14 Votes ,1.06 Score
barryj43 81 M
24 Articles
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Can a sadist and a masacist change roles   7/4/2021

I ran into a sub on this site who started to tell me how a play session with him would go. I am wondering if it 's possible that a top can be a masacist and a bottom a sadist. Could the top then dominate the bottom to fulfill his need to be hurt and if a sub would be able to fulfill his duties as a slave / submissive. <br><br> [/SIZE]...


3 Comments, 52 Views, 20 Votes
slaveyearning 43 F
36 Articles
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sugar daddy ??? help !   5/12/2021

please help me someone <br><br> I need some advice. I have a man wanting to be my . I have to admit the idea is just a little more than intriguing. <br><br> what he wants from me is unlimited sex, I mean any hole he wants, two or three times a month and he said he will be very generous. <br><br> well I have not said no yet. we have had lunch twice and talked ...


4 Comments, 118 Views, 24 Votes ,1.20 Score
JTHPBIGONE69 39 M
5 Articles
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Should or Not   4/7/2021

Should I hooked up with a neighbor is married and been giving me hints?


3 Comments, 31 Views, 11 Votes ,0.36 Score
db780 65 M
5 Articles
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Old photos and videos   2/10/2021

My wife died a few years ago now. I have watched the videos we made together many times since and looked at the photographs. Now, what to do with them, I have copied some onto an encrypted memory stick, and edited the videos down to just a few seconds of the best bits and put them on the stick as well. I have destroyed the originals, the photos were prints, the videos were VHS. I felt sad doing ...


0 Comments, 56 Views, 19 Votes ,0.49 Score
daddy2_fuk_u 64 M
3 Articles
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Favourite sex toy   1/30/2021

What's your favourite sex toy? Either for yourself or for using on others.


0 Comments, 21 Views, 11 Votes ,1.67 Score
mostlyharmless42 60 M
2 Articles
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Alternative payment methods   11/21/2020

I and considering returning to paying status after a long time without, but I have a question-if anyone has an answer it would be appreciated. I don't use plastic and refuse to give any corporate entity open access to my accounts since almost everyone has the clause stating they will auto renew you unless you remember the date to cancel a year from now. Does anyone know if a prepaid credit ...


6 Comments, 70 Views, 19 Votes ,1.28 Score
looking4realslv 47 M
3 Articles
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social distance   6/22/2020

It is getting harder for people to hold to the social distancing, the longer this goes.


1 Comments, 17 Views, 10 Votes ,1.39 Score
2newtoit 57 M
73 Articles
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thongs   6/6/2020

i don/t know why but i was given a pink thong to wear today, this has been most uncomfortable feeling like a strin g in my crack all day while working.any ideas about getting used to it or is this always going to feel like this.now i have to go put on the dress that i've been given, hope it fits


8 Comments, 120 Views, 44 Votes ,0.04 Score
fares70 47 M
10 Articles
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God, remove the calamity and the epidemic   5/8/2020

The third chapter is one of the most dangerous enemies of humankind, because of the danger of disease for humanity. Can we help answer the basic questions that will come to mind? Is this virus from human makers? As for the creator, there are many questions. What is a biological war? We see some accusations between some countries that I see as a seasonal disease. Like the flu, it appears in the ...


1 Comments, 29 Views, 19 Votes ,0.88 Score
slaves_Daddy20 47 M
2 Articles
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New normal   4/25/2020

What do you think the new normal will be once this settles down? Will it be anything close to the way it used to be?


0 Comments, 7 Views, 6 Votes ,0.80 Score
moreplz02 46 M
1 Article
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Free Gold   4/6/2020

Wouldn't it be nice if ALT gave everyone a free one-month gold membership to encourage us all to stay home right now and talk online? Or maybe to just drop for a month?


0 Comments, 10 Views, 6 Votes ,0.80 Score
MistressAnnDou13 58 F
1 Article
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Writing on a Sub's Body   2/11/2020

Supplies You In order to write words on your slave, all you are markers, an eyeliner pencil, lipstick, or any other writing tool. These tools will allow for writing on the skin, and they can then be washed off after a scene. In cases, you might ask the slave not wash the words off, and to ensure this to be the case, you might use permanent markers, which will wash off, but not immediately. ...


8 Comments, 150 Views, 67 Votes ,1.75 Score
prestonsub16 32 M
6 Articles
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Spot the fake Dommes...   1/4/2020

Any members were around a few years ago might remember how badly the IM was plagued with fake profiles. By fake profiles, I mean ones where the member is using a fake alias to get your personal information and/or . While the plague has relatively subsided, here are some signs that your chatty new friend might be a scammer, specifically dominant female profiles that target the male subs that make ...


8 Comments, 147 Views, 44 Votes ,1.01 Score
intrinsic_heed 55 M
4 Articles
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Happy Submissive Saturday   12/7/2019

To all the kittens, brats littles, subs & slaves, make a subtle effort, be a beacon by gracefully catching the attention of your prospective Doms/Dommes. The World of the Contemporary Populous/Vanilla can be murky at best most of the time, polluted with dime-store-Doms/Dommes, self perceived intrinsic submissives and a whole lot of ethnocentric hypocrisy & scrutiny. Because of this, it ...


1 Comments, 26 Views, 17 Votes ,2.56 Score
MastROfPupets 57 C
14 Articles
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Request of all ALT users, Boycott further payments to ALT until site is fixed.   11/1/2019

A growing number of ALT users have a request of everybody who uses this website. <br><br> The request is to All ALT users, to Boycott further payments to ALT until site is fixed. <br><br> Here is a Poll where 19 people have voted in favor of the boycott. <br><br> Do you agree that all Gold and Silver members should cancel any further payments? Do you agree that all Gold and Silver members should cancel any further ...


9 Comments, 141 Views, 51 Votes ,2.90 Score
karen_is_curious 27 F
5 Articles
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Cheating   11/1/2019

Is anyone else there actively pursing this life style while cheating on their spouse? Was just looking with others are in that situation and how they deal with it.


15 Comments, 198 Views, 71 Votes ,3.68 Score
4rwl233 43 M
14 Articles
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looking for new site   10/20/2019

this has gone over the top we need to find something new this site keeping charging everyone points for just chatting


8 Comments, 91 Views, 32 Votes ,3.15 Score
bicurman4344 42 M
11 Articles
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Points   10/5/2019

I need points


0 Comments, 3 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
bicurman4344 42 M
11 Articles
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Points   9/26/2019

Just posting for points


1 Comments, 4 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
bicurman4344 42 M
11 Articles
Score 0.0
Points   9/26/2019

Just posting for points


0 Comments, 7 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
bicurman4344 42 M
11 Articles
Score 0.0
Points   9/26/2019

Just posting for points


0 Comments, 1 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
MastROfPupets 57 C
14 Articles
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ALL ALT USERS BE AWARE OF CURRENT SITE FAULTS.   9/24/2019

ALL ALT USERS BE AWARE OF CURRENT SITE FAULTS. <br><br> Here are a list of Polls you can find in the community section, that clearly show there are many serious issues with the site. <br><br> Not only are services failing but over charging on credit cards is occurring for users who pay for gold or silver membership. <br><br> False advertising is occurring on ...


19 Comments, 285 Views, 90 Votes ,2.38 Score
knott4milfs 30 M
13 Articles
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when   9/2/2019

i been looking for someone to meet. a woman that is into the most dirty kinky stuff you can find.... its good to bring your kinky side so you can share with other and get to meet new people that are into new thing there alot of other woman there that are into very nasty kinky stuff but too shy to speak .....


2 Comments, 24 Views, 13 Votes ,3.14 Score
AlexDomBBC 55 M
6 Articles
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The Biggest Mistake a Kinkster Can Make   8/9/2019

One mistake many people make when first experimenting with BDSM is relying on one person to show them the way. Even if they do have your best interest at heart (and they might not), it can be limiting to only have one perspective on something that is so multidimensional, says Thorn. Instead, seek out books, workshops, meet-ups, mentors, friends, message boards, and more to find a safe ...


7 Comments, 225 Views, 44 Votes ,3.60 Score
AlexDomBBC 55 M
6 Articles
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THE REAL   7/7/2019

A REAL Master will not boast about his "greatness" but will show you. A REAL Master has no need to shout, scream, or yell but can command attention with a whisper. A REAL Master has character and by His actions shows He is worthy regardless of whether or not He is in BDSM. A REAL Master abides by a code of Honor. A REAL Master understands He is not perfect and will make ...


7 Comments, 83 Views, 21 Votes ,4.24 Score
marye210 25 F
1 Article
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I need a sex Patnar   6/5/2019

Same routine is over I’m getting sick and tired of the same bullshit routine with my husband every . I need a different cock to pound my ass all night long because this same shit every is literally killing . I’m so stressed that my love life is this messed up.Contact Here:http://alt.com


1 Comments, 9 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
midmodude4 54 M
4 Articles
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OK, So now what?   4/21/2019

Say you find someone on here you have a connection with, "seem" legit and all. Anyone who has been successful in meeting someone on here, what was the first step for you to move things to the next level?


0 Comments, 3 Views, 0 Votes
newaccnt 47 M
1 Article
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Fakes   2/14/2019

Seems like there should be a helpful list of finding fake accounts since there are a lot on here. Or least tips on how to notice one. <br><br> There are a lot of signs. 1. If they are from Aldershot, United Kingdom <br><br> 2. If they don't know how you use the word "I" as in "I am a fake" and put "Am a fake"


2 Comments, 13 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
QHUTEKARINA 31 F
1 Article
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Positive words to describe yourself:   12/26/2018

Positive words to describe yourself: 1. Able <br><br> I am able to handle multiple tasks on a daily basis. <br><br> 2. Creative I use a creative approach to problem solve. <br><br> 3. Dependable I am a dependable person who is great at time management. <br><br> 4. Energetic I am always energetic and eager to learn new skills. <br><br> 5. ...


1 Comments, 6 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
Peg_Me_Please89 30 M
4 Articles
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How To Be Successful With Chat   11/4/2018

Has anyone had much success with chat? I currently don't have gold, and probably won't until I relocate to a bigger city, so in the mean time chat is really the only way to communicate. However, most messages never get read, and if they do people usually don't reply. When you can't read the person's profile it is hard to be unique since you don't really have anything to ...


4 Comments, 55 Views, 25 Votes ,3.91 Score
frankhands4u 63 M
6 Articles
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Q&A to a Dom   8/11/2018

I will try and take your questions one at a time: <br><br> What do you want from your submissive? Well the want is where we meet in the middle. What I seek from my submissive is movement through reflection and action. We move together. I have found some who do not truly have a submissive nature or soul do not move, they are stuck in a stereotype, or just want a certain sex act. A ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
slavedog2016 61 M
2 Articles
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What is the secret to finding a good Mistress on this site that is not looking for your money   4/7/2018

I was wondering what everyone's experience is on this site finding a dom. On here that didn't want i-tunes cards upfront as a form of a tribute


3 Comments, 32 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
MissTriciaTPE 69 F
0 Articles
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CUT AND PASTE FOR SCAMMERS   3/22/2018

EVERY DAY on ALT.COM several million scammers are seeking YOU out.! <br><br> Does YOUR profile make you seem NEEDY ? <br><br> <br><br> As a PRO DOM who YES. makes a financial living from this lifestyle. let me explain what I mean .. <br><br> LOOK AT YOUR PROFILE , And I mean REALLY LOOK at it .. ...


4 Comments, 55 Views, 13 Votes ,4.82 Score
Nsa2tie 68 M
1 Article
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When you look good enough to eat   6/27/2017

Having just read a profile that was "Looking for a Funyuns single guy to join us", I realised it was time to check my own profile for obvious mistakes like missing the opportunity to point out that I too can be a razor sharp yet tasty snack that cosmetically resembles unfried onion rings.

Let me know if you fancy a nibble?


3 Comments, 40 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
hrnycumboyslave 49 M
4 Articles
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? GH   5/24/2017

is the gloryhole I place to hide and release without knowing for real what to evpect


2 Comments, 38 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
tiedu25 51 M
9 Articles
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scammers   4/22/2017

again , GHANA chicks get off of here , we dont want to be scammed


7 Comments, 41 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
tiedu25 51 M
9 Articles
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scammers   4/22/2017

again , GHANA chicks get off of here , we dont want to be scammed


4 Comments, 17 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
tiedu25 51 M
9 Articles
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hello   4/20/2017

whats up all, i got rid of the scammers from me, i hope they stay away


0 Comments, 8 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
gaggedu22 50 M
9 Articles
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hey all   4/20/2017

please report any girls from ghana there trying to scam u


3 Comments, 19 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
gaggedu22 50 M
9 Articles
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hey all   4/19/2017

lvesslve 33F New York, NY 231 mile



This girl says she from new york, suprise suprise, she is in ghana looking for hand outs


2 Comments, 14 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
gaggedu22 50 M
9 Articles
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alt.com peeps,   4/18/2017

i figured out, who the scammers, are, there the girls, that always ask u to email them , and when u do, ... i havent eaten in a week, ... wow , really, then u would be dead if that was the case, but you have the money to have gold membership on here.

GRRRR this pisses me off


2 Comments, 23 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
gaggedu22 50 M
9 Articles
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alt.com peeps,   4/17/2017

Is anyone else , have to keep hitting the refresh button, for this site? i have had to do it, 20 times already?


1 Comments, 10 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
gaggedu22 50 M
9 Articles
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instant messages   4/16/2017

When you are talking to someone, and the bottom of the im box says this personn your talking to is typing back to you, but nothing comes through, ? what does this mean?


3 Comments, 26 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
gaggedu22 50 M
9 Articles
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BuY ME PHONE PLEASE   4/12/2017

alt.com peeps, we are not here to buy you phones, , we are here for the world, of love, and fantasy...

The next one of you hit me up and ask me for a new cell phone, i will send hounds of hell after you, ....Well ifi knew where they were.



Please respect people


0 Comments, 10 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
femdomsrule 66 M
1 Article
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Tips for sub males seeking a FLR   3/8/2017

Compared to how it was for us pre-Internet folks, today’s scene is an embarrassment of riches.

Even so, due to the fact that sub men outnumber Dominant Women probably 10:1 (if not 50:1), finding a Female Led Relationship can be difficult. So men, like anything else in life, you need to “sell” yourself.

How do you do this?

First make sure you have a kickass profile ...


2 Comments, 67 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
jennithewhore 74 T
4 Articles
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just something everyone should know   1/24/2017

'Revenge porn' i*****l under new UK law 13 October 2014 From the section Technology Revenge porn concept imageImage copyrightPA Image caption The distribution of images and videos can be reported directly to the police People who post so-called "revenge porn" pictures and videos on the internet could face two years in jail under a new law. The new Criminal Justice and Courts Bill will have an ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
Domme91slave93 30 C
1 Article
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Introducing FLR   12/28/2016

When my boyfriend first brought up the subject of Female Led Relationships or FLR for short, I was very put off by it. But then as time went by, I slowly became more open to the idea and now nearly two years later, I've come to like this. We met on a site very similar to this one, we talked for about 6 months and then in April of 2015 we met for the first time. A few weeks after our first date, ...


6 Comments, 89 Views, 12 Votes ,4.04 Score
Entwanglements 65 M
10 Articles
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Older guys beware   10/24/2016

There is a scam going on here on this site! It's mostly younger women looking for older men. Have as much fun as you want chatting with them, but do NOT give any personally identifiable info. They will want you to chat with them on Yahoo Messenger--DO NOT DO THAT!!! it is has to do with the Yahoo security breach ! There is IM on this website, and also messaging, keep to that. DO NOT GO TO Yahoo ...


4 Comments, 64 Views, 11 Votes ,6.16 Score
Lcd18 70 M
10 Articles
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Masturbation & Edging.   6/28/2016

I really love to masturbate, the release is very nice i always fall asleep afterwards, buit what is edging and how do i incorporate it into my masturbation session, any help would be appriciated.Thanks.


2 Comments, 77 Views, 10 Votes ,5.38 Score
jamiedom41 49 M
3 Articles
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Slave training. The beginning!   4/13/2016

I'm order to fully control a slave both in mind, spirit and body you must first break there need for sexual gratification in other words you must restrict their need to masturbate. The best method for this in a female slave is by a leather chastity belt and very close monitoring (a slave will always try to outwit her owner but gyratiory movements aimed at self stimulation) and by harsh ...


3 Comments, 116 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
Cassia83 40 F
1 Article
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I have decided I'm little now what.   3/29/2016

I Irecently decided I'm "little" Any books , sites, people to talk to about this will be greatly appreciated Anything hat will help me on my journey Thanks for listening.


5 Comments, 70 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
salesman58 65 M
10 Articles
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Importance of checklists   12/14/2015

Found in my years in the D/s realm that BDSM checklists are more than a conversation starter and have been a great help. Some subs claim they are well versed in this lifestyle (yes, some Doms as well) and through open conversation that checklists provide, some awkward moments have been squashed leading to more enjoyment which is something we all should craving.


0 Comments, 77 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
dcaro692 50 M
2 Articles
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how to be prepared to be sodomized   11/21/2015

I would like to be sodomized by a woman with a strapon, but i've never been sodomized before

I would like to have some advices about how to be prepared. Or do Mistressess usually prefer sodomizing a "virgin" man ?

than you


4 Comments, 156 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
dirtywhore2breed 50 F
3 Articles
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Ever Since my flu.   7/25/2015

A few weeks ago I got a summer flu that was going around the office. I felt like a train ran over me. But ever since I have gotten over it I just don't feel as horny as I do almost every day. Has anyone else felt this way before after being sick with the flu? Most times i just bounce right back and feel horny.


3 Comments, 38 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
pancha13piedi 49 M
10 Articles
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petite women   7/15/2015

What is it about petite women that is so enticing. I have been into them since grade school. I think its the femininity of them. They are like forbidden fruit. I humor some men when I tell them I prefer women who are 4-11 to 5-2. Some say they prefer tall women. For me tall women are not as feminine. They are not as cuddly and they are huge in bed. Its just a preference. I just wonder if other ...


6 Comments, 61 Views, 9 Votes ,4.28 Score
misswright1022 39 F
1 Article
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mistress for you   5/28/2015

if you want to explore bdsm world with the best mistress, contact me and lets get things started.


4 Comments, 110 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
underher4ever22 53 M
1 Article
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Finding a 24/7/365 TPE Mistress   10/20/2014

Why is it so hard to find a mistress that believes you really want to leave your vanilla life and live the rest of it in total servitude as a submissive slave, sex slave, slut, sissy whatever she wants to turn you into and live the rest of your life worshiping her and trying to make her proud and happy with you is there any Dom's out there really looking for a slave of there own to keep as a pet ...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
satinsi 50 M
1 Article
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Satin lingerie fettish   7/31/2014

Hi all am a single straight male who is totally obsessed with satin lingerie all I think of is dressing up in satin 247 seven days a week I even go to work in satin under my work gear .ever chance I can am wearing women's lingerie hi heels silk or satin Dresses satin night were . Ave more women's clothes then men's. Ever time I go shopping I always come home with stockings. Ave bin this way 30+ ...


0 Comments, 94 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
MsCatherineCA 55 F
1 Article
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Not Another Primary Photo Dick Pic   6/28/2014

(PreScript: This advice is intended for submissive males seeking to serve a truly Dominant woman. Ladies: I love your pussies, all of them, but the advice below can really be applied to them as well. If you're only looking to hook up, to fuck, to hit-and-run. . . by all means, parade your parts.) -----------------

You've listed yourself as a male on your profile. I assume that if you ...


3 Comments, 118 Views, 12 Votes ,5.63 Score
nowhome34952 64 M
4 Articles
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This lifestyle   6/8/2014

I have been in this lifestyle for 30 years. To those experienced this wont be new to you but to the newbies here goes. This is a wonderful lifestyle it is based on trust and honesty. One has to be very careful in this in that some people who are fake hide behind it in order to hurt people. Its who they are . They figure they can do what they want to who they want because someone in this lifestyle ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
_Quill_ 49 M
11 Articles
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Adding a new profile photo   5/31/2014

I've been trying to add a new profile photo for days now. Every time I try it goes into a new folder called other photos. If I move it, it appears to move, but says pending approval and ends up back in other photos.

Any ideas?

cheers' Quill


0 Comments, 15 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
dirtywhore2breed 50 F
3 Articles
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Bee stings   2/8/2014

Last night i had a dream of having my Milky udders tied up and a dom/mistress using bee's to sting my nipples. I woke up very very wet from that dream. I was wondering if anyone has used bee's in real life to do that


5 Comments, 77 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
The_Beast_Master 58 M
4 Articles
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SCAMMERS   10/5/2012

I hate them, they usually appear as blondes, from russia, they shit me.


1 Comments, 77 Views, 15 Votes
master_chris69 54 M
2 Articles
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Getting points back   10/5/2012

I wanted to know what people thought about receiving spam? I believe that if we have spent time accumulating points and then using the points to contact someone who turns out to be a spammer that alt should return those points, do you agree?


3 Comments, 25 Views, 10 Votes ,1.39 Score
master_chris69 54 M
2 Articles
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scammers   10/3/2012

Im sick of people caliming to be from a country like Autralia and then when you spend all the time contacting them they end up comming from Russia or someother fucking country. I believe that if this happens ALT should return our sacrificed points for the fuck around, what do you think?


0 Comments, 26 Views, 8 Votes
lushOcean 48 M
1 Article
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Last Online Status!   10/1/2012

I'm new, but my general advice article would be that we all get together and advocate this site to show, and sort by, "last time online" status in search results. Especially since you gotta be paid member to even look at a full profile and see it. I noticed lotsa short profile for descriptions where person said "I'm 22" or whatever, but their age is now 29, and who knows how long since they ...


1 Comments, 22 Views, 0 Votes
scorpsin13 41 M
2 Articles
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watersports   8/16/2012

I have never tried the whole area of watersports before. It has always intrigued me quite a bit but not sure if its exactly up my alley or not. Is there anything I can do to know if I would like it before I just jump in to a stream of it


2 Comments, 106 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
widerer 63 M
2 Articles
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working up   7/12/2012

I don't get fucked all that much and so really like it when I do. My problem is that I can't take a huge cock up my ass when I'm "out of practice". It takes some time with dildoes, etc. to stretch me out before I'm ready. Would prestretching my ass before meeting help? Has anyone tried that? Or shopuld I just explain to the top how tight I am?



Thanks!


2 Comments, 65 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
PinkDiamond01 49 F
1 Article
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Professional D/s photo's   6/9/2012

Ok...the word PROFFESIONAL in the article is the clue here and NO owning a camera with a fancy flash doesn't qualify...lmao

I've been trying to find a great professional photographer to get some good quality shots done...Google hits return porn...all very lovely BUT lol...would appriciate any advice/links for reputable photographers with a proven track record and good recommendations, ...


3 Comments, 62 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
TheSmartDom 57 M
9 Articles
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The Mental Aspects of Submission   5/18/2012

The Mental Aspect of Submission By MJ Reldan TheSmartDom

Much time and space is spent on the discussion of the physical aspects of a potential BDSM connection. Yet NOTHING happens without the mind's full-hearted consent. It’s important that you know that I know this.

Conventional vanilla sex is usually understood to require the mind's participation. It is commonly recognized ...


2 Comments, 138 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
cptplanet138 40 M
1 Article
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Looking for help   9/13/2011

Hello, Here is my question, does anyone know where I can find a place to meet people in the lifestyle, that my wife would not really get the impression right off the bat that, that is where we were. I've brought up the idea of checking out a local munch or going to some of the industrial themed night clubs in the city, but she is uninterested in large crowds. She has told me she would be more ...


0 Comments, 32 Views, 0 Votes
alpacino10 58 M
1 Article
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Training a new sub   7/30/2011

I am about to start a relationship with a new sub. I wondered if anyone had ever bothered to document a structured training regime to lead her through her training? I know the instant answer is that everyone is different so please let’s not get sidetracked on that. Many of the things I want to introduce her to are repeatable in any relationship, from light bondage and spanking onwards. I want ...


1 Comments, 270 Views, 10 Votes ,2.19 Score
sissy_sub_steph 33 T
3 Articles
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Should i just walk away?   7/18/2011

Ok so lately ive been doing alot of thinking. I love the thought of the BDSM life style, its on my mind all the time. I get turned on by the thought of being tied-up, wearing sexy outfits, serving a mistress etc. My biggest fantasy is being sissified by a mistress. But im now in a 2 year relationship which is going really well, im crazy about the girl but she doesn't share my interest in BDSM. ...


1 Comments, 215 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
TheSmartDom 57 M
9 Articles
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So What Kind of Sub Are You? The Elements of Submission   6/14/2011

The BDSM community seems to know what it means when it says Dom and sub to each other. Yet a look at the forums and groups on line show how much those definitions are really up for discussion. It is important for you as a sub to know how you feel and more importantly what about the way you feel should and can be communicated to a potential play mate. Very important. What goes into the makeup of a ...


0 Comments, 243 Views, 22 Votes ,2.65 Score
Kitty_and_sub 42 C
2 Articles
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How do you carry on...?   5/23/2011

Greetings boys and Girls...perhaps you can help me...?

I am in a relationship and we very much enjoy playing Dom/sub games. When I dominate my little sub male I can keep him on edge for hours at a time while I tease, torture, humiliate and degrade him in the most imaginative ways possible...but I'm having a little problem with the scene endings, and not in the usual way.

...


1 Comments, 134 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
TomBonow 75 M
61 Articles
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Boom   2/18/2011

Whitehouse Hotline This is the Whitehouse Hot Line please enter one for English or two for Spanish. Thank you! Please for World Affairs press one! For World Economics’ press two For Civil Rights press three For Veteran Affairs press four For all other problems press “O” Your call is important to us, your call will be answered in the order it was received, please stay on the line, while you ...


1 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
niceguydirtyacts 52 M
1 Article
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Power Shifting --- using anal sex   2/1/2011

This is a borderline sex story, but hopefully I will illustrate how I came to be Dominant after being the 'lesser' (albeit marginally) for the first time sexually.

It was unintentional Power Shifting to be sure, but a good lesson learned.

...and a lifestyle created, hopefully I can help others.

It was 2000 or so, late twenties for me. New area, new job etc.

Met ...


2 Comments, 231 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
ShortCOmale2011 55 M
2 Articles
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Pleasing My Asshole/Anal Flower   1/16/2011

My anal flower needs some TLC for 10-15 minutes. Finger the crevise of my ass, brush more than one finger over opening. A partner can stretch open my asshole and see what can be put inside.


0 Comments, 18 Views, 0 Votes
SynnerOfRoissy 56 M
24 Articles
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- Gained a Sub, Lost a Sub -   12/12/2010

Hello,

I met someone on alt, and they were good.

I got frustrated with the way things were going and did something stupid.

I believe part of the issue is they were under stress for various reasons, were going from sub to switch mode, were topping from the bottom - maintaining they were sub, but actually wanted to be in control.

They have broken off ...


1 Comments, 167 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
jaymz451960 63 M
2 Articles
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man wanting 2 suck cock and swallow cum, but no takers.   11/6/2010

i have been trying 4 a long time to fall on my knees and take a big cock in my mouth and suck it til it shoots a big load down my throat. i cant get anyone to take advantage of me, why?? i am willing to do anything for someone to please them. i just want to know what it feels like to be one of those girls in the pornos. i always want to be them when i watch and i get the most turned on when i see ...


3 Comments, 218 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
panty_sniffer_1 57 M
1 Article
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Panty Sniffing/Face Sitting/Smothering Advice   9/13/2010

Ahhhh, the sweet smell of pussy and ass. I absolutely love the smell of a hot pussy and ass right above my face. When you spend a lot of time sniffing panties or being facesat you really start to fall in love with the smells that come with it. Facesitting means your face is generally buried in pussy and ass, so you get a taste and a smell of that and you are instantly in the pleasure zone. ...


3 Comments, 187 Views, 10 Votes ,5.77 Score
pleasure990 43 M
1 Article
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Dom/Slave relationship   5/21/2010

What happens when the relationship changes? When love enters the scene? The entire dynamic of the relationship is thrown out the window? I love the new attention but miss much of what I came into this relationship for. Darned if I do and ..... private responses are welcome, thanks


0 Comments, 121 Views, 0 Votes
poketoy 74 M
1 Article
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Threat of STDs in the bi community.   3/24/2010

I am new to the scene and can't help but wonder what the situation, STD wise, is like. Is it a problem or is it uncommon?


0 Comments, 31 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
bzer109 35 M
2 Articles
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looking for advice on meeting ppl online   3/16/2010

Okay so im only 21, ive had this profile for a few months now, but i havent gotten any progress can anyone please help me meet some people on here in my area... maybe give me some pointers on things to say or do and such?


1 Comments, 99 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
briefsman7 43 M
1 Article
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HOT GAY MEN SEX WITH HOT TIPS ESPECIALLY A UNDERWEAR FETISH   3/15/2010

1) Speak with your partner about each other's fantasies. Yes! If you know what your partner likes, then you will know how to exactly satify him in the sack. Don't try guessing as this may lead to aggravation on both sides. If he has an underwear fetish. Get home from work, surprise him by stripping down on your finest pair of briefs, flip him over your knee and spank him as he admires the buldge ...


1 Comments, 59 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
oscarthegrouch3 49 M
3 Articles
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SUBMISSIVE VERSUS SLAVE   3/9/2010

When does a submissive become a slave? I mean at what point? Is it based on the time they spend submitting, that is to say if they are submissive 24/7 are you therefore a slave?

Is it based on the level of submission, if you have limits can you ever be a slave?

If you are submissive with no limits are you automatically a slave?

I am interested in the definative answer ...


3 Comments, 213 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
neadsmaster 60 M
124 Articles
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want to write better?   2/26/2010

I write a lot here and i have found that a new writing site has helped me get better with my writing. It nationalwriter.org. You can post articals and and get advice on writing. As we all know the more you writer here the more you earn points to get stuff but if you are not writing well no one wants to read your stuff. take a look at nationalwriter.org i hope i spelt it right


1 Comments, 59 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
Coolswabie 74 M
1 Article
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New To LifeStyle Question   2/22/2010

I have decided to step into the lifestyle and have a submissive side. In my vanilla world I am in management and have seen a bit of life. I have been approched by a Domme who after a few emails, no real contact yet, and she is requesting that I show my devotion by sending her cash. I have yet to see a picture and have no doubt that if I were under the control of a Domme I would seek financially ...


2 Comments, 47 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
joyrdassasin4 32 M
4 Articles
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quick ?   1/29/2010

ok so me and a couple of people i know were debating if sex helps u stay in shape. Some say yes some say no.



I say yes because sex provides good cardio and if u have the right stamina can work up a sweat and burn calories whats ur opinion people?


0 Comments, 19 Views, 0 Votes
ANALAL101 55 M
2 Articles
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NO DRAMA !   11/16/2009

What dose it mean when some-one say's NO DRAMA!" To mo me it states that you should not have any emotional issues. Maybe I am Wrong, but can you tell me of any-one who doesn't have any emotions! I feel that the statement "NO Drama", is used by people who them-selves 'can not' deal with their own issues, let alone someone Else's. I ...


1 Comments, 59 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
nykink18 46 M
1 Article
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New York Dominatrix   10/23/2009

I'm currently in NYC and would love any info on a good dominatrix in the area. Has anyone on here had any good experiences. Any names you can throw at me would be greatly appreciated.


0 Comments, 47 Views, 0 Votes
enchanteddreams0 46 C
13 Articles
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Can you answer this?   10/16/2009

Its just a question, a discussion... Thats all.

Why is it that in the last 60 to 80 years, it is unacceptable and there are laws against marriage to a girl, when all through history it was normal, and acceptable. Thats how life has been for thousands of years, but just in recent history has that became not acceptable. Like some idlest is pushing off there beliefs on the rest of the ...


2 Comments, 116 Views, 9 Votes ,0.43 Score
_clara 101 F
3 Articles
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Thoughts on the DD/g dynamic   9/20/2009

There is a misunderstanding about submissives that is very apparent here on alt. Now that I can see profiles, I have read about those wishing to "train" and "be trained".

The actual fact of the matter is that a submissive is a submissive. The role of the Dominant is simply one of a catalyst. His presence sparks the flame, but He is only the outward encouragement of her journey to her ...


0 Comments, 159 Views, 13 Votes ,4.99 Score
Barthian 47 M
1 Article
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Am I living in reality with my ideas?   7/12/2009

Hi and thanks for taking the time to read this and maybe respond. I've put up an ad seeking "employment" as a housekeeper with benefits. I'm sure that's far from being strange on this website but I do have a question, whether or not I'm living in reality here or chasing whatever.

I'm not in the BDSM scene nor anywhere around it. I grew up in a Christian home. I've had my sexual ...


3 Comments, 107 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
addictedtocock12 58 M
19 Articles
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cock size   6/14/2009

guys, stop stop stop lying about your cock size. i am sick of chatting with someone that swears they are uncut, nice cock and it gets hard. well it might be uncut and it might get hard but its only 4 inches when its stiff. what the hell can i do with a 4 inch cock. absolutely nothing. nothing. i have had it with guys that i have hooked up with that swear they have a nice cock when its time to ...


0 Comments, 85 Views, 2 Votes
orphan8 66 M
1 Article
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how do i find a Mistress   6/1/2009

ive been on alt for 7 months . i used to get alot of contacts but now i dont. is there a FEMDOM out there who would guide and train me?


0 Comments, 52 Views, 0 Votes
MstrofAdventure 65 M
2 Articles
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Outside of the box   5/16/2009

There is no such thing as a bad suggestion if the intent of the suggestion is honorable; only a closed mind that is wrapped up within itself would waste time in flaming another that is acting in integrity and honor. It is the acceptance of difference that allows us to to think outside of the norm which is where we will find creative answers. What we are now doing is not working, therefore we ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
MstrofAdventure 65 M
2 Articles
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Why training is more than behavior   5/2/2009

Within the time through my mid-30s I found that two prominent parts of my life had always been in conflict. That was sexuality and spirituality. Of course a large part of that was because of the dogma of organized religion, which I have since thrown off the yolk of repression.

Then in my 40s these two areas began merging into one and continues to do so as time progresses. I believe it ...


0 Comments, 62 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
Freakkiness 43 M
4 Articles
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Whats the best way   3/8/2009

What is the best way to tell someone your not interested, without seeming like an asshole or a hypocrite?


6 Comments, 102 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
Virgin06 69 M
2 Articles
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A Easter Saga!   3/7/2009

Healed! A Revised Saga of He Is Risen! The Saga Continues…A Revision He Is Risen! By Nevin Jefferson

News item on the Internet: “Dozens of Greek and Armenian priests and worshipers exchanged blows at one of Christianity's holiest shrines on Orthodox Palm Sunday and used palm fronds to pummel police who tried to break up the brawl”. So much for Easter cheer here gang! In light of ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 0 Votes
DuneMessiah 65 M
2 Articles
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Is it probably a Fake Profile?   1/9/2009

These are personal observations from actual responses. I guess any of them could be real so I’ll protect the innocent by saying “probably a fake.”

It is probably a fake profile if you sent an introductory e-mail and you get back a “slave contract” and a request that if you help relocate the sender from some place totally unrelated to the location shown on the profile, they ...


0 Comments, 210 Views, 15 Votes ,5.73 Score
hungree2008 64 M
3 Articles
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work place relationship   1/8/2009

OK...I have grown to respect and appreciate a woman that I ahve worked with for years . Recently I reached out to her and told her I wanted to get to know her better. She's amazing. Since I reached out to her we have been talking and e-mailing regularly about a wide range of topics. The more I learn the more I like about her. We're both married so going further would be dangerous and right now I ...


2 Comments, 135 Views, 5 Votes ,0.86 Score
tallieblack78 46 M
2 Articles
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First time for cock in ass   1/7/2009

I've had dildos, even some pretty good size ones. What should I be prepared for if I'm going to take a real cock?


2 Comments, 299 Views, 11 Votes ,2.61 Score
phonedoc 67 M
8 Articles
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Burlesque Male Clothes   12/4/2008

Do any members have information or contact addresses for 'Burlesque Clothes' for men. My BDSM club have a strict dress code and I don't want to be following a dress code for the theme night and end up wearing a 'vanilla' attrie.


0 Comments, 39 Views, 0 Votes
activebdsm1 50 M
5 Articles
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Flight DelayHelp   11/1/2008

vacuumed wetness. His fingers stroked her thigh ever so gently; neither he nor she could feel the touch, but sensed it. His sensual fingerprints glided over her skin, sending a chill down her spine, which raised goose bumps on her arms.









She smoothed her fingertips over his shoulders and down his biceps that caused a tiny tingle at the base of his ...


0 Comments, 52 Views, 0 Votes
Hippie_n_Brandi 68 C
21 Articles
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When Do Newcomers Become Isolated?"   10/24/2008

Thesaurus: isolate

verb

To set apart from a group: close off, cut off, insulate, seclude, segregate, separate, sequester. See include/exclude. adjective

Set away from all others: alone, apart, detached, isolated, lone, removed, solitary. See include/exclude.

(Definition obtained from "Answers (.) c o m)"




...


0 Comments, 44 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
MistressTK 43 F
4 Articles
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Punishment For Slaves   9/28/2008

I'm currently training some sissy maids online, & having trouble thinking of new punishments. Obviously a lot of the punishments I'd normally do are impossible, since they live too far away from me.



Does anyone have any suggestions for punishments that I can make them do to themselves?


5 Comments, 351 Views, 9 Votes ,4.28 Score
Mz_LindaAnnBound 61 T
3 Articles
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Profile Photo   9/21/2008

Choosing a photo to go with your profile can be difficult and sometimes daunting.

I feel that you probably get more responses with a photo. Just for the reason that your willing to show yourself!

Photo's dont have to of your face necessarily, even though "breast" photo's of women or "cock" photo's of men can be boring , I think .

If you feel confident of your body, you ...


9 Comments, 184 Views, 13 Votes ,3.65 Score
neadsmaster 60 M
124 Articles
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Finding a dom HELP!!   9/16/2008

I am a submissive man who sometimes dresses as a woman. I need a dominate man to take charge and i need him to be part nympho. I am submissive but 100% bottom too. I love to serve a master sexually with my body. I not only need to serve but need the sex of service as well. I use to have a master but he died years ago now i need another. Sometime when being analy used i can cum. it is a total turn ...


0 Comments, 97 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
rados43 39 M
7 Articles
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chastity   8/28/2008

definatly chastity is enhanced when done with someone who has control over the key. brings a new dimension to it


3 Comments, 114 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
playwithpeter 58 M
13 Articles
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Satisfying that bi-curiosity?   8/17/2008

I've always...for as long as I can remember...been a little bi-curious. Has anyone got any advice on how best to satisfy that curiosity??


5 Comments, 306 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
funsub2000 66 M
13 Articles
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HELP, in need of advice   8/16/2008

I really don't know what to do so any advice would be welcome. A year ago this September my wife and I were invited to a reunion. A group of about 15 couples that have summer houses on a small northern lake. The party was great, lots of booze and great food. Nobody was feeling any pain if you know what I mean. I was outside talking with a few of the guys when I excused myself to use the bathroom. ...


2 Comments, 180 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
bigpussyboi 73 F
1 Article
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Pain Without Marks   8/10/2008

I need advice about how to inflict pain without leaving marks that would have to be explained.


2 Comments, 285 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
subredcbrm 44 F
3 Articles
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New to the lifestyle please read me.   8/7/2008

Hi everybody. Through different lifestyle groups i belong to i've made my current mission to become as entrenched in the lifestyle as possible as well as going on a crusade to prevent the destruction and abuse of newbies who jump in with both feet, in a frenzied state of mind with little thought to their own safety leaving it all in the hands of the Dom. Which, if he is the one you need to be ...


2 Comments, 172 Views, 13 Votes ,5.66 Score
evanscott 53 M
1 Article
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Grooming the Moderately Chastised Male   8/6/2008

Grooming the Moderately Chastised Male (or The Silky Smooth New You)

We've all read about Her, the relentless, omniscient, large breasted Dominatrice who controls every aspect of your sissified, chastised life including your appearance. She forces you to get pedicures, manicures, and sends you in for regular waxings or perhaps even laser hair removal so that you are always smooth ...


0 Comments, 106 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Smtreker 75 M
3 Articles
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Permanent Hair Removal   7/16/2008

Is it better to have a female slave's pubic hair permanently removed if you intend to have her cunt pierced and tattooed? Which method is better Laser or Electrolysis?


1 Comments, 146 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
2for1forfun8081 42 C
1 Article
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Jist lookin' 4 sum advice or tips for Daddy Dom/ role play?   5/26/2008

So me and my wife hav bn wantin' 2 do sum expermentin' and we both mentioned the Daddy Dom/ role play and decided 2 try it. We hav bn emailin' each other back and forth, playin' our parts in the emails. And we were just lookin' for sum advice or tips on how 2 move it from email 2 the bed.

She feels a little silly, yet aroused, by callin' me Daddy. She wants 2 do a good ...


1 Comments, 149 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
justalilbitruff 43 F
1 Article
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Question about latex   5/17/2008

I am completely new to the conept of latex, and have a general idea of how to put it on, though have not practiced yet. My question is, once it's on, how do you get it off? Peel it off? Is there a special substance to remove it? Is it painful? I haven't done any of this yet and figured it'd be best to do my homework on the subject before encountering any unexpected surprises. All advice will ...


0 Comments, 92 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
kellyg3 39 T
1 Article
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sex change   5/15/2008

im kellyg3 i need advice on where to get a sex change i want a pussy but cant find a number so i can be seen. i live in CA


2 Comments, 102 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
midlandsbipaul 62 M
1 Article
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WHATS HAPPENED TO THE CAMS!   4/5/2008

Hi, Ive been on here for 3 years, the first year as a gold member and for the last two years as a standard member. Recently I have found that when ever I click on a cam on instant messenger the window dissappears without letting me view. The only cams that seem available are the ones that are in private and so I can see them, obviously! What is going on? Is this the normal level of service for ...


1 Comments, 132 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
consumed_male 48 M
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What do women prefer?   3/29/2008

Hi ladies... my wife's birthday is approaching in April.



We've been together approximately 10 years and exchanged many-a-gifts.



She doesn't like wearing bootyshorts (not too comfortable)... she only has 3 pairs out dozens of panties and thongs. I would enjoy seeing her butt in a bootyshort...



My question... should I purchase a variety of ...


4 Comments, 131 Views, 6 Votes ,0.80 Score
Pairadoxak 62 M
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On teaching in the lisfestyle   3/19/2008

I’ve written before on my predilections towards public play. However, that runs a distinct second to my favorite activity, teaching (unless, of course, the two are combined – but that’s for a different day). I’ve been asked before what it is that I get out of teaching, principally by my sassy but by others that I have taught as well. Many have felt that it is a one-way transfer, that the ...


0 Comments, 57 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
steelbreezz2 69 M
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Compromise   3/11/2008

I thought I'd pass along a couple of things I find make life a lot easier. These are two things most people don't seem to want to hear about: compromise and having realistic expectations.

If you have a need for something and can't seem to attain it, try to compromise. Maybe it won't be what you would call perfect, but it will be close enough for you to experience something similiar. Sure ...


2 Comments, 49 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
steelbreezz2 69 M
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The Experienced Dom   3/8/2008

Okay , today's rant is - "I'll only play with you if you are experienced."

Which is very smart and very good. But...

The next thing they want to know is who you've had this experience with! And why aren't you still with them? And if they were so great, why are you still looking? And 200 more questions along those lines...

A very wise Dom once told me, "Hey Breeze, the ...


0 Comments, 86 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
steelbreezz2 69 M
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Converting Your Vanilla Lover   3/7/2008

True story, this is really how it went.



My significant other and I have been together for 5 years now. We have a great vanilla relationship, but me being stubborn, I always gotta push for more.



Like most couples our age, sex is pretty much a "date night once a week" thing. Always the same, but always pretty damn good, too.



The S.O. has known ...


0 Comments, 205 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
penni4yrthts2 64 F
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Training   3/5/2008

Training of a Master

After reading several articles about the lifestyle, occasionally the subject of training is targeted. No, not the training of submissives, but the training of Masters.

I will knowingly get negative feedback that a Master doesn't need training. From what I read on here, it would be a smart thing to invest in...if a Master is serious about the lifestyle. ...


0 Comments, 235 Views, 14 Votes ,5.22 Score
gbake 54 M
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Diving In   1/31/2008

Like a lot of members here at Alt, this website has been my first foray into this lifestyle. I know there are a lot of seasoned pros here, but a search of profiles shows me that a lot of us came to this site as newcomers.

When I joined, I tried to express my desires and fantasies as best I could articulate them in my profile. In an attempt to offer as much about myself as I could, I ...


0 Comments, 77 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
Mrkinky4fun 60 M
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Strap-on   1/31/2008

I'd like to hear peoples views thoughts about mf strap-on sex. pros cons likes dislikes or anything else that comes to mind


4 Comments, 162 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
domfem01 42 M
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When you know, what you are?   1/28/2008

What you should do, when you know what you are?? well I'll say if you know wht you are then you should come out with it.. stayin hidden doesn't help anyone in the relationship..


1 Comments, 38 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
yrslaveboy24 46 M
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Is strapon gay?   1/22/2008

I've had a very difficult time ever bringing up the subject of f2m strapon play with anyone I'm seeing who isn't into "kink". It seems like people think that any guy who likes his ass played with is gay. Is that true? I thought that if if having my ass filled made me feel good, it made all men feel good, so it couldn't be gay. But women don't seem to see it that way. Any help? Do most women think ...


9 Comments, 301 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
KamaSX 41 M
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Domming   1/13/2008

Switch by nature. I say so because I feel so Dominant sometimes I just want to be in control, and the rest of the time, you know it

Thing is, I would like to know where I could learn and get more information on becoming a better Dom. Are there any websites or books that teach you to become a perfect Dom?

All suggestions would help! Thanks, Kama...


1 Comments, 70 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
badtothetouch 67 C
2 Articles
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sexy music   1/9/2008

Any ideas for what type of music would be good while topping a sub?? would like music without lyrics


4 Comments, 86 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
Bob_The_Bonker1 62 M
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Flogging   1/9/2008

Flogging

The most important part of a flogger are the falls also called lashes, thongs, tresses, strands, etc. These falls are made of different materials, in different styles and with different ends or tips. Handle and knob designs are mostly a matter of personal taste as well as the maker's signature (especially in the knobs). But the falls make a very real difference in the sensation ...


1 Comments, 63 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
SebastiansMaster 36 M
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Want to Learn   12/18/2007

I am young and wanting to learn from a experinced Master. If anyone has some help for me to get in this lifestyle as a Master i would love to hear from anyone. Thanks


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submissive48DD 56 F
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"Fat" sex....   11/24/2007

Me again I'm a "BBW" and have only cum one time {with a man} in 25yrs. I know pathetic My question is: What are the best positions to both of us to use for incredible sex? I am submissive so I want what's best for "my potential Man" as well as myself

Thanks again..

Christine


3 Comments, 207 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
submissive48DD 56 F
2 Articles
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Deep throating....   11/24/2007

Hi..This is my first post. I've deep throated a few men and they seemed to really love it BUT I have on occasion scraped my teeth against their cock or their cock is thick so my back teeth actually cut him. My question is...What's the best position to be in so I can give "him" the best blow job of "his" life?

Thank you..

Christine


2 Comments, 218 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
PJALT2 63 M
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Advice needed... roleplay scenarios   11/23/2007

so... I am meeting with a young lady (yes, she's over the age of consent, thanks for asking) and we are playing daddy/ - teacher/ schoolgirl - daddy/babygirl games

basically I start off with a little plan to start the rolepaly going and then after a while, we just let it all go from there. Has anyone got any new ideas for scenarios - or enjopyable scenarios that they use themselves


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Lexa1970 54 F
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I Desp neeed some advice or guidance can you help ?   9/28/2007

I've always been Top mostly due i suppose to my ex husband and personality type but I am now at a place in my life where I am free to explore My desires My wants My fantasies and I have realised that I would very much love to switch roles that the thoughts of it really turns me on. To the point where I am thinking about it a lot but I am unsure of how to go about it or even it I would be able to. ...


5 Comments, 105 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
rata7641 44 T
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Pvc - what do you use to give that wet look?   9/7/2007

I just got a new pvc catsuit and was wondering what do i use to protect it & give it that wet look shine? Can anyone give me some help? thanks rata


1 Comments, 62 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
Maestro05 49 M
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My 2 Cents for submissives   9/1/2007

Many of you have asked that I write a little something for the subs out there. I hope this helps..

M/many involved in the BDSM lifestyle have been introduced to it through the Internet and online chat rooms. Online can be very intense and very special. It can also lead to great harm to many, just as realtime relationships can be quite intense and special and for others just as harmful. ...


1 Comments, 171 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
Waza703 54 C
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Newbie Advice and Info   8/8/2007

Following, in no particular order, are a few points of advice and general interest for those new to the swing scene in general and the Alt scene in particular. It is blunt, frank and un-PC article. The opinions expressed are those of the authors and are largely based on our own anecdotal evidence. We are confident these will hold up to objective scrutiny or we wouldn't bother posting the article: ...


3 Comments, 282 Views, 11 Votes ,5.60 Score
blondefucktoy 55 F
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What happens when a bottom discovers She loves to Top   7/16/2007

Well surly nothing new to this group - nor to the lifestyle but defiantly a revelation to myself. Well perhaps not such a revelation, I have always suspected I would like to dominate men but had never been afforded the opportunity. Well that is all in the past now. Last night the one man who has been able to control my bratty spoiled self let in on a secret. He enjoys being controlled and ...


6 Comments, 250 Views, 12 Votes ,4.39 Score
domfem99 43 F
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How do I introduce the "lifestyle" to my fiance?   7/15/2007

I'm newly engaged and have told my fiance about having strap-on experiences with other men before him. But my question is, how do I open the door for him about the lifestyle and possibly playing with him? He tells me that he will do anything to satisfy me..... Advice please


8 Comments, 288 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
WldCplLkn2Play 52 C
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surface piercing   7/3/2007

Can anyone tell me how long a corset piercing can remain in? i really am interested in getting one. Thanks for any information anyone can provide.


3 Comments, 119 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Missy3710 55 F
2 Articles
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Heartbreak and Trust ; Cyber Style   7/2/2007

I am wondering about the issue of "cyber relationships" as it seems very treacherous ground to tread. I had a friend write a letter to me and I have posted it [only with her permission] within my blog.

I am really looking for feedback from other submissives and Dominants to help her through this time. I am just unsure what to say and am asking for the good opinion of what I feel to be ...


1 Comments, 113 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
The_HellCat 44 F
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How to woo a woman in chat   6/12/2007

In the online universe it seems that men outnumber us girls and we receive alot of emails a day as well as alot of attention in chat. While this can be gratifying in some ways it can also be annoying. You may very well be a wonderful man but unless you are able to convey that in type then you aren't gonna catch my attenion. In a public service effort I've decided to add a few tips of my own to ...


7 Comments, 320 Views, 23 Votes ,6.86 Score
sissymale23 44 M
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What am I doing wrong   6/10/2007

I have written many messages to different people. They are somewhat brief but friendly and formal. I have not recieved any messages back not even to say no thanks. Is there any general advice from anyone out there on what I could do to maybe help me out. Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you.


1 Comments, 126 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
Steve_R133 36 T
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Need some advice please   5/28/2007

I love the thought of being anally penetrated by a dominate woman with a strap-on but when ever i play about with a dildo it just doesnt feel pleasurable. Has any one got any tips on how i could make it feel better?


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OddGirl 39 F
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Adult Forums   5/10/2007

I thought this would be the best place to put this. I wanted to make an adult forum. Wondered if anyone knew of a good, FREE place to find one. Preferably, a phpbb forum. If not, thanks anyway! Thanks in advance.


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yrslaveboy24 46 M
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Tips on Professional Dommes?   5/4/2007

Has anyone ever visited a professional Dominatrix? Any tips or advice? I'm thinking of going to one so I can finally have the fantasy I want - domination, strapon and humiliation


0 Comments, 136 Views, 2 Votes
Irish76 69 M
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How does one motivate one's partner to accept anal?   5/3/2007

My current partner is a very sensuous latin lady. When our play gets to the point that rimming becomes a part, she at first enjoys it until she realizes where the pleasure is coming from. at that point she steers the play away from the anal area even though she gets great pleasure from it. Do I continue and try to increase the time she accepts the attention to her ass? Hoping that eventually ...


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exploringbi2som 51 M
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Bi Porn   4/15/2007

Seriously 90% of the Bi porn isn't great. Any help on what I should be buying?


0 Comments, 119 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
master_pharoh 51 C
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Ten Tips for the Novice, Single, Heterosexual, Submissive Woman   3/30/2007

Let me guess. You're a woman, you're heterosexual, and you keep having strange, disturbing, recurring, and intense fantasies of a powerful, masterful man having his way with you. Perhaps he tears off your clothes and takes you. Perhaps he throws you over his knee and gives you a long, hard spanking. Perhaps he ties you naked and spread-eagled to a bed and proceeds to alternately tease and torture ...


3 Comments, 455 Views, 20 Votes ,6.57 Score
master_pharoh 51 C
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Its Raining Men: Basics of Water Sports   3/30/2007

Urine – Liquid waste product produced by the kidneys. The volume of urine depends on the fluid intake and diet. An average amount of urine excreted within a 24-hour period is between 0.8 and 2.6 liters.
The kidneys maintain the bodies’ electrolyte balance by excreting excess electrolytes into the urine. Chemically, urine is mainly an aqueous (watery) solution of salt (sodium chloride), ...


2 Comments, 184 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
JAS1063 60 M
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knots for bondage   3/24/2007

Hi can any one help me, I am familiar with the common knots eg hitch, half-hitch, granny etc. But would like to find book which will give me, a better understanding of more exotic knots eg Asia and the far east.


2 Comments, 125 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rexking 71 M
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i need some help- fake sperm   3/19/2007

Hope someone can help. We would like to make a video with her in a bathtub full of sperm. Without haveing to get the male population of Massachusetts over here, does anyone know how to make a good "fake" sperm? Needs to be gooie, yet slippery and must look real. It also needs to be safe. Hope you can help ASAP. Thanks


1 Comments, 169 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
tazdawg46 54 M
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electric play info   3/14/2007

anyone know anything about electric shock play?
don't mean with a tens unit.....with anyway for a stronger shock......
have been asked to learn how to do shock therapy like she saw in a movie........I know nothing about it.
any help would be helpful.
thanks


5 Comments, 149 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
tazdawg46 54 M
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for the women   3/11/2007

why must you leave the bathroom door open when you go ?

I know you've been in your relationship long enough he's seen you nude lot's of times but the one time he does not want to see you is when you are sitting on the stool.

WHY CAN'T YOU CLOSE THE DOOR ?
and while I'm at it, why can't you wait till a man's done shaving before you come in and take a dump????

we ...


7 Comments, 201 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
LearnerJB2 56 M
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Need advice   3/1/2007

I'm new to alt.com, and have a very specific goal. I'm looking for a creative man or woman who will take control of my sexuality and introduce me to homosexuality -- using email, chat, even cam to give me specific assignments that will break down my inhibitions over a few months. Is this unusual? What is the best way to find someone?


1 Comments, 135 Views, 1 Votes
tazdawg46 54 M
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gonna piss off all the women   2/28/2007

why is it that when a nice looking female walks by you when you are with a woman she will say something like "bitch.....she thinks she's hot"
I'm thinking that myself.

why is it anytime a woman sees another that she thinks is attractive she has to make a derogatory comment about her.
if she sees a woman wearing a short skirt she will have something to say about that.
...


4 Comments, 138 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
tazdawg46 54 M
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snapping pussy?   2/27/2007

In my years growing up and in adult life I have heard the term "snapping pussy"
Until recently I thought it was just a joke. I had the good fortune to be with a woman that got on top of me and did not move her body but the muscles inside her pussy worked my dick like a machine!
Is this more common than I have thought? I have had women that could really use their pussy muscles but this ...


6 Comments, 304 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
Raptornx01 43 M
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Aggressiveness   2/27/2007

I am a man who has a strong interest in being dominant. I have had contact with true submissive women in the past and found I not only enjoyed it, but longed for it. And I want to explore that lifestyle to the fullest.
But I have a problem. I have a submissive personality. I was with a dominant woman. A woman who sought out submissive men not just for sex but as a partner as well. But, she ...


4 Comments, 121 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
tazdawg46 54 M
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electric shock   2/23/2007

I have never used electric shock...I have heard of using car batteries. I'm told it has an effect of total submission.
My question is first, is it safe and if so how exactly is it done?
I have just learned a friend is planning to have this done to her and they are using multiple batteries.
I am afraid for her safety...any suggestions.


0 Comments, 206 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
fiestyfi 42 F
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The Art of Submission   2/22/2007

Hi,
I'm a newbie submissive seeking to fully understand the art of submission. I would like to know what qualities make a good submissive? what is about being submissive that you/we enjoy?
What pleasure does being a submissive give you?
If you could use any words to describe how you feel about submission what would they be?
I'd be really interested to hear what everyone ...


1 Comments, 211 Views, 9 Votes ,5.56 Score
M_Julianna 48 F
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Lady Julianna's Guide to Sensual BDSM   2/21/2007

Excerpt from Chapter 3: BDSM Play Basics - Do’s, Don’ts & How To’s
Your Domme Demeanor – While playing you must always act as though you know what you are doing and exude strength and confidence. Never, ever, ever ask your sub in the middle of play what he wants to do, what you should do next or if he likes what you’re doing. There are ways of finding these things out without ...


0 Comments, 182 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
cccc04 45 C
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how to make it happen   2/16/2007

we are having trouble on how to tell some of our friends we would like them to join us in the bedroom for some kinky hot sex does anyone know a good way to ask them or bring it up with out sounding like freaks if there not in to it


3 Comments, 144 Views, 10 Votes ,3.78 Score
silent_soo 44 F
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Gag mad with a latex allergy? Read this!   2/4/2007

I've spent the last few years desperately searching for a ball gag, but my allergy to latex has foiled me at every turn. Living in the back of beyond means no sex shops for me, so all toys are bought online.
However, I've found that even if the manufacturer notes that a product contains latex, there's no guarantee that the supplier will bother to mention it on their website. ...


4 Comments, 183 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
stragglyslave 72 F
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Short but true   2/1/2007

If it goes too fast, it just ain't gonna last
If it goes too slow, the Master He shall go
If it goes just right, hey, good luck to Y/you B/both


0 Comments, 46 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
hardfortranny 57 M
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deepthroat everyone?   2/1/2007

i am a straight guy that recently experimented with the other side. both transexual and guys. i have practiced for a while, trying to master the art of cock sucking. i have used several different size dildos to practice. from small to huge. i know that everyone can not deep throat. but i think if you practice, you can overcome the gag reflex and do it. i found with the dildos, that i could ...


2 Comments, 253 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
fiestyfi 42 F
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I don't understand   1/28/2007

Hi,
I'm a newbie submissive, stepping out on the road to learning about becoming a good sub for a potential dom.
A long time ago I meet a fantastic dom, who I liked very much and felt liked me. Everything was going really well, and we talked about meeting up. I cannot stress how much I wanted him, and to meet him. Yet at the same time I was going through an extremely ...


7 Comments, 187 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
master_pharoh 51 C
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I Could Beat You For That, But You Would Enjoy It Too Much: Alternative Punishments That Work   1/26/2007

Punishment by nature is something that is to be avoided, something that is negative; it should be unwelcome and act as a negative motivator. It can be used to motivate a submissive/slave to start behaving in a certain manner or it can be used to encourage a behavior to stop.
Some people think that a paddling or spanking is punishment; these actions would normally be what I would ...


2 Comments, 295 Views, 11 Votes ,5.04 Score
BREASTMAN83 38 T
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Advice for my first time crossdressing in public   1/22/2007

Hello id like to go out to one of the clubs in London for crossdressers but am quite nervous and shy about going. Id like to know if other people who have been felt the same on their first time and if so how did they handle their first time? Are there any clubs out there that people recomend for me to go to?


1 Comments, 289 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
master_pharoh 51 C
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10 Themes for Domination   1/13/2007

I wold like to share with all Egyptian dom(me)s these basic rules about domination:

1. Be patient! Until you enter into a contract with a submissive, you have no more right to order him/her around than does anyone else. Give your bottom time to get to know you and what you are like. Finesse and subtlety are major elements of dominance. Similarly, strength and gentleness ...


1 Comments, 248 Views, 8 Votes ,6.26 Score
takeifuwant 42 M
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I like how it feels but how do I feel?   1/13/2007

I"m troubled by a situation and wa slookinf for a word or two of advice from someone more experienced or who just has anything at all to offer in the way of assistance. I"ve had some trouble coming to grips with thsi pbefore but I'm fine with now saying that I enojoy receiving analpenetration. I have experienced a woman's strapon and quite enjoy how it feels physically, but wooried, what it ...


1 Comments, 148 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
slavemut 44 M
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being new to alt.com   1/11/2007

with being still quite new to here l thought u could get help from anyone but it seems you can so l think there should be a place on here to go to and get some good advice on how to do anything on alt .com


1 Comments, 120 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
DiamondBackDT 37 F
2 Articles
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Am I really ready???   1/10/2007

A question that has plagued all of us at one time or another. All I have to say is: "When you want to take on greater responsibilities then you should be ready to take on the greater consequences."


0 Comments, 185 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
majicwand 62 M
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It takes sooo loonnnggg!   1/9/2007

Well, I shouldn't complain, but it takes so long for me to cum sometimes! Now I know that some would value this, but sometimes it'sa little inconvenient. But it is kinda nice to be able to last a long time.
Does yohimbe have any effect on this? I haven't used it, just wondering.


0 Comments, 105 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
andy_resort 53 M
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Sex with people you don't "Fancy"   1/8/2007

I kinda have a thing for sex with people that I would not say I "fancied" in the classic sence; just purely get excited about the idea of having sex with them.
For example larger girls, older girls, strangers ... all these things excite me sexually but not in a way that I'd maybe look for in regular partner.
One slight issue I have with this is how honest I should be ...


2 Comments, 283 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
lovemyheels3 59 T
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How do I find that special person?   12/24/2006

Hi out there, A question for the WOMEN out there (or a man who'se been in my position) I'm seeking some sensible, helpful advice. I'm a heterosexual crossdressing male, generally a normal macho bloke but like dressing up for sex occassionally and have a bit of a smoking fetish, only just joined this site but been on Adult Friends finder for a little while, but had few views or messages, ...


1 Comments, 176 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
SlaveSeeker_1
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Abusers of the BDSM way for presonal gain.   12/22/2006

Members of this community are far more vulnerable to being accused of abuse than any other minority community existent. Because of that the community tends to talk about abuse and consent a lot. The line between BDSM and abuse is consent. Misrepresentation, deceit, failure to be honest in any form in order to attract, lure or seduce someone into a controlled position simply to proceed with ...


0 Comments, 180 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
lasciviousdom 51 M
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Looking for creative input.   12/18/2006

For the last few years I've been working in writing erotic stories loosely based on experiences my ex-wife and I had "playing". Is there anybody out there who can help with some creative input?


0 Comments, 46 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
phillyguy129 62 M
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Love the roleplay/ageplay fantasies? How do I get interest?   12/4/2006

Hey, I put out lots of ads on this issue, but get very little resonse. Is there just no interest in it? Help me out please!


1 Comments, 124 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Hecate1 60 F
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Female Ejaculation   12/2/2006

This article was passed on to me by another member in the hopes that I would pass it on to others here on alt. and in my other venues. My thanks to Elder_Velvet for his contribution. Some women ejaculate during orgasm like men do. It's a natural action, but there's a lot of misunderstanding about it. When it happens, It's often a surprise to both parties, and an embarassment to the woman. ...


3 Comments, 476 Views, 15 Votes ,6.04 Score
likkinnab 48 M
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should I?   12/1/2006

I have done research in my area and have found a Domme. She will session with me. But now I have a connundrum. Do I go see her for I am in a great relationship, and my Lady is unwilling to go to the extremes that I am searching. So that is where I am at. To be Dominated and anally abused and showered upon.


0 Comments, 121 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
ttwrist 66 M
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The origin of fisting fetish (vaginal and anal)   11/23/2006

The origins of fetishes, particularly Fisting and Anal play.
I am one of those people who like to analyse the origins of my fetishes. I suppose having studied psychology, being a qualified nurse for many years and currently training to be a psychoanalyst, would certainly give me the background for this kind of self analysis! I first became interested in fisting and playing ...


2 Comments, 185 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
Factrat 47 M
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Mind Fuck   11/22/2006

Recently I meet a sub, who was not even close. So I guess I should have ID her as a wantabe. We exchanged email and numbers and even met up, but when it came down to the experience she said she had it was not there. I took her to a open bar where people of our mind frame can let our hair down and she seemed at ease, but as the evening wore on I came to find out, this was just a mind fuck ...


1 Comments, 546 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
SlaveSeeker_1
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Abusing the COLLAR   11/18/2006

Why should I collar you? I don't really know you. Do you really know me? Do you even understand what it Means?
The Collar and Its Meaning A collar in BDSM symbolizes a commitment that has often been compared to a wedding ring. This type of commitment comes in other forms, such as a brand, a tattoo, a piercing.... Each symbolizing the pledge of the Dominant to ...


3 Comments, 302 Views, 22 Votes ,7.57 Score
dogystl2 54 C
1 Article
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stolen pictures   11/17/2006

What do you do when you see a picture of yourself and someone else is using your picture with their information. Has this ever happend to anyone


5 Comments, 489 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
rexking 71 M
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hard nipples   11/15/2006

i am slave jayne, partner to my Master Rex (his handle is Rexking). Master loves hard nipples. The harder the better. My nipples are fine, but i want to know if there is something out there that would really make them huge and hard? Some kind of cream or lotion that i could rub on them to really get them erect. i am hoping someone out there knows of something i could use so that i can ...


0 Comments, 223 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
friction4fun 51 M
2 Articles
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Sub or Dom?   11/14/2006

How true is it to be, or find people that are actually both doms and subs? I know very few people are either white or black and most fall in some shade of grew. But can people truly enjoy submitting as much as they enjoy dominating another? Can this happen with the same partner? Thanks for the input.


3 Comments, 238 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
06_handsome_06 42 M
4 Articles
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swinging club London   11/5/2006

anyone knows or can propose any swinging club in london? why is it good? and which day best to go?


0 Comments, 255 Views, 0 Votes
mandahowl 41 F
1 Article
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FRUSTRATION!   10/22/2006

So.... I'm searching for something that seems to elude me time and time again and I was wondering what others have to say about it....
Heres the story....
What I want is basically a fuckbuddy that is dominant but doesn't have to always play in D+s. I want someone who can get a hard-on and cum 3 or 4 times in a night, not every night, night after night of course, but as ...


4 Comments, 242 Views, 15 Votes ,5.43 Score
josephleigh 53 C
1 Article
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Why are there so many people on this site that just like to type vs. actually doing anything?   10/15/2006

Although my husband and I are fairly new to this site, I can't help but wonder (or maybe its just new to me or I have totally fucked up our profile ) why so many people exchange likes, dislikes, etc. but aren't really active in pursuing something that probably would be pretty fun. I have spent a couple of days checking out different parts of alt.com to get a better understanding of what ...


6 Comments, 224 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
travelbinder 48 F
1 Article
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First communications   10/12/2006

It's surprising how many people are not aware of the importance of those first few lines of communication.
Most of the correspondence on this site seems to have two problems:
1. Waffle 2. Too many on liners
Regarding waffle (taking too long to say something or nothing). If you haven't got someone's attention in the first sentence or two you have lost them ...


3 Comments, 321 Views, 14 Votes ,5.22 Score
angelsub1000 50 F
1 Article
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smoothly does it.   10/12/2006

Can any ladies(or men) out there give me some advice on getting a really smooth shave? I have tried loads of methods, epilating, depilatory creams, expensive mens razors and womens razors and nothing seems to work! I'm either left with stubble, a rash or ingrowing hairs!


4 Comments, 253 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
binonaya 69 M
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bi girls are exceptable and bi guys are not what gives?   10/12/2006

i`m a bi-curious guy and have found it way less exceptable than if it is a bisexual female. I have yet to meet anyone or couple but am very intrested in doing so i would like to meet a female that excepts my intrests i don`t nessarly need to live out the intrests but would like to be exceptable to someone who understands and can live with it. i was divorced last year because of my intrests ...


2 Comments, 98 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
TitSlapper49 67 M
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Meeting on ALT   10/8/2006

I would like to meet other ladies on ALT. I have found that well, for now no luck and I have been on for the last 5 months. Is it all by having a Silver or Gold or is it ???, Please check my profile to let me know if I am way off base or upgrade membership. Thank you all


1 Comments, 126 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
likkinnab 48 M
3 Articles
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Tgirls   10/8/2006

What is the attraction that a straight man has with these Lovely Tgirls? From the beautiful hair, makeup, lips, long leggs lucious ass and even the dick. Which on a man is not even the least bit enticing. Any answer will be taken to great lengths.


5 Comments, 261 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
fiestyfi 42 F
14 Articles
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Contacting ex dom's   10/5/2006

Hi,
Before I begin I am a complete newbie at this. I'm trying to find my way in this kinky world, and understand all the kinky rules etc.
My question is this. Do you as a sub or a dom contact old/past/ex subs/dom's?
I meet this great fantastic dom guy, who I felt had made a connection with me. Things were going well, and it was getting close to arranging to ...


2 Comments, 320 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
need2do 44 M
2 Articles
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A Case of Mistaken Fantasies?   9/29/2006

I'm interested to find out how kinky woman can generally be or if there is an age old myth that men have been building up in their heads. Do women enjoy using strapons on men? I know sexual tastes very and each kink has its own crowd, but do women think about or act upon the erge to have a man so willing to please her that he will open up and let her inside? I have been tot he Ontario group ...


5 Comments, 323 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
TwistedInstinct 63 M
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the vast power of WANTO ...... meta physics   9/29/2006

The vast power of WANTO .. have sex
Your level of wanting , , or what I have called wanto is , , it is the energy of the expectation that effects sub atomic particles in that Quatum Physics experiment we talked about earlier …. Wanto , , this dates back for to the days of National Guild of hypnotists and my active Hypnosis practice … you hypnosis got the same results in stopping ...


0 Comments, 225 Views, 1 Votes
likkinnab 48 M
3 Articles
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getting more anal   9/24/2006

I am having difficulty getting my GF to play anally. On a grand scale. I love to rim, for days and days. But she seems to stop me after a while. EVEN though she is all over the anal play in masturbatory realm. WHAT TO DO, WHAT TO DO?
I would aalso be all over her doing me anally. I gues that is another hurdle.


3 Comments, 160 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
GIVESandTAKES4 73 M
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FOR WOMEN ONLY   9/12/2006

Men's Pet Peeve. LADIES! LADIES! LADIES!





You hardly ever answer our email. There's a quick reply button immediately above our message! It takes but a few seconds to hit it and send. You don't even have to go to another page. The best one is the second one up. "I'm not seeing anyone new right now" If you have the time you could count another 7 up ...


4 Comments, 316 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
oohmy2 51 M
2 Articles
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Getting "laid"   9/11/2006

I recall a line from a film which goes like this. "Do you know my secret to getting laid, lower your standards." Does anyone think this is true? Seems too often it is.


4 Comments, 122 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
blisst 57 M
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feminisation   9/10/2006

I have always had fantasies about being sub to women.Im not sure why but i think its because i want to be one but im too much of a coward to do anythingg about it.Has anyone been on female hormones i want to know othes experiences of transforming into a female.I want to work in a beauty parlour where i can best serve and learn about being feminine.I could never go through with it without ...


3 Comments, 475 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
need2do 44 M
2 Articles
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What does a cd or ts want in a man?   9/3/2006

I'm finally taking action and exploring the neglected side of my sexuality. I've recently ended a long relationship and am now wanting to meet a crossdresser or transvestite, I realize that is a general term and that there are differences between them, as well as transgender and tgirls. I'm not an expert as I have no experince with cd's or ts'. I know these beauties are just regular people ...


1 Comments, 110 Views, 6 Votes ,0.80 Score
klitplzer 74 M
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GloryHole anyone   9/2/2006

I want to know if Anyone can tell me where I might find a place that has real Gloryholes in this area. . . I would both like to place my cock in one to try the experience, and I'd like to be on the other side to give the best gloryhole sucking anyone ever had.


1 Comments, 165 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
TwistedInstinct 63 M
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how can you protect her when you are drunk , you R and easy KILL !   8/30/2006

i am to writing what jackson pollock was to painting.. this is kinda out reponse to that chick getting hit by a car the last bon fire!
This has to do with the chick that got hit last night , and chemical recreation in general . first from your aspect young master , ,, NOT in front of you women , ,never fucking ever .. it insults their need for a strong male , when you are drunk ...


1 Comments, 46 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
starfire352 42 F
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is it wrong to be turned off?   8/29/2006

a situation that came up. i talked with an interesting man and was comfortable enough to agree to meet with him. now on the day that i was to meet i got sick. i imediately contacted him and told him that i couldn't meet and why. he responded that it was fine b/c he had his wife and two other younger girls that could satisfy him.
i know that a man on sites such as this would ...


8 Comments, 295 Views, 16 Votes ,4.16 Score
MSSimone 58 F
2 Articles
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A Primer on Male Submission by Ms Simone   8/21/2006

A Primer on Male Submission
A-Z
By Mistress Simone


Arousal and Denial: In regards to the male, denial is an excellent motivator. The promise or restriction of a possible orgasm will spur the strongest man to submission.
Ass tray Service: Can be either he holds it for you or he is the ashtray.
Body Worship and/or ...


3 Comments, 1117 Views, 20 Votes ,5.93 Score
BlueEyesInManila 55 M
2 Articles
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Travel   8/20/2006

How far would you be willing to travel to meet someone from this site? You can never really know someone until you've met them in person no matter how many emails or phone calls involved. Would you take the chance of going to another country if you thought this person MIGHT be worth it?


3 Comments, 133 Views, 1 Votes
tightbottom50 69 M
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Reporting hate & abuse   8/18/2006

I have recently become a victim in a hate crime. I make no bones about stating that the person was on this site, lives in the province and has been a member of this and some other groups.
Some of you may have seen her posts in this group. Many have not as I had to get up early to scan what she posted late at night and delete it. I complained to the other groups ...



2 Comments, 130 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
EXTREMEFETISH30 52 M
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Prostate Milking...? Reality ?   8/17/2006

I have been seeking any and all information about Prostate Milking. I read stories of endless orgasms and domination by Mistress. But I am having trouble experimenting. How long do you need to stimulate your prostate to start the cum from oozing out? How much can possible get from the milking? I have been able to get 3-4 drops but that's it. I want more..I want to run dry. How long ...


0 Comments, 387 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
fiestyfi 42 F
14 Articles
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Oral sex question...   8/14/2006

I hope I'm posting this in the right place. I couldn't work out whether to put it here or in articles.
I've picked here and hope I get an answer or two, as I'm really confused.
When I was with an ex b.f which was a vanilla relationship, he would give me oral sex a lot of the time. Not that I'm complaining!
But it was to the point that I thought he was just ...


2 Comments, 544 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
yrslaveboy24 46 M
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Dirty secrets and real life   8/12/2006

How are other people reconciling their dirty secrets here on alt with their real life? I'm finding it very hard to really meet people here on alt and fulfill the fantasies that keep me up at night, and still keep this part of my life secret. Obviously I don't want everyone to know that I love being tied up, spanked, teased, humiliated, fucked by women with strapons, and forced to suck ...


3 Comments, 193 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
coolbluemist 58 M
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Take it easy!!   8/11/2006

Folks, I have been on this site for a while.Years.What I see lately are a lot of people that are not taking the time to get to know someone before they invite them to thier network.I have found that the ladies invite who they are interested in.So, be nice and patient.You might have more fun here.


2 Comments, 127 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
ThePistoleer 53 M
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Labelling Sexuality. Is it really possible?   8/5/2006

I have been trying to figure this one out for ages. Can you really place everyone into a category? Is it possible to "label" people's sexuality?
For instance, someone who enjoys "Normal" M-F is labelled "Hetero-sexual". Someone who enjoys F-F is labelled "Lesbian"
M-M = Homo-sexual
M-M/F = Bi-sexual
F-F/M = Bi-sexual
M/M-M/F+M-F = swingers / ...


1 Comments, 46 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
watchermaster 63 M
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Linking Pissing and Spanking: do they go together?   7/29/2006

When I began to explore my sexual tastes online I found I seemed to be somewhat unusual. I love a girl, especially an adult little/school to piss her panties and be spanked for it. I can't find much on the web that relates to this area, and here I am at alt looking for sub women who have a similar interest to myself. Do pissing and spanking go together anywhere on the web? Do any women ...


1 Comments, 254 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
butterflys83 40 F
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Any advise for a single female that wants to attend a Voyer/Exhibitionist party?   7/25/2006

I am a single woman and I want to attend a voyerism/exibitionism party. I was wondering if anyone had any advise for me? What to wear? What to do? What not to do? I am new to all of this and I want to go and see what it is all about, but I'd rather not make a fool of myself.


1 Comments, 135 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
FatDickTop 59 M
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Tops bottom' turn around?   7/13/2006

Hello thank you for taking the time to read this rambling. I was married to a Male Marine for over twenty years and after all that time of (if I may modestly say) perfecting my talents as a bottom – I find my preferences to be more toward get some hunger hole (mouth or ass) and mercifully cramming it full to my satisfaction with my fat dick. This is not to say I do not enjoy the same at ...


1 Comments, 90 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
TsGoddess_Sheri 42 T
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More Tgurl Stuff!   7/12/2006

It's been a while sence I actualy posted something help full so here it go's. I work at a Drag Club and I see alot of different girls come and go. And see alot of them trying to be someone else. Which is why I am writing this, It is fine to want to model your look from someone, But NEVER try to be them! I am SO tired of seeing girls go under the knife SO much to look like a famous woman ...


0 Comments, 523 Views, 13 Votes ,4.49 Score
slutcunt4sadists 44 F
2 Articles
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Moving,,,,   7/6/2006

How to get to know a master that is in a different country when travel is limited? To know that 24/7 is possibility...


0 Comments, 196 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
slutcunt4sadists 44 F
2 Articles
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how can a men say he is a dominant...   7/6/2006

Why are married man that say that they are dominant...hide from their wife...???


2 Comments, 305 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
daddyneedslove 69 M
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ladies help please   7/6/2006

i recently have taken a new lover she is a friend and i dont want to hurt her she smells down there and i dont like the smell at all
is there a nice way to tell her she has to take a bath she is very sweet and we have been friends for over a year but well give me some advice on this smelly problem


3 Comments, 254 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
johnepsomsurrey 57 M
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Blindfolds A view   7/4/2006

Thank you for reading this.

Most of this is going to seem like teaching your granny to fart on Christmas day.
The majority of people just put a hood/fold over the eyes and think that the persons senses no longer exist, when they are heightened.
Softly, softly catches monkey
The most effective tool is total silence (putting ear-plugs in ...


0 Comments, 134 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
fiveinch2 66 M
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Shoe Fetish   7/3/2006

My Mistress and I share a shoe fetish. We go shopping together and I kneel in front of her in shops, helping her on and off with shoes, then paying for what she has chosen and carrying her bags like a servant. I would love her to call me slave in front of the assistants and to kiss her feet in public. Has anyone out there worked in a shoe shop and witnessed anything of this sort? I would ...


1 Comments, 117 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
mikeyhasler 35 M
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New fun play full up for learning new things   6/24/2006

Hi every one my name is michael im 22 male from hapsire im looking to make new freind have some fun and gain new life expernaces. I am out going sexyy and like to keep my body in shape i like rock music hip hop tattos and percing and wanting to learn more about the alt life syle. Will to travil and meet new people. Im kind and allway think of the other person first . I can be wild and kinky ...


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petercockright 78 M
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SOUL MATE SILLYNESS   6/21/2006

SOULMATE SILLINESS
Another butt bubble from the “What the Fuck Files”
What is it about some women who have this notion they can advertise for their soul mate? Hand over that menu of men. I want to order my Soul Mate. Surrender to me, I want you. It essentially reads like this.
“No one night stands. I’m looking for a LTR, my soul mate, my best friend, a good ...


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fiveinch2 66 M
6 Articles
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Pain Threshold   6/19/2006

I am in the wonderful position of being a submissive male who has just found a new Mistress. She enjoys thrashing me (and I mean ENJOYS). She uses a cane, a crop, a cat and several paddles on my butt, and regularly leaves bruises. Even so I feel that I am failig her if I use our safety word. I am devoted to this woman and would grately appreciate any advice on how I could raise my pain ...


0 Comments, 101 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
diver900 37 M
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Shaving   6/16/2006

Every time I use a razor to shave my pubic hair I always end up getting those nasty red bumps. How do I avoid them?


6 Comments, 353 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
06_handsome_06 42 M
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Easy to get a dom?   6/13/2006

How many have managed to find a dom.? Ive been here for some time and although i did chat to few, doesn't seem to be someone genuine out there, that would like to talk or meet. Or is it smth on my pro.? Let me know please and in case you like it, message me. Thanks


1 Comments, 119 Views, 0 Votes
smokeyjoenj 70 M
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Getting good blow jobs...   6/9/2006

Just a simple message guys... found this out after fucking a gal from Hawaii for a few months...
Eating lots of pinapple will change the taste of your cum substantially... they'll even say very delicious!
eat 3 times a day an in three days... they'll be sucking on ya like baby piglets!


0 Comments, 177 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
purgatory666 53 C
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BDSM & SOCIAL TOLERANCE:   6/3/2006

Social tolerance , verbal out look and different points of view With in the social structure of O/our lifestyle, the substructure seems to change with the points of views shared by the Doms and Dommes in Their tight knit groups, to fit Their own needs and social structure . If an individual or outsider comes in per say , as an outsider not knowing Their rules H/he or S/she is ...


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StuddedSonu 52 M
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90's Mood   6/2/2006

Two 90 year olds had been dating for a while, when the man told the woman, "Well, tonight's the night we have sex!" And so they did. As they are lying in bed afterward, the man thinks to himself, "My God, if I knew she was a virgin, I would have been much more gentle with her!" And the woman was thinking to herself, "My God, if I knew the old geezer could actually get it up, I would ...


0 Comments, 68 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
StuddedSonu 52 M
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Her Needs   6/2/2006

To most women affection symbolizes security, protection, comfort, and approval.

A hug can communicate all of the affirmations of the previous paragraph.

Affection can be shown in many ways such as: kisses, cards, flowers, dinners out, opening the car door, holding hands, walks after dinner, back rubs, phone calls there are a thousand ways to say "I love you." ...


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StuddedSonu 52 M
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Signs Of Infidelity   6/2/2006

If you have suspicious, consider some of the following and be as impartial as possible. Have you noticed a:
Sudden increase in time away from home.

Decreased sexual interest with you.

Cheating spouse is often distracted and day dreaming.

Cheating husband or wife is often unavailable while at work.

Cheating spouse attends ...


3 Comments, 404 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
StuddedSonu 52 M
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Marital Infidelity Facts   6/2/2006

A 1983 study found that 29 percent of married people under 25 had had an affair with no statistical difference between the number of men and women who chose to be unfaithful to their spouses.

By comparison, only 9 percent of spouses in the 1950s under the age of 25 had been involved in extramarital sex.

Another study concluded that by age 40 about 50 to 65 ...


1 Comments, 87 Views, 0 Votes
synne1989 35 F
2 Articles
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The faith   5/31/2006

I will communicate with complete honesty of my needs, desires, limits, and experiences to my Dom. I realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Dom and I from having the best experience possible, but it could also lead to physical and emotional harm. I will not try to manipulate my Dom. I will not push to make a scene go the way I feel it should, nor will I ...


3 Comments, 349 Views, 18 Votes ,6.13 Score
purgatory666 53 C
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what do you think?   5/31/2006

yes i love the lifestyle and yes i am always trying to being my self up to a higher and better way of life and i do respect life and rules but i think it should be left up to the ones that are playing to gather on what fits them and not by the masses to rule over them for each one walks a different path in life. as for me i would Rather be a leader then a sheep a person not someone that ...


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Sub_spot 35 M
3 Articles
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Better Dungeons and Play Spaces Vol 2 Fuzzy Flogger   5/29/2006

Welcome back. Today I decided to add how to make a Fuzzy Flogger to the short but growing list of toy directions. This one is geared towards the sensual play and is not very high on the impact. You could however make it so by adding small beads to the ends of the string. This project is relatively easy and should cost a total of about $20.00. I purchased every thing I ...


0 Comments, 162 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
lonestar387 48 M
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Little nipples   5/24/2006

I would like to know what is the best way to enlarge my nipples? I like to have clamps and such atached to them but there is not much there............


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Sub_spot 35 M
3 Articles
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Chastity 101   5/23/2006

Ok per a friend of mind most folks who are into chastity do not know too much about them and she gets a lot of requests for info about them. She asked me to jot down some experiences and thoughts about it to help them out. So here we go.
Types and brands, ok there are actually a great deal of choices out there for short and long term wear. But there are ...



0 Comments, 171 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
bindswat5 77 M
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Pondering   5/18/2006

I would like to get the other members’ opinion on this one. I’ve been into this lifestyle for some time now, but out of necessity I have kept it to myself. In fact if any of my relatives, friends or associates knew about it they’d be shocked. However I do have a female friend who does know about it. How she came to know doesn’t matter. Although she isn’t into the lifestyle ...


0 Comments, 106 Views, 0 Votes
rata7641 44 T
3 Articles
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Hairy or not?   5/12/2006

Do women want men with hairy bodies or do they prefer them waxed or shaved including the genitals.


0 Comments, 242 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
NibblesNLix 48 M
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Testicles are our friends.   5/11/2006

While giving BJs and HJs, please observe the following: The balls. Here's a nice little trick that some of you don't know. Heaps of you do know, the rest of you can simply nod your heads and revel in past experience. Using you index finger and thumb hold the top of the scrotum where it meets the base of the penis. Now wrap your two digits around the scrotum so the tips touch each other ...


2 Comments, 284 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
Slave_Trainer_FL
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Angry PAYING Member a Word to the wise   5/9/2006

*** I KNOW I AM NOT ALONE ADD YOUR COMMENTS ***
A vent from an angry member.
To the Executive Staff of Various, Inc,
I do not know why you are trashing your own website.. Many people I know are leaving because the site is becoming like Adult FriendFinder, your OTHER site.. BDSM is not about SEX, it never will be the MAIN focal point. ...


0 Comments, 239 Views, 7 Votes ,6.10 Score
Drirty_old_man 51 C
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So you think you have what it takes to be a Dom huh?   5/9/2006

You've thought about it, you've fantasized about it, and you've decided that it's for you. All well and good. Now to take the theory into practice. There's a distance between wanting to be a dom and being a dom, though, and it pays to be aware that there's more involved than you might think.
How hard can it be?
Trickier than it sounds. There's ...


6 Comments, 410 Views, 24 Votes ,7.33 Score
pulltoyforgirls 61 M
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how to capture webcam images if you have windows or windows xp   5/6/2006

hi all thought this might be of some use to anyone who wants to to take pics of people on web cams. Asking their permission first of course to take a web cam image in windows xp first press the print screen key then open up paint then press the control key plus v then save the image with the line gif you now have that image. in your pictures file hope this helps....


0 Comments, 64 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Slave_Trainer_FL
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Offers?   5/4/2006

Question..?
I am willing to pay for someone in the United States to relocate at my cost.

Is this a offering to buy the person such as the like buying a date? (yea ALT thinks this)
or
Is this a reasonable offer should she be the right slave I seek?
...


2 Comments, 207 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
singlenwanting 40 M
1 Article
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Need Help   4/30/2006

I am new to this and I am wondering if there are any attractive females who might help me in my new experimentation. Are there any of you that can help. Females only please.


0 Comments, 36 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Herkermer2 47 M
2 Articles
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Why   4/24/2006

This is the 3rd time that I'm trying to post this question. Thus far alt has denied it twice. Ok I have been a paying customer on this site for a long time and it's time something is done about it. At least half(probably more like 80 of the responses I get back from women are fake, and I know other guys are experiencing this same thing. Before long it's going to be as bad as Adult ...


2 Comments, 287 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
heepINangel 45 C
1 Article
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Is it wrong?   4/22/2006

Is it wrong sometimes I like to be filled up to the extrem? Could this hurt me in any way? I'm afraid that this might stretch things out to the point of no repair. Thanx, angel


4 Comments, 371 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
xxxplorers2 73 C
1 Article
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Idenitfying , email grabbers and such on alt   4/18/2006

As of late, alt seems to be inundated with , prostitutes and people grabbing personal email info for spamming.
A few tips we've found to be helpful and all based on the id. Don't bother with these. They are a waste of time.
- All are standard members. If you see someone with a paid membership, none of the following apply. -------------------------------------- - Seem ...


0 Comments, 232 Views, 15 Votes ,5.43 Score
dynamitesneonaty 41 M
11 Articles
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expectations   4/13/2006

As a reminder for those like myself; Don't get ahead of yourself with a new relationship, and don't have high expectations for at least a month, until everything eases down.


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MatchedSet 50 C
11 Articles
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Why Do You Suppose ???   4/7/2006

Why Do You Suppose We Do Some Of The Things That We Do??? You Can State What Would Be Considered To Be The Obvious...But I Take Pleasure From Hearing Your Most Thought Of And Deepest Feelings.
Enlighten Me!!!
...


2 Comments, 93 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
MatchedSet 50 C
11 Articles
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Am I A SWITCH Or A DOM ???   4/6/2006

Based Off Of What You May Have Read About/From Me...Ms.Kitty...How Do You Really Perceive Me??? As A Dom Or A Sub??? I Profess To Being A Switch, With A Submissive Side Of Course But What Do YOU Think Would Fit Me Best...Hence, The Reason I'm A Switch...I Enjoy It All From Both Sides...Though, Whatever Responses I Receive Will Not Change This...Simply Want To Know How I May ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 0 Votes
MatchedSet 50 C
11 Articles
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Simply A Little Insight...   4/6/2006

I'm Looking For A MASTER To Give Me A Few Tips On Being A MASTER...I'm Quite Dominant And My Partner Is Passive...I Want To Use This To Both Of Our Advantages...LOL ...


0 Comments, 31 Views, 0 Votes
MatchedSet 50 C
11 Articles
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Is There Something Wrong With A Sexually Free Spirited Woman???   4/6/2006

In the past, I've been faced with a dilemma...and am now reaching out to my fellow ALTS for a little input. Two part question...the other is below.
Question: How many men are intimidated by a sexually free-spirited and uninhibited woman???
What I've discovered personally, firsthand is that most are...maybe some won't admit it...but I truly believe a few of ...



2 Comments, 251 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
MatchedSet 50 C
11 Articles
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What Would Be Your BEST Suggestions???   4/5/2006

I Was Wondering What Some Of You Would Suggest For A Couple Where The Female Partner Has Had More Experience In The Lifstyle...And The Male Is Still A Beginner???
I'd Love To Dominate Him...He's Pretty Passive...So Would It Be Wise For Me To Simply Just Begin Placing Damands And Such Upon Him???
He's Said I Can Do Whatever I Like...He Wants Me To Lead And He ...



1 Comments, 65 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
tazydevl181 46 C
1 Article
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Cum Swallowing Tips   4/3/2006

Cum Swallowing Tips
Suck on an Altoid, Tic Tac, or mentholated cough drop immediately before giving head. Many guys enjoy getting a tingle from mint or menthol products on their willies. The mint will add a little zing to the blow job, and kill the taste of the semen when he cums. You can also use a dab of toothpaste in a pinch. We don't recommend mouthwash or breath sprays; ...


2 Comments, 492 Views, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
Meanness 66 F
1 Article
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Truth in age   4/2/2006

Greetings, Recently I was contacted through alt by another dom. The age on his profile was 60. When we met I thought he was older and asked him how old he was an he said 62 and then while telling a story he refered to himself as 65. We had met for a drink and seemed to click as two tops. I am 48 years old. My birthday is not April Fools Day as it says on my ...


1 Comments, 170 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
aquike4me 52 M
2 Articles
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can anyone out there help me?   4/1/2006

I am happily married but my sex life is suffering. My wife is great but there just doesn't seem to be enough time for sex. Have any of you got into this kind of situation? Is there anything i can do to help my sex life pick up? Anything at all let me know. Is there a video or toys that worked i'm willing to try just about anything.


2 Comments, 151 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
fiestyfi 42 F
14 Articles
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Is this dom safe or dangerous...   3/30/2006

Hi everyone, I'm a newbie sub who is trying to set out on the BDSM journey. So far its going ok, but I now think I've meet that 'dom guy' the one your warned about. So I'm looking for some advice and any suggestions from both subs and dom's.
Firstly we had chatted briefly, he knew I was a newbie and looking for a dom guy to train me, it was one conversation and with that came the ...


12 Comments, 933 Views, 12 Votes ,5.45 Score
Neo35911 38 M
1 Article
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Im new   3/27/2006

Im new to this sight and like to be the dom partner. Is there anyway i can find female partners who would be willing to be sub?


0 Comments, 82 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
monaangel 61 F
16 Articles
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Learning From my Own Mistakes   3/27/2006

I recently had written an article because I was very upset when My Sir had emailed me releasing me and getting off Alt, , Moving out of the state and stuff , ., .I Was wrong, He is not a Fake I wrote an article out of hurt and anger..I have since tried to connect to several different Dom's , ,I have had one disaster after another, , , Ladies and gentleman that also might be Sub's.This is a ...


0 Comments, 65 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
clitlicker5013 69 M
5 Articles
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Don't always rely on looks   3/25/2006

I have been with several women from this site. I have found that you should never rely on looks alone. Most of the women I have been with that are the "barbie" type are shallow. I think that the best women I have been with are not the barbie type. They are more down to earth and much more appealing. They make much better companions.


4 Comments, 186 Views, 12 Votes ,4.74 Score
Maestro05 49 M
9 Articles
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The Difference between S/M and Abuse   3/12/2006

A group of leaders and activists who attended the Leather Leadership Conference II in NYC on April 17-19, 1998, compiled the following set of ideals based on established community principles that SM is fundamentally different from abuse. We hope the community agrees to the following Standards & Guidelines that are intended to help the law enforcement and social services communities ...


1 Comments, 220 Views, 12 Votes ,5.45 Score
MistressLila 68 C
3 Articles
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Advice for new male submissives   3/9/2006

This article is being written by Mistress Lila's male submissive. my name is pleasure.
Hello. Let me tell you a little bit about me and why i have the right to address this topic.
i have been a submissive since i was 23. i am 50 now. My first wife was a Dominant. She trained me as a service sub to Her and Her friends. (ok guys, get your heads out of your crotches. Not ...


3 Comments, 264 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
dcsandrea 42 F
2 Articles
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What I looked for   3/6/2006

Since I wrote something about what I do not want to see in messages and profiles and since I have gone forward and I am in the process of actually becoming owned, I thought I would write about what I looked for. I will put a strong disclaimer that this is purely one girl’s opinion and thought process and that is all. I would expect we all have different ways when it comes to this subject. ...


2 Comments, 283 Views, 14 Votes ,5.22 Score
YimYim123 43 M
7 Articles
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Whats the catch with Dommes?   3/5/2006

OK whats the catch? Your profile isnt advertizing for money or anything so whats the catch? Dont tell me, your looking for free labour or something? I mean you cant actually be looking for a male sub for a real relationship can you surely?


1 Comments, 153 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
heavyballs4u 78 M
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at Boston's Logan Airport   3/1/2006

The airport limo brought her up to the main door, When she stepped out I nearly fell to the floor She was a wearing a Black Vinyl raincoat, and matching boots Her porter accidentally dropped her bag, he wasn't very astute When he bent over, her stiletto heel found...leaving its mark It sounded like a whoof, he keeled over_N_he didn't dare bark Picked up her bags, and he lap dogged ...


0 Comments, 244 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
jackudamiona 59 C
13 Articles
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Oral Sex, Who's really in charge?   3/1/2006

Have you ever wondered about that question? It seems to be that if you ask a woman, it's them on both ways. If you ask a man you get the same answer that they are. So which is true? That depends on the situation. Of course if the giver is tied up the reciever is in control. If reciever is tied up then the giver is in control. If no restrants are involved thats the shady grey area. ...


1 Comments, 305 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
27SexySensitive 50 M
2 Articles
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Take your time to learn all you can   2/25/2006

Every one's in such a hurry these day's and not getting any ware fast.Take your time to learn all you can with in you World.Enjoy life and all it has to offer good and bad.Ying & Yang good & evil spinning toghter in a perfect circle of Harrmoney much like your own little World.


0 Comments, 78 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
trucker142 71 M
3 Articles
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cross dressing   2/25/2006

I"am A strict sraight man but love to wear womans clothes nylons, heals.short skirts etc.Is that normal or am seeking something else.


6 Comments, 416 Views, 12 Votes ,2.27 Score